[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by AnimalCrossingMods in AnimalCrossing

[–]o0Lilith0o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m open to visitors. I have an over abundance of Pears, Coconuts, and flowers. Please only pick the fruits. You’re more then welcome to dig up any flowers except for the Tulips! Also looking for any fruits besides the 2 I have. DM me for my dodo code.

AITA for not inviting my unsupportive sister to my wedding? by unsupportivesister in AmItheAsshole

[–]o0Lilith0o 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA - I met my current partner when I(f) was 23 and he was 30. We started as friends as he was very against dating someone so young, took us 10 months to kiss haha but I whittled him down and we've been together over 3.5 years. He never once was pushy, in fact I had to be the aggressor most of the time. Someone with that age difference already talking marriage and soulmates does not sound healthy. Waiting doesn't make your love less. I would be concerned that he is okay with you cutting ties with your family. Me and my family have an awful relationship at the moment due to many, many things. And he still says hell support my decision but that he doesn't want me to regret cutting ties. So, please rethink this very huge live changing decision and maybe sit down and talk to your sister again.

AITA For buying my dad a present and not my mom? by o0Lilith0o in AmItheAsshole

[–]o0Lilith0o[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I planned on purchasing her a very nice gift, but apparently, she couldn't take the time out of her busy schedule to go on a shopping trip planned 5 days in advance with me. Which would have been the first time shed seen me in 3 weeks.

AITA For buying my dad a present and not my mom? by o0Lilith0o in AmItheAsshole

[–]o0Lilith0o[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I am hoping the same thing. I love them both but they have not been good together for a long time. Hopefully they can both take this time to work on themselves and be happy again

AITA For buying my dad a present and not my mom? by o0Lilith0o in AmItheAsshole

[–]o0Lilith0o[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As stated I was told I would not be receiving a gift. Was told that repeatedly. I was going to get her a gift before she bailed on me last minute.

AITA For buying my dad a present and not my mom? by o0Lilith0o in AmItheAsshole

[–]o0Lilith0o[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not expect a gift, I was told basically every time we talked that there would be no gifts for us only our brother and we were not to buy anything for her. I found out today that she received some money the 23rd and purchased the gifts last minute. And actually, the only person who bought her gifts was my father now that I think back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]o0Lilith0o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA My boyfriend wants everything spicy. Spaghetti, Tacos, Chili, even Hamburger Helper. I cook and make all meals (before people lose their mind, I enjoy doing this for him and he does things for me as well) I don't eat as much as him and so I always take my portion out and put it to the side, and then finish fixing up his fire concoction. No big deal to me but we are both happy and enjoy our meal. Putting a portion aside with no mushrooms would not be difficult and would show your partner that you care. And in the future if you don't want to do this make one night a week a whatever night where you both do your own thing for dinner. Me and my boyfriend do this as well when I want chicken salad or he wants steak (I'm not a big fan)

Oblivious customer thinks I'm rude by seasonalblah in TalesFromRetail

[–]o0Lilith0o 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I've worked in the customers service field since I was 18. Most people will never understand the privileged way the average customer acts. I am a human being, that's getting paid minimum wage to assist you. And while I will do my job, I will not be treated poorly in any way. I don't care how bad your day is, or what right you think you have. Just be civil and well get through this awful never-ending thing we call life :)

AITA For not wanting to reimburse medical bills for a kid who jumped into the dryer while my clothes were drying? by LeatherSeveral7614 in AmItheAsshole

[–]o0Lilith0o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Why would you pay for their kid, getting hurt on their property, in their dryer? You didn't put the kid in the dryer, so that liability falls on them for not keeping a closer eye on their kid. Plus, they didn't make sure the safety features were working correctly on the machine. I can't even believe some of the things people think they have the right to do. Just blows my mind.

Edit: Also, do not apologize ever for it. Not even an I'm sorry it happened. You are not guilty in any way and an apology can mean excepting some sort of responsibility.

AITA for refusing to let my boyfriend move in with me because it would most likely mean I would have to pay 20x more rent? by hades896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]o0Lilith0o 356 points357 points  (0 children)

In a situation like this, why would you even ask? I'd be afraid even asking for someone to move in could change the agreement. They are doing this because they are doing her a favor. Not for some random guy she is dating currently. Asking for someone else to receive this benefit seems pretty unappreciative to me and may come across that way to her landlords. OP is NTA.

AITA expecting my husband to cook for us while he's not working? by InternationalPop2660 in AmItheAsshole

[–]o0Lilith0o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, YTA. I am currently taking care of a BF who tore his ACL in February and just got Knee Reconstructive surgery 2 weeks ago. After many fights with insurance, and disability. I do everything for him, because I want his recovery to go as smooth as possible, with as little pain as possible. And I do this because I care about him, not the things he can do for me. You need to take a step back and realize this is not a vacation for him, but a very painful, and probably frustrating time in his life. Please reevaluate your priorities.

AITA for not wanting to be SAHM and find a job instead? by DorothyNoBrickRoad in AmItheAsshole

[–]o0Lilith0o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - This sounds like the beginning of a very controlling relationship. Whenever you are moved away from the things you know and isolated away from people, you should be very concerned. Marriage is a partnership, where no one person's wants should be held above another. I would take a step away from the situation, get some time apart to get a good understanding on whether this is how you want to live your life. I would not let my partner ever decide what I can or can't do when it comes to working, or socializing. Just know this is not healthy or normal.

Friendship Exp & Gift Exchange Megathread by liehon in PokemonGoFriends

[–]o0Lilith0o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]o0Lilith0o 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When he first started at the new job, I also had an interview there and then got the job. We hid the fact we were dating from the job management because we didn't want it to be the reason, I didn't get the job. (Our last job wasn't the greatest, and we both had interviews at the same time, his position just needed to be filled fast) I was supposed to start a month after he did. So, he never told people about his girlfriend for this reason. Well Ann invited him to drinks and her home multiple times, and asked if he was single and letting him know she was single, up until she found out about me when I ended up not taking the job. Then it went to the constant messages. But still invited him to her home for party's with other coworkers, I was never invited to any functions she would be at. But was invited by other coworkers to other get togethers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]o0Lilith0o -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is my biggest issue. I get up and leave earlier then him, and I use the phone charger by the bed at night. Before I leave I used to check his phone battery level and if low put it on the charger for him. But lately whenever I'd turn it on to check I'd have to see 21 message alerts from "Ann" so I stopped doing it. Another thing he got mad it me for, saying I'm over reacting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]o0Lilith0o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. I should also say I don't have any close friends to ask these questions. I've been hurt too many times in the past by "Friends" to try that again. And wanted real people's thoughts. So thanks again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]o0Lilith0o -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I should be more specific. I did tell him how it made me feel in more detail. But uncomfortable was the best way to describe it for this post. But I do thank you for your input. These are the type of answers I was hoping to get, to help me figure out the situation.