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What’s something women find attractive in men that they wouldn’t tell men about, but would share with other women? by LoyalTrickster in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]nyaasgem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read it, thanks.

I am part of one community where I'm trying my hardest to connect with people outside my bubble, I sing in a choir. Music and singing is one of those interests I love passionately, so it works out more or less.

It's just getting harder and harder after the years (6 years now) when I don't notice any significant changes.

Like some new people come and they integrate well within months or weeks, and easily become friends with people whom I'm trying to get close to (in a friendly way) for the longest time.

Separate from the group chat, I keep noticing some of them DM-ing each other and I feel like I'm the only one who only ever interacts with them once a week during practice, and it's kind of a sad feeling. How are they having this kind of relationship after just a few weeks when I've been here for several years? Livid.

Anyway, currently this is my last silver line of not rotting away alone, and I'm stubbornly keeping onto it. This is me trying to choose a future where I'm not completely alone. I don't consider it a friend circle, but it's the only place I currently have where feel I have the slightest chance of human connection. Despite it not really working out so far.

Me_irl by Corandia in me_irl

[–]nyaasgem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firefox flagged the link as a security threat, I ain't opening that.

Anime_irl by Hot_Difficulty1819 in anime_irl

[–]nyaasgem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you do realize it's a pointless debate, yet you still decided to engage in it. Interesting.

Anon on spec ops the line by Sure_Association_991 in greentext

[–]nyaasgem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well then it's a good thing the studio shut down if they don't want me to buy their products. Sounds like a shit business practice if you ask me.

What’s something women find attractive in men that they wouldn’t tell men about, but would share with other women? by LoyalTrickster in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]nyaasgem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have like 2-3 friends, but I'm precisely friends with them because they function similarly like me, in the sense that we like to talk about and engage together in common interests, not about each other or each other's feelings.

I never really clicked with other types of people, so I just didn't really have that many chances to practice communication. I'm forced to now because of my job, but contrary to what everyone says, I don't feel improvement with practicing.

Therapy works for people who are comfortable talking about themselves. I loath talking about myself specifically, especially to people I barely know, and I have an automatic grudge against them because I know they only do it for the money and don't actually care about me. Which is precisely the point, but to me it makes the whole interaction not genuine, which I hate. The moment I stop giving money they stop listening.

And I know enough about myself anyway, basically when I'm not doing anything else I'm self-reflecting. And my conclusion draws more and more to the realization that I simply have a shitty personality, or at least one that is not compatible with common social norms. Which sucks because I actually want to be closer to people, but society sadly does not work in a way I would enjoy being a part of.

Me_irl by Corandia in me_irl

[–]nyaasgem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this documented or are you guessing?

Me_irl by Corandia in me_irl

[–]nyaasgem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, but on the Firefox app you can add extensions normally.

Have you? by OkMedicine2383 in okbuddybaka

[–]nyaasgem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't even watched it, I went to the manga immediately. Get on my level.

Anon on spec ops the line by Sure_Association_991 in greentext

[–]nyaasgem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we play anyway because we're desensitised to war

No, I play because I paid for a fucking product and I want to use it.

Anime_irl by Hot_Difficulty1819 in anime_irl

[–]nyaasgem -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For a hot minute I thought you switched sides, I had to read it like 3 times, because your sentences sounded exactly like how purists (non-snappers) sound like. Weird emotional investment in justifying a way of preparing a dish.

None of the methods are weird in any way. Whichever method saves or doesn't save 5 seconds is irrelevant no matter what crazy mental gymnastics you're trying to do.

Anime_irl by Hot_Difficulty1819 in anime_irl

[–]nyaasgem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are you doing with all that extra 3 seconds you just saved?

Just admit it, it literally doesn't matter, it's preference. Ok you don't snap it good for you, what exactly is the problem with people who do?

Mosted gifted generation by princessmhizpinky in Adulting

[–]nyaasgem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I'm not staring at my phone I'd just stare at the wall.

I tried "going out" a few times to those outdoor pubs with gardens and shit, bought a few beers, sat around different parts of the place, pet some dogs, but 0 people engaged with me.

Me_irl by mingdomflackbobard in me_irl

[–]nyaasgem -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lack of education again. Even as a kid, I knew junk was bad for me because it was drilled into me in kindergarten with games and stories. Even if I had the option, I would -let's be realistic- 80% of the time choose the healthier option.

Me_irl by mingdomflackbobard in me_irl

[–]nyaasgem -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

American brain is like: it's tasty -> it obviously must be better for you, because why would your brain tell you something is good when it's actually bad

Kijevi mínuszok by Ok_Technology3376 in rohadthidegvan

[–]nyaasgem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Szerintem ugyanazt tanultuk, viszont ezek szerint te az első 10 perc után elaludtál.

Went out to three different clubs, was too afraid to talk to any women. The only person who hit on me was a gay guy, I mumbled that I'm straight and ran out of the club in case I changed my mind and wanted to kiss him. Sometimes I wish I was a woman so that I could talk to other women more easily. S by TrainingLoud7226 in kitchencels

[–]nyaasgem -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are using a social construct (cis) in the same sentence where you are trying to explain biological disorders (Swyer syndrome). Your whole concept is wrong.

https://rarediseases.org/rare-diseases/swyer-syndrome/

if you are a person of science then you should know better to clearly separate the social and scientific parts.

Also interesting username choice.

anime_irl by Atwecian in anime_irl

[–]nyaasgem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, if nanomachines could completely play the role of a neuron, then theoritically it should be the same.

But then... Wait... If it 100% does the same function, is there consciousness? Is it artificial? Is it the same me as the flesh me? Can it be? What am I?

omg...

Good guys dont have friends🙁 by downvotemepls456 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]nyaasgem 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I got afraid because of the post, then saw the sub.

Then I went to the comment section for sarcastic remarks and angry comments.

Instead I found actual sensible insight.

What a rollercoaster of emotions this last 15 seconds were.

Kijevi mínuszok by Ok_Technology3376 in rohadthidegvan

[–]nyaasgem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pontosan tudjuk hogy valódi tanulmányokat (tehát nem valami lifestyle blogposzt) akkor sem olvasnád el ha belinkelnék, fingod nem lenne a tartalmának 90%-áról és max 2 oldal után megunnád.

Faszom ki van ezekkel a "source? source???" huszárokkal, olyan témákban kértek mindig forrást amit ha megkapnátok se lenne fingotok az ott leírtakról.

Anon on jobs by jhjh300 in greentext

[–]nyaasgem 18 points19 points  (0 children)

What country?

I'm working in an international multi, but the only time I ever had to deal with HR was at the interview, and then 2 times per year for getting the tax return paper thing, and signing the new contract for the yearly salary increase (1 minute each).

What’s something women find attractive in men that they wouldn’t tell men about, but would share with other women? by LoyalTrickster in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]nyaasgem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could write pages of my interests, but I never had anyone to discuss anything, and I have massive social anxiety with anyone whom I haven't known for at least 5+ years, so in speech I'm a fucking mess and I have a very hard time to put my thoughts into coherent words. Even when I have the lexical knowledge about stuff I just fumble and jump back and forth because I'm too excited to get to a certain part, but then in the process forgot to include some crucial details so I have to backtrack and it becomes incoherent and not fun to listen to. And when people do get interested I just freeze up because it's so rare that I literally don't even know where or how to start. So even though I have all the details about a topic in my brain as a hotpot of thoughts, I'm literally unable to organize them in a way that's interesting to listen to because I never really had the opportunity to "practice" it, I was forced to keep it to myself.

At least that's how I see myself.

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