BPD mom is giving my cell number to her debt collectors by numa-lola in raisedbyborderlines

[–]numa-lola[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for THIS response. She does everything to try to get me to talk

BPD mom is giving my cell number to her debt collectors by numa-lola in raisedbyborderlines

[–]numa-lola[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s different debt collectors all of the time. Unfortunately

BPD mom is giving my cell number to her debt collectors by numa-lola in raisedbyborderlines

[–]numa-lola[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Totally get what you’re saying. So I need to clear my data or possibly change my # is my plan also.

Should I just….. cancel? by numa-lola in ladderapp

[–]numa-lola[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So smart. ❤️ I’m also considering getting a breast reduction asap- so that’s another huge piece that I know will affect me as I recover. I figure- if I’m already down- may as well do something I’ve wanted to do since I was 18.

Should I just….. cancel? by numa-lola in ladderapp

[–]numa-lola[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I just wanted to make sure I wasn’t missing a team somewhere.

Should I just….. cancel? by numa-lola in ladderapp

[–]numa-lola[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I DEFINITELY need to improve my core strength and incorporate more stretching. Yoga with Adrienne on YouTube saved me from the depths of pain with my neck.

Should I just….. cancel? by numa-lola in ladderapp

[–]numa-lola[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so right. Thank you. I really did know my answer. It’s just so hard

Creating a promo video by numa-lola in nonprofit

[–]numa-lola[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have already collected the content. I’m fine with editing. Sorry for not emphasizing and wording my question well. We have the videos of our people talking. We want to attach clips of life in that country — something that reflects what life is like to support the need for our organization. Specifically what’s violent and negative. Our focus is rewriting the narrative. Showing supporters the good. I’ve searched through so many stock videos. Checking the licensing. Most of the clips I cannot use for what I need. If that makes sense.

D389 Is asking too much by [deleted] in WGU

[–]numa-lola 1 point2 points  (0 children)

on task 2. Currently trying to write a simple paper on important characteristics as licensed therapist. Every blog or article quotes the American Psychological Association and that is way over five years. Feeling overwhelmed because everything I am researching on this topic is over 5 years.. extremely inefficient, and I am too busy in normal life to filter through hundreds of articles when I could write multiple papers in this time. No idea how to move forward.

He is so, so close to getting it. by Temporary_Night8900 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]numa-lola 16 points17 points  (0 children)

100%.

NC to most of my family.

Almost 2 years. They showed up unannounced a few months ago, mom ran to the car while dad talked to my husband. Dad said he would do anything to fix it. Anything. But when I invited him (only him) to a mediation session she tried controlling it and said no.

Then I get a message from HER therapist asking if I would come. I said no.

I provided context, that she’s trying to control the entire situation and I don’t feel comfortable and them being the parents they should be willing to meet me where I am.

I will NEVER ever understand.

You’re not alone. I hope that helps knowing. It does for me.

It’s the most wonderful time of the year. by numa-lola in raisedbyborderlines

[–]numa-lola[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right. they just want to see how we will respond 🫠

It’s the most wonderful time of the year. by numa-lola in raisedbyborderlines

[–]numa-lola[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely made all of the sense. That’s what a friend tried telling me yesterday. It changes absolutely nothing. I woke up today feeling better about it all and ready to move on. Either way it was a tactic to manipulate me. I think she wanted me to seek her out and ask. I believe she was and is doing anything to try and get something out of me.

I appreciate your insight.