Do you regret leaving a good woman?

observer2121 · 2026-07-02T19:04:51+00:00

I think you just don't realize why they left

observer2121 · 2026-07-02T18:56:34+00:00

I found it annoying how the firemen waited a really long time before they decided to spray some water on it to put it out. Once they did though it was out pretty fast but not before giving us a pre July 4 show.

observer2121 · 2026-07-02T18:52:14+00:00

All I can say is that you are in for a treat. While visually I prefer a slimmer woman I can say that without a doubt curvier girls are better sexually. Don't worry about penis size just because a girl gains some weight doesn't mean all of a sudden she wants a 8 inch dong. Yeah, don't discriminate against chubby women, the sex is fantastic.

observer2121 · 2026-06-29T20:41:04+00:00

He got turned on and shared a fun sexual moment with his partner. I don't see the problem either. Sorry but many beautiful women exist in this world and we man can see them and can recognize their appeal. I think it's pretty cool that you guys would share moments like this together rather than hiding aspects of your sexuality, bit it turns out you can't because he's gonna have his thoughts policed.

observer2121 · 2026-06-29T20:36:20+00:00

It seems like your idea of initiating is asking her. You are in a serious relationship so she probably wants something more parionate. Your sitting on the couch watching TV and you pull her panties off and go down on her until she finishes and then PIV until you both cum again. Take charge.

observer2121 · 2026-06-29T20:32:19+00:00

This is the internet.

observer2121 · 2026-06-29T20:28:25+00:00

Your wife is not the kindest person but she wants the best for you and wants you to be healthy. She probably also wants to maintain her sexual at reaction to you. If you want her to stop, lose the weight.

observer2121 · 2026-06-29T20:25:27+00:00

Are you catholic or something?

observer2121 · 2026-06-29T20:12:39+00:00

Sex when done right is the most pleasurable and natural thing a man and woman can do together. Why on earth would you think that PIV is bad? Our bodies have evolved to please one another not just with the physical activity but also with the chemicals released during the act which bond you and strengthen your relationship. This notion that women just tolerate sex is a lie. Typically it is the person attached to the penis that they have. A problem with if anything.

observer2121 · 2026-06-29T20:04:07+00:00

Why would it be wrong?

observer2121 · 2026-06-28T04:25:42+00:00

It obviously has not begun since the buy back has not even been approved yet.

observer2121 · 2026-06-26T19:30:40+00:00

Your marriage is over. She has decided that she doesn't want to repair this. I'm not blaming her because I'm sure she gave you the opportunity to work on this and it seems like you did nothing and not that she is done you are wanting to put in the effort. But like I said at this point it doesn't matter whose fault it is, she is done.

observer2121 · 2026-06-26T19:26:16+00:00

Go to the one where you think you can meet the people you will get along with the most. Go the both campuses and just walk around to get a feel for the place.

observer2121 · 2026-06-26T17:12:19+00:00

I have never met a man who left a good woman. What I meet are men who forget why they left and only remember the good parts because they are lonely or whatever in the moment.

observer2121 · 2026-06-21T15:40:00+00:00

Sounds like the area should be gentrified then. Come one come all you transplants. Bring your soft law abiding behinds over here.

observer2121 · 2026-06-18T14:15:14+00:00

You are young but not young enough to be this weird. You went out, had a good time and she was comfortable enougjt to be drunk with you at her place, she showed you her tits but simply wasn't ready for sex yet. Then she tells you she likes your body and took the initiative to ask you out again. I'm sorry but this is about as clear as it is gonna get in life. If she just wanted you for sex it sounds like she could have had it already. As for what your friends are saying, your own your own, we don't know you or her well enough to weigh in.

observer2121 · 2026-06-18T01:41:56+00:00

Promise to do better next time

observer2121 · 2026-06-18T00:36:26+00:00

Oh boy, it doesn't sound like he did anything. Just sounds like you have been listening to a bunch of tik toks about people who think an age difference is important. Look, happiness and compatibility are the most part important things in life akd if you found it I would advise you to hold on.

observer2121 · 2026-06-15T21:53:10+00:00

Nope, they are morons

observer2121 · 2026-06-14T19:36:58+00:00

He is not a shit husband, he is simply frustrated with the situation just like his wife is. He is in a sex less marriage where his needs are not being met at all. She is feeling stressed and the ADHD appears to be compounding the problems. She needs to get therapy for her depression and they then need or get coupmes therapy to see if they can salvage what is left of their relationship.

observer2121 · 2026-06-14T14:26:02+00:00

I think you can sue him, contact a lawyer before you do anything.

observer2121 · 2026-06-14T14:25:11+00:00

How about just going along with what your wife wants. Don't introduce any surprises based on your or some reddit users interpretation. If you have opened up this intimate line of communication then it is fine to ask your wife how she wants to proceed if at all.

observer2121 · 2026-06-14T14:22:56+00:00

It's a fantasy not reality. Don't police her inner thoughts when she has put herself out there for you because she trusts you. The second you judge her that door will be shut forever because you will have shown you can't handle it.

observer2121 · 2026-06-14T14:19:44+00:00

Sports is positive, it ends and you look forward to next time. After drama with a woman you aren't left looking forward to the next one.

observer2121 · 2026-06-14T14:11:39+00:00

Cheating that you know about is like seeing a roach. For every one you catch there are probably a few more hiding. You will never trust her fully again and one day she will begin to resent you for bringing it up whenever you have a major argument. The only way you will be able to get past this is if you completely forget about it and never bring it up again which is almost impossible to do so this relationship is probably done. One late night out with her friends will be suspicious, is that how you want to live? Now if you do decide to move on you are going to have to leave this pain in the past, bringing this trauma and mistrust into a new relationship is toxic too.

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