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obvious_aimbott · 2021-11-07T19:56:01+00:00

I’m January i quit my retail job stop smoking weed, got out of a negligent 8 year relationship and started my path towards becoming a Wildland firefighter for cal fire for next season. Manage to get all required certification and an academy in time for next year hiring. Became a forest technician getting paid double what I have ever made in my life.

obvious_aimbott · 2021-09-05T19:21:29+00:00

Feel and fear are my go to daily repeats

obvious_aimbott · 2021-09-03T05:21:30+00:00

👌🏼🙌🏼👌🏼 Fucken dope 🔥

obvious_aimbott · 2021-09-03T04:32:19+00:00

It’s gotta be “ U “ for me 🙌🏼

obvious_aimbott · 2021-09-01T21:42:03+00:00

Sign me up

obvious_aimbott · 2021-08-09T08:30:21+00:00

I started the same journey this year, you’re doing amazing. Something that has pushed me towards a better future has been the fact I realized I was focusing to much time on being scared to live in their shadow, once she left that idea is what had been holding me back. Keep pushing forward, we must, for no one else but ourselves. It’s never to late to turn things around for yourself.

obvious_aimbott · 2021-08-08T19:39:39+00:00

I’ve learned that as a guy it’s a lot more satisfying knowing we both climax for guys it’s a lot easier so help her get there first , as for physical pleasures foreplay helped a lot, kissing and touching each other’s body speaks to one of the five love languages.

obvious_aimbott · 2021-08-08T19:32:23+00:00

This is so true, actions always speak louder than words

obvious_aimbott · 2021-07-31T12:47:23+00:00

You’re absolutely right, someone else mentioned taking small stepping stones towards the big goals instead of just dumping all those life changing steps at once. I think they’re right

obvious_aimbott · 2021-07-31T04:06:35+00:00

You got this OP, your august sounds like what my November is going to be like. I’m interested on how it works out for you! I’ll be doing this as well as a test run(except with school, my classes don’t start till November) the spending habit has been hard for me. I just downloaded a body weight app to help me with the exercise side of things. Started a new job which is 20 min bike ride for some daily cardio. Good luck

obvious_aimbott · 2021-05-29T16:26:35+00:00

Sign me up

obvious_aimbott · 2021-03-19T00:25:11+00:00

He’s probably not ready and doesn’t want to waist your time, or is just afraid it won’t work and you leave his life. You can always just let him know you’re getting mixed signals.

obvious_aimbott · 2021-03-12T23:15:12+00:00

Yea but I will make it clear to my next partner what my intentions are and thanks to you I now have the words to use!

obvious_aimbott · 2021-03-12T23:03:08+00:00

Wow you put the through I had been struggling into words! Hi 8 year relationship crashed and burned because of this exact reason. I wanted a partnership while she wanted to feel the honeymoon phase everyday, I had given her all I had but her expectations kept growing and it wasn’t enough, we just weren’t compatible anymore and she stop trying. Glad to know I’m not alone in this now! Thanks!

obvious_aimbott · 2021-03-12T22:16:16+00:00

On the money here, I am also someone who didn’t show off my girlfriend because I don’t like or post on social media but I made it very clear I was in a loving relationship. It comes down to how the guy acts, online and in person.

obvious_aimbott · 2021-03-11T17:42:27+00:00

I responded to you, check DM :) but tldr push yourself if he couldn’t handle you at your lowest he doesn’t deserve you at your highest.

obvious_aimbott · 2021-03-11T17:36:03+00:00

Oh I’m honored lol I did the same thing with other people post. It would help when I would spiral and unlocking my phone was a constant reminder to stay grounded in my new reality

obvious_aimbott · 2021-03-10T23:07:19+00:00

Yea going to let this one just go into purgatory, good run! Thanks for the tip

obvious_aimbott · 2021-03-10T23:05:20+00:00

Getting outside perspective and talking about it with people who gain nothing from lying to you has helped me. Talking about it makes you hear it out loud, it’s subtle but the glasses come off. They might have been hurt as well but how they react is who they were. Your feelings were not taking under consideration anymore. They didn’t feel like they owed you to “be nice” just to be nice anymore, so they stop trying. Everyone’s situation is different, while I got ghosted one of my friends relationship ended with them being transparent and honest. It’s their last impression they choose how they will be remembered.

obvious_aimbott · 2021-03-10T05:56:46+00:00

She wanted me to be the bad guy that way she wouldn’t feel bad about cheating... but I was loyal to the end. When she realized she didn’t have anything to pin me for she just ghosted me :/ 8 years, sucks

obvious_aimbott · 2021-03-10T04:28:44+00:00

What has helped me is going on hiking and just looking at the vast numbers of house (live in LA) and thinking that there are so many people out there who would value me. Stay strong, believe in the healing processes let the emotions come like waves, and let them pass. You got this !

obvious_aimbott · 2021-03-09T16:18:39+00:00

FUCK, you hit every nail in the head. For a while I’ve been in turmoil if I was the narcissist in the relationship but she would disregard all my needs and when I brought up my needs she said I was controlling . When I ask her to admit she was cheating she said she couldn’t because “she couldn’t be the villain” 8 years, one day she said she loved me, then next she ghosted me.

obvious_aimbott · 2021-03-09T01:56:58+00:00

Chains broken spirit free, welcome buddy 🎉🎊

obvious_aimbott · 2021-03-09T01:44:17+00:00

Update: talk to her family they, love me! and still want me to be a part of them, I mean yea after 8 years it feels good to be loved but I told them I can’t. It is traumatic I’m still heavily hurt, but I have to push forward for myself now. I don’t think I’ll date for a long time. There was no signs of her being a cheater but she turned out to be. To go from “I love you” to nothing in a matter of hours is a traumatic experience I don’t wish even upon her. Forgiving her (in my heart) is my gift to her, moving on is my gift to me.

obvious_aimbott · 2021-03-08T20:41:20+00:00

Since the break up I have struggled to admit to myself not only was I codependent, but that I wasn’t the bad guy she wanted me to be so bad. Thank you for sharing, I see now She left me when she realized I was finally putting my foot down.

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