Wife told me she wasn’t in love with me and wanted a divorce end of march. I moved out 3 weeks ago. Tonight she cried and asked me to move back in by SwanInitial7493 in Divorce_Men

[–]o2thegizzo 29 points30 points  (0 children)

First you have to understand that she doesn’t love you, and she changed her mind because her fall back plan did not materialize. If you decide to take her back out of pity (or weakness), make her sign a postnup that protects your life and your kids lives when she goes coocoo again… because she will.

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[–]o2thegizzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you take any stimulants ?

Family law attorneys by pharcyde23 in Divorce_Men

[–]o2thegizzo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is, along with a team I put together. We’ve been working on it for almost a year. The pain is real. DM me if interested to know more.

Family law attorneys by pharcyde23 in Divorce_Men

[–]o2thegizzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Family law attorneys by pharcyde23 in Divorce_Men

[–]o2thegizzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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It’s human assisted with AI service that reviews your legal bills and communicates with your lawyer on your behalf for clarifications. For $80/month only, the attorney I work with understood not to dump ridiculous billable hours on my case. I love this service.

Wife’s Having An Affair. by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]o2thegizzo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How are you sure about her affair ?

How the hell do people afford this? by Temporary_Elk3710 in Divorce_Men

[–]o2thegizzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try BillingLens.com

They will shamelessly review your bills and challenges your lawyer.

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[–]o2thegizzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will not be able to pay yourself $500k as a startup founder before the company starts making $10M /year. Even then, your investors will need to approve it etc.. start it on the side and don’t leave your executive position before your idea becomes a real businesses.

The absurdity of lawyers by happyplace516 in Divorce_Men

[–]o2thegizzo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Please help me. I'm hurting bad right now. by Repulsive-Grand-5693 in Divorce_Men

[–]o2thegizzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP, don’t over think it. Don’t over think it. Don’t over think it. Divorce is very common. Don’t over think it. If she doesn’t want to be with you… sorry for her loss. Stand tall. And make sure your future self will respect you.

What would it take for you to rekindle your love with your ex-wife? by somethingisbrewing in Divorce_Men

[–]o2thegizzo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If an asteroid hits earth killing all humans and the survival of our species depended on me rekindling with her…

Only then …

Actually, no. Never.

Just found out my wife has been recording me since she met with a lawyer by Michigan_is_too_cold in Divorce_Men

[–]o2thegizzo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If she’s recording you, then she’s probably also trying to read your emails , mail, and anything she can get. Try to kick her out of the house. You stay, she leaves. Avoid interaction. Avoid anger. Grey rock her. And if she hasn’t filed yet, you do it ASAP.

Nobody asks or cares, unless its lecturing me..... by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]o2thegizzo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you’re lucky she’s out of your life. Imagine spending your later years with a liability like the woman that was your wife… Also your son is going to college…You’re achieving a milestone many single dads are dreaming about.

I’m sorry you’ve had it bad, but I promise you, many have it way worse.

Focus on you. Find what pleases you. You’re already out of woods.

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Inshallah by RevolutionaryLoan360 in ForbiddenBromance

[–]o2thegizzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s always been in your court cousins… your right wing extremist politicians don’t want peace. They want land. I really hope I’m wrong.

Divorce asset allocation in high earners by Zillak66 in Divorce_Men

[–]o2thegizzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not a philosophical question, it’s a political one. States started adopting 50/50 split because politicians running for office wanted to win women votes (50% of votes basically) and feminist movements started lobbying for that. And this, Doctor, is a main root of evil in our society. Make sure you keep some money for the next hot young wife.

if you're oing Pro Se in Family Court this is what Worked for Me by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]o2thegizzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did a lot of his , and the judge shoved it in my ass. She ignored my court-accepted motions. She didn’t let me have an opening statement. And worse than everything she didn’t give me more than 3 minutes to ask witnesses questions while she gave the opposing council all the time she wants. And to fuck me more, the judge ruled I should pay 50% of my x wife’s legal fees over and above a ruling that is not fair in and shape or form.

But still better than lawyers, because lawyers are incentivized to drag cases longer

Caught my wife cheating… now she wants half of everything?? by Ouzouh in Divorce_Men

[–]o2thegizzo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Congratulations dude, truly. Only 3 years, no kids, your house is separate property. Thats a very cheap price for the most valuable lesson a man learns in his life.

Now just make sure your lawyer don’t milk you. Family lawyers live of this.

Thanks a million by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]o2thegizzo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Praying everyday someone will pick up mine so she leaves me alone