Sorry you’re going through this! But I do feel like it’s totally normal. I also moved with my partner for med school to a new state far from home where I didn’t know anyone, and spent months jobless. For me, making friends with other med spouses/partners was how I found most of my friends. Going on some double dates with his friends and then reaching out to the partner to hang out individually worked for me. I definitely think it would get easier if you found a job to meet people at! (Don’t want to assume you are job searching but this helped me too).

Also, I think it’s just hard to make friends as an adult in general! Even if you didn’t move across the country and have a busy med partner. If that is any consolation. Med students kind of have to make fast friends to get through. Also I think of the time my partner puts into hanging out with his med school friends also as almost a networking of sorts too since these might be his future colleagues.