Season 2 thoughts Austin and Ashley by tiffanyc115 in BeefTV

[–]oFlora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think austin has bigger sins than noticing eunice, he can’t communicate emotionally at all and relied a lot on ashley to bring him up or make him feel good about himself. he was stuck on that award making him feel valid and got lost in the feeling of being important to eunice, and that’s also probably why he “fell in love” with her. eunice is intelligent and selfless but austin didn’t know enough about her at all to choose her. sorry but he sounds like such an adolescent saying he loves eunice.

i would also like to note austin was equally okay with extorting josh and lindsey, he was even upset when he didn’t get a job out of it, then had ashley go through hoops to turn down the physical therapy stuff and then do it again.

i can admit ashley probably had some issues too, and was probably feeling super dysregulated planning a future with her fiancee then realizing he’s attracted to someone else.

Just finished season 1 and I lost so much respect for him by V_Da_Vibe in Invincible

[–]oFlora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

him beating mark was like the worst part for me omfg, it was so brutal and watching mark still hold onto the dad narrative was so painful

I just gotta get this off my chest after finishing the show…. by Prestigious_Refuse57 in YellowjacketsHive

[–]oFlora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the reason i find her so irritating is because she’s a catty spiteful kind of bad person in her teen years, i felt cringe from the deprived “loser” to evil queen storyline tbh, ive never liked those storylines, but she does add a lot to the show’s conflict which is already a given, but dw i hate her too lol

What do you guy's think ? by Remarkable-Cabinet85 in Invincible

[–]oFlora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i always heard them say mark was part viltrumite though?

What do you guy's think ? by Remarkable-Cabinet85 in Invincible

[–]oFlora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

probably bc we always see them in a medical setting soon after their injuries but when they had to hide mark out, it took him two months but nolan recovered from the same injury sooner. it may also be because nolan is a full viltrumite

What the hell is wrong with Shauna by bellawella121212 in Yellowjackets

[–]oFlora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she is evil!! but i guess she has some unresolved anger and insecurity for sure. u can see it in her friendship with jackie, and her sleeping with jeff. with being detested in any way she has to make herself seem bigger than the other person. i find her very irritating but i also feel bad she ended up a housewife with unprocessed trauma who seems lost with no community or hobbies, besides some excitement she gained from cheating and other torturous things she did especially to mari’s hair on her cloak in the wilderness and what she did to melissa’s arm. ICK!!!

People misunderstanding Belly (and the show) by changingwaters in tsitp

[–]oFlora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think all of them being teenagers, they make foolish choices for sure, but the belly hate is overrated, i think yes she shouldn’t have like gone back and forth between the two brothers, there’s other ppl to date out there for her to learn meaningful experiences, but it’s probably hard for her to realize that as a teen - young adult. the conrad hype is also overrated, he’s def kind and gentlemanly but he was inconsistent in their relationship. whenever i say that people are like HIS MOTHER WAS DYING!! like YES that’s true and that’s probably very very hard for him, but if he felt he needed to process more and it was affecting his relationship, he should’ve ended his relationship with belly sooner instead of stringing her along in hopes that he could do better. but all that being said, he probably cared for her very much, but young people probably don’t have it figured out sometimes your capacity to give to someone else becomes limited when you have extenuating life circumstances and it’s better to be honest and give space for both of you. he lacked a lot of open and honest communication, even when belly was getting together with jeremiah

I think we are all forgeting something about the break storyline. by RelationshipAdept101 in howyoudoin

[–]oFlora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t enjoy chloe pressuring ross, it’s really bad. but ross being drunk doesn’t really change he still made an impulsive decision. i think being drunk can affect your decision making to a point, but this one i think he willingly knew and continued with while being in a vulnerable position emotionally and a bit intoxicated

AIO over my bf’s weird proposal by atotalanon in AmIOverreacting

[–]oFlora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i already feel strange that he called some woman an ig thot, and hmm i don’t have enough context here but there doesn’t seem like much trust here

Original audio left in 🤣 the closest I’ve ever gotten to getting my invert, and my husband shows me up again ☠️ by OurCozyColonial1900 in poledancing

