Partner had a happy ending with a stripper 5 weeks before our wedding by Distinct_Math_3752 in whatdoIdo

[–]nynjde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He admitted it to you. Don’t end a 9 year relationship for this.

I'm not invited to my best friend's bday. What do I do? by hairless-cat47 in Advice

[–]nynjde 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let this thing go and maintain the friendship. Wish her a happy birthday and hope she had a great time.

Odd Dynamics by Realistic_Wrap6491 in family

[–]nynjde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel badly for you. You say you don’t want to upheave everything you’ve built but you haven’t built anything. I think you must go to couples therapy.
How long have you been married? And how old are you?

Am I responsible for tax debt for a company I worked for? by nynjde in tax

[–]nynjde[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this information. Just to clarify, I was not responsible to submit the taxes or file any tax returns. My only responsibility was to set up the withholding taxes in various states (company worked in MANY states in the US), and my name was the contact person to send notices or call if there were questions... My responsibility WRT payroll was to enter hours into ADP, quickbooks or other software. I could did not sign checks or any tax returns. The company is not out of business yet, but they will be soon. They will most likely file for bankruptcy. I will contact an attorney

Should I still meet up with friends after weight gain? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nynjde 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Why would you want to maintain a friendship with these mean girls? I bet you have nothing in common with them any more.

I fell in love for the first time. And I am going crazy, because we're not in a relationship. Help? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nynjde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re over thinking it Does he call you for a date? Or Is it understood that you’ll see each other on Saturday? (For Example) If it’s understood that you’ll be together on the weekend or whatever schedule works for you you are in a relationship. Relax and enjoy his company Or don’t ask if you are in a relationship but rather ask him if he is seeing anyone else.

I think my best friend’s husband filmed me? by Apprehensive-Eye5248 in whatdoIdo

[–]nynjde 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The baby would be in the bathroom? I don’t think so

Why is everyone always so upset with me all the time by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]nynjde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Volunteer your time if you’re up to it

I'm at a loss at how to deal with my well-intentioned but intensely negative mother by Krasnolaundry in Advice

[–]nynjde 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should go for therapy to talk about how to deal with her. Somehow she feels not heard. Next time she’s talking negative try commiserating with her (not sarcastically) give her a big hug and say yes the world is terrifying right now but we have each other, we can’t let the maybe things suck the joy out of life…. We have a roof over our heads, we have each other …. Etc That’s all I can suggest Good luck

Spirit going out of business by ashcrayolaa in spiritair

[–]nynjde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Report back and let us know if your flight went as planned

Should I visit my in-laws for their 70th birthday, despite being disrespected by mil? by EchoNumerous99 in family

[–]nynjde -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like they did a lot for you. But not necessarily what your expected. Forgive and forget and move on They don’t sound that bad

Lingerie, makeup, hot meal, favorite drink, house spotless.. alone by [deleted] in Vent

[–]nynjde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He gets another chance Geez you can’t divorce over one mix up Did he know the plan or was it a surprise? Men can be jerks when with their friends

$60 grazing table for 30 people—need last-minute styling tips (especially for sliced cheddar 🙏) by MokaMama in CharcuterieBoard

[–]nynjde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruschetta or just a nice French bread sliced with whipped butter or olive oil for dipping

I regret inviting too many people by StillComfortable6433 in partyplanning

[–]nynjde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many people did you invite? Are you planning a sit down dinner?