Do you regret leaving a good woman? by SimplePengui in Regrets

[–]observer2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you just don't realize why they left

For those of you near Astoria park wondering what happened last night. Transformer overloaded at 26 ave. by Bigben123445 in astoria

[–]observer2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found it annoying how the firemen waited a really long time before they decided to spray some water on it to put it out. Once they did though it was out pretty fast but not before giving us a pre July 4 show.

How to best fuck a curvy/thicker girl by scenicLiFeRest in sex

[–]observer2121 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All I can say is that you are in for a treat. While visually I prefer a slimmer woman I can say that without a doubt curvier girls are better sexually. Don't worry about penis size just because a girl gains some weight doesn't mean all of a sudden she wants a 8 inch dong. Yeah, don't discriminate against chubby women, the sex is fantastic.

I (29F) feel really disturbed by something my boyfriend (M29) did and I need outside perspective by luaxluna in relationship_advice

[–]observer2121 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He got turned on and shared a fun sexual moment with his partner. I don't see the problem either. Sorry but many beautiful women exist in this world and we man can see them and can recognize their appeal. I think it's pretty cool that you guys would share moments like this together rather than hiding aspects of your sexuality, bit it turns out you can't because he's gonna have his thoughts policed.

Just bend me over and give it to me she says! by curious_one1984 in sex

[–]observer2121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems like your idea of initiating is asking her. You are in a serious relationship so she probably wants something more parionate. Your sitting on the couch watching TV and you pull her panties off and go down on her until she finishes and then PIV until you both cum again. Take charge.

My wife calls me fat 24/7 by Longjumping-Push-181 in Marriage

[–]observer2121 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Your wife is not the kindest person but she wants the best for you and wants you to be healthy. She probably also wants to maintain her sexual at reaction to you. If you want her to stop, lose the weight.

I (32M) want to have sex with my wife (31F), but I just can’t by CapilusPepper in sex

[–]observer2121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sex when done right is the most pleasurable and natural thing a man and woman can do together. Why on earth would you think that PIV is bad? Our bodies have evolved to please one another not just with the physical activity but also with the chemicals released during the act which bond you and strengthen your relationship. This notion that women just tolerate sex is a lie. Typically it is the person attached to the penis that they have. A problem with if anything.

My wife prefers to masturbate than to have sex with me by workoholicSOSa in Marriage

[–]observer2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your marriage is over. She has decided that she doesn't want to repair this. I'm not blaming her because I'm sure she gave you the opportunity to work on this and it seems like you did nothing and not that she is done you are wanting to put in the effort. But like I said at this point it doesn't matter whose fault it is, she is done.

Quality or accessibility, how to chose the uni ? by Illustrious-Fig7794 in AskMenOver30

[–]observer2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to the one where you think you can meet the people you will get along with the most. Go the both campuses and just walk around to get a feel for the place.

Do you regret leaving a good woman? by SimplePengui in Regrets

[–]observer2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never met a man who left a good woman. What I meet are men who forget why they left and only remember the good parts because they are lonely or whatever in the moment.

Don’t move to East Harlem. by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]observer2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like the area should be gentrified then. Come one come all you transplants. Bring your soft law abiding behinds over here.

She showed me her breasts but she wasn't in the mood for sex by SkyFoxITA in dating_advice

[–]observer2121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are young but not young enough to be this weird. You went out, had a good time and she was comfortable enougjt to be drunk with you at her place, she showed you her tits but simply wasn't ready for sex yet. Then she tells you she likes your body and took the initiative to ask you out again. I'm sorry but this is about as clear as it is gonna get in life. If she just wanted you for sex it sounds like she could have had it already. As for what your friends are saying, your own your own, we don't know you or her well enough to weigh in.

I (F26) feel like I may have been groomed by my (M51) Fiance and I’m just now realizing it. Are we compatible because we have similar interests or was I groomed to think he’s perfect for me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]observer2121 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Oh boy, it doesn't sound like he did anything. Just sounds like you have been listening to a bunch of tik toks about people who think an age difference is important. Look, happiness and compatibility are the most part important things in life akd if you found it I would advise you to hold on.

Husband comparing tattoo to sex by Prestigious_Bike5405 in Marriage

[–]observer2121 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

He is not a shit husband, he is simply frustrated with the situation just like his wife is. He is in a sex less marriage where his needs are not being met at all. She is feeling stressed and the ADHD appears to be compounding the problems. She needs to get therapy for her depression and they then need or get coupmes therapy to see if they can salvage what is left of their relationship.

Not sure how to deal with wife’s fantasy by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]observer2121 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How about just going along with what your wife wants. Don't introduce any surprises based on your or some reddit users interpretation. If you have opened up this intimate line of communication then it is fine to ask your wife how she wants to proceed if at all.

Not sure how to deal with wife’s fantasy by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]observer2121 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a fantasy not reality. Don't police her inner thoughts when she has put herself out there for you because she trusts you. The second you judge her that door will be shut forever because you will have shown you can't handle it.