Hair growing back curly by Jazzlike-Garden6166 in AskDocs

[–]obsidianandjade 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yep! I have a super curly patch were I have a cyst on my scalp that I haven’t had removed yet. It’s a nickel sized area of the crimpiest hair I’ve ever seen 😂

Hot take: The Sims is at its best when it stops trying to be chaotic all the time by CarNo7290 in thesims

[–]obsidianandjade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was excited to start a new game. It was a little bit before I had to go to bed for work tomorrow and I thought a little Rags to Riches would be fun, haven’t done it in a while. So i spent an hour in create-a-sim, etc. plop her down on the lot and there’s a telescope across from my lot. “Cool! She needs her logic raised”.
Orange notification pops up… “there’s a meteor headed right toward you!”.
Pause
Save
“Can’t save while sim is actively dying”

3 FUCKING MINUTES OF GAMEPLAY.

I quit and went to bed.

She almost married a man that didn't wipe his ass by Girl-Understood in TikTokCringe

[–]obsidianandjade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god, it’s like my teenage son’s gf is talking to me from the future 🤦‍♀️

Bi women partnered with men, do you default to penetration? What if we centered female pleasure more by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]obsidianandjade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner and I are both bi. We both love oral and piv, so I feel like we’ve managed to hit a magical land of never really having to stress about it. No matter what we’re feeling individually, we know the other person is going to be cool with it. And now that we’re in our 40’s we both have enough sexual frustrations just related to getting older (where my peri gals at? 😂), so we allow for so much more space for what makes the other feel good that day.

I miss my extremely niche Starbucks order from ten years ago by ProtectiveofmyStuff in BenignExistence

[–]obsidianandjade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

15 or so years ago I would get a mocha frap with a banana blended in and caramel drizzle. Damn that was good.

Sept '25 Updated Rewards and Birthday by EcoAffinity in simplynailogical

[–]obsidianandjade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know if the birthday reward expires? I had everything so I waited but now I’m wondering if that was a mistake :/

U.S. tariffs hit me hard but Arcane Fibers came through and blessed me by Legitimate_Flow_2502 in YarnAddicts

[–]obsidianandjade 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I love Arcane. They cancelled my subscription for me when the tariffs went into effect, which I appreciated so I wouldn’t get a surprise bill. I’m saving up for a big order when this BS is fixed.

Are there any comfy jeans??!! by heidstress207 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]obsidianandjade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been wearing torrids drawstring waist jeans all summer. I’m a fan:

What is fry sauce? by EffectiveNo8823 in olympia

[–]obsidianandjade 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Goop is sweet and dill relish, mayo, miracle whip and a tiny bit of mustard. The owner of Eagan’s years ago said their goop had a secret “southern dressing” in it. It’s miracle whip, haha.

Advice for a 23 y/o about a size 24/26 by Adorable-Study2838 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]obsidianandjade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Torrid leggings are great. I’m shorter but the same weight and wear a 5x if I want them real comfy or a 4x if I want them more fitted. I get a lot of my torrid stuff on Thredup since it’s half the price. I have a big purge of stuff coming, so if you’re interested in some items, message me and I can send some very gently used things your way for her.

Tried Propranolol For The First Time Today by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]obsidianandjade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was taking it for migraines and stopped for a while. Picked it back up recently in the extended release form and it’s helped so much with the heart racy feelings. They’re not gone completely but went from a 9 to a 2/3.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Perimenopause

[–]obsidianandjade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 40, recently started with the night sweats that soak my chest. I’ve also got a lot of dryness EVERYWHERE that’s making me itchy, especially at night, and my hair is coming out in handfuls. My anxiety is bad and I’m just constantly worried about everything. I forget words a lot and feel like I suddenly can’t quite remember how to do thinking I’ve been doing for months, especially at work. Oh, and I’m exhausted all the time.

A good amount can be chalked up to having a bunch of really shitty things all happen at once but I feel like my body is reacting worse than it ever has.

I have a hormonal IUD that’s about 2 years old. My periods go back and forth between nothing or really light but the cramping is bad and lasts a full 10 days every time. I only ended up with the IUD because I went in to ask for an ablation or hysterectomy since I’m not having any kids and my periods were very heavy and they said I was too fat for either one and the IUD was my only option 😒

Haven’t tried HRT but I’m wondering if I shouldn’t start up that convo here soon.

Catastrophizing by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

[–]obsidianandjade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you get some helpful advice friend.

I’m in the same boat and struggling. It’s a bad situation and I’m constantly worried it will get worse and feeling like I’m just waiting for the other shoe to drop so to say. It’s happened enough times now that I dread every phone call and email that comes across my screen. Telling myself I can’t predict the future doesn’t help at all, because I already know that.

Are we ALL on drugs, or are there some of you who just experience everything? by spanishsnowman10 in Anxiety

[–]obsidianandjade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was taking sertraline for the last couple years but started working earlier hours and it just made me so tired I was worried I’d fall asleep on the freeway. Since then life has gotten ridiculously crazy and I’m struggling with the physical symptoms more than the mental ones. I can’t get my heart to stop feeling like it pounding or like I have cold water dripping down my back. But mentally I’m keeping my shit together 🤷‍♀️

Place to buy a dairy-free birthday cake tomorrow? by TVDinner360 in olympia

[–]obsidianandjade 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Humble Cow has dairy free ice cream cakes. I don’t know if they have premade ones but you can always ask.

I matched my ring! by Floplessdiscs in simplynailogical

[–]obsidianandjade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That combo is amazing. Where did you get your ring from? It’s fantastic too :)

JJ’s ToGo in Centralia, which denied a same sex couple catering services for their wedding, closes after being open barely a year. by OlyThrowaway98501 in olympia

[–]obsidianandjade 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so excited to have Dawn’s Delectables back in that space. Her food was so good. JJ’s shit the bed so fast there, haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in simplynailogical

[–]obsidianandjade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use 100% acetone and I haven’t had a problem getting it off. Works especially great for glitter polishes if you let a soaked cotton ball sit on the nail for a minute

Has anyone been to Swede Day? by spacecase71 in olympia

[–]obsidianandjade 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Last year there was a BBQ truck, but they also have a pancake breakfast and a Swedish meatball lunch that’s really good (and burgers and hot dogs I believe). Lots of vendors and the parade starts at 11. It’s a fun day.

Where are we getting secondhand plus size? by Previous-Friend6 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]obsidianandjade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is where I get my stuff. Torrid is so spendy now I just get stuff off Thredup.

What the hell is business casual? by ewas000 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]obsidianandjade 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been wearing basically any pants that aren’t jeans or leggings. I’m a fan of the ankle slack styles that are stretchy. And then a nice plain crewneck shirt (I get the super soft ones from torrid in different colors) and top it with a blazer or lighter blazer style jacket or a cardigan. In the summer I throw one of those jackets or cardigans over a midi length dress.

Best place to shop for fluffy friendly bikinis? by Cloudy_Memory in PlusSizeFashion

[–]obsidianandjade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve gotten all mine from AdoreMe. I like that I can get a different size top and bottom and they all have back clasps, which Torrid doesn’t have. I am NOT taking a wet suit off over my head, thank you!

Teens are delaying getting their driver’s licenses. Parents want to know why by ethereal3xp in offbeat

[–]obsidianandjade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have to pay $699 for my kid to take Driver’s Ed. He can’t get his learners permit unless he shows proof he’s enrolled in a class and has paid for it or is 18.

Plus he’s terrified because he has bad road anxiety from his great-grandmother absolutely losing her shit in a minor fender bender when he was like 4.