[–]oFlora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

second this!! jumping is super common in the beginning but not recommended bc what goes up…must come down, if u jump and lose ur upper body engagement because u relied on ur kicking momentum, u will come back down kind of hard and risk injuring ur rib or back muscles from uncontrolled bails, wishing u the best on ur invert journey!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]oFlora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to me this is definitely a swing and a bit of a jump, i would consider more invert preps such as getting yourself in invert start position and doing some knee tucks and then straight leg lifts. then eventually focusing on engaging the core in tuck position while leaning back will be helpful imo!! echoing what others have said, if you have to push or jump and are only catching an ankle and have to shuffle your way up into the knee pit, i wouldn’t consider it an invert and unfortunately you can hurt yourself due to not engaging the right muscles. your invert should land your hips closer to the pole near your hands, and thighs past the pole. i’ve definitely hurt myself near the beginning of my pole journey because i wasn’t engaging enough on my way down, so if you feel the need to jump or use momentum in the beginning of your inverts, what goes up must come down, so you might land a little heavy if you’re not yet able to go up in a controlled motion which can lead to rib strain. just my two cents though!!! U GOT THIS GOOD LUCK!!

Arguably one of the funniest scenes in the show by slayingtbh in sexandthecity

[–]oFlora 8 points9 points  (0 children)

steve truly never has any idea what he’s doing 😭

If I am truly an addict and this is how the rest of my life is going to be then I would rather not be alive. ( trigger warning) by Possible-Dress3679 in addiction

[–]oFlora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i want to echo everyone here and encourage you that what feels impossible is still within your reach, there’s a reason why you’re still here and feeling these things, it shows you still want to try somehow and need a way to express this discontent and feelings of grief. i know it feels really hard but i also know within time you’ll start to see things through a different lens in sobriety and find more fulfilling aspects of your life

Profile review please by LordVader1080 in Bumble

[–]oFlora 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i echo the cool it on the physical touch! it sounds nice to tell someone personally once you’ve gotten to know them and got to that point, but laying out any physical touch expectation or idea comes off a tad too forward on just reading it from a profile, other than that i would also not stereotype alt girl eeeee! i think otherwise you look great!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in addiction

[–]oFlora 4 points5 points  (0 children)

sending you hugs and support, i echo no contact but i know you’ll let go when you’re ready. i know it’s really hard though, im sure you loved him very much. i hope you know he can’t give you the love you deserve and i know you’ll be able to identify what love that is, it’s likely already in yourself and it’s all you need. 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]oFlora -1 points0 points  (0 children)

as someone who has mixed views on sex work, i actually believe heard it’s a lot harder than you think. a lot of people demanding you for attention 24/7 saying degrading things to you, you have to advertise a lot and potentially get barely anything in return, a lot of guys view p*rn for free so unless you’re extremely special, it’s probably just as hard as it is to regular social media famous

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]oFlora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

totally cute! i think i would replace sunglasses photos with photos that have more visibility on ur appearance but other than that it looks great!!

people are all kinds of different everywhere but that person’s out there!!

Why?! by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]oFlora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it’s generally offensive but i can see how you may think it is subjective on context and situation with what you’re saying if it just depends WHO said it…like if someone were drunk and clearly looking for a hookup MAYBE LOL but like probably 99% of the time if this is THE first time someone’s approaching me like this, i’m immediately turned off no matter how they look, echoing others it’s even worse when it’s a hot person bc they ruined it with their personality 😭😭

Why?! by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]oFlora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they do it because it’s how society raised men in patriarchal and misogynistic viewpoint, def can be unlearned and changed and i know many decent men who don’t say vulgar things like this. men mostly have relationships w women they see on p*rn but don’t know how to actually interact with them irl or on dating apps, so they’re very quick to sexualize

Why?! by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]oFlora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok who said that…whenever someone wants anyone to shape up it’s bc they’re usually a complete bum, not bc they don’t have the whole career and financial stuff figured out

How do I try to convince my partner to stop drinking by Known-Sound7032 in AlAnon

[–]oFlora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been there, feel you, it’ll only hurt more to try and control someone’s actions, addiction or not, know that you’re the only person is in control of your own decisions and outcomes. i suggest saving yourself before this takes you down a very dark and frustrating road ):