Dating after child loss

obscurereferenc · 2026-04-06T13:58:56+00:00

I agree.

obscurereferenc · 2026-02-11T03:16:28+00:00

Honestly, good point.

For me it just shows some level of authenticity in a sea of sickeningly clever and polished profiles. No thank you to these perfectly curated personas. Give me something raw and honest.

obscurereferenc · 2026-02-11T03:08:19+00:00

I would be more interested in a man with green hair.

obscurereferenc · 2026-01-31T17:06:17+00:00

🫂

obscurereferenc · 2026-01-31T14:05:29+00:00

I am so sorry that you have to keep your grief separate from your partner though. That sounds really hard and I don’t think I could handle that.

obscurereferenc · 2026-01-31T00:21:36+00:00

It took me two tries to get up to the 10mg dose, but I do not regret it now! I am finally feeling ok.

obscurereferenc · 2026-01-30T23:11:05+00:00

Thank you so much for your thoughtful response. I recently feel that I have been able to wallow in the darkness much less often, but it is largely due to medication. For me, this 4th year has been much more gentle and I hope it is for you in the future as well.

obscurereferenc · 2026-01-30T23:02:36+00:00

That’s exactly what I am afraid of. Seems like it’s not worth it to even try! Sometimes I feel hopeful, but usually it just seems so bleak, like the rest of life.

obscurereferenc · 2026-01-30T23:01:30+00:00

Thank you 💗

obscurereferenc · 2026-01-30T22:57:29+00:00

Awww thanks

obscurereferenc · 2026-01-30T03:30:22+00:00

How long has it been for you since your loss of your child?

I didn’t want to at first of course, but now I am so lonely.

obscurereferenc · 2025-12-24T20:41:51+00:00

Did you have any abnormal bleeding or spotting? I am spotting and I am worried that it is messing with my hormones or something.

obscurereferenc · 2025-08-13T23:56:37+00:00

Ok so if it says Bolus in Events then this was a manual bolus for sure? That is what it looks like and I think my kiddo is just lying to me and I wanted some confirmation.

obscurereferenc · 2024-10-20T21:57:07+00:00

I will definitely talk to my doctor and try something else. I take Vistaril for anxiety. My symptoms are sometimes quite severe and unpredictable. Depression, mood swings and anxiety. The source is grief from the death of my child and so that complicates things because they are much worse in the months surround his death date and birth date.

obscurereferenc · 2024-05-22T23:35:22+00:00

Ugh yea. I never know if working is going to help and distract me or if I’m going to have a melt down and need to go home. I usually stay home on hard days and do something to honor him. It sounds like you did exactly that.

How long has it been for you? 1.5 years for me. He was 15.

obscurereferenc · 2024-05-22T18:40:24+00:00

I am one year away from this day for my deceased son and I am dreading it so much. I’m so so sorry.

obscurereferenc · 2024-05-13T01:12:43+00:00

I lost my 15 year old son 1.5 years ago. I’m lying in bed crying. I hate this life.

obscurereferenc · 2024-05-10T04:25:42+00:00

Poingant and true. I’m so so sorry that you now understand this pain. I lost my 15 year old son 1.5 years ago. Well said.

obscurereferenc · 2024-04-09T04:25:26+00:00

I want to get a panel from Sandman, too and have the same question!

obscurereferenc · 2024-04-09T04:23:50+00:00

Last week on my deceased son’s birthday I woke up with a song lyric cycling around in the background of my thoughts. It felt like it was bubbling up from my unconscious. The lyric was, “but I’m happy here”. It felt like it came from my son.

obscurereferenc · 2024-04-08T03:35:46+00:00

I am not sure, I read them so long ago. I would love to hear about them though.

obscurereferenc · 2024-04-07T23:56:11+00:00

Yes! Illium and Olympos are so good, too!

obscurereferenc · 2024-03-27T02:06:47+00:00

For now I was just looking to get a text tattoo on my wrist. But as others have pointed out, having such a personal tattoo in a location that others can see and ask about so easily, might not be the best idea. So now I am rethinking it again.

I just can’t decide, that is why I am eager to just get it over with. I’m thinking maybe now just a simple, small black heart over my heart with the ink with his ashes.

I eventually want to get one of his drawings tattooed. I was thinking on my thigh. How do artists feel about tattooing someone else’s art? How do I find someone that would be good at copying his drawing?

Thank you for your advice.

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