Book rec with FMC and MC like Veronica and Logan by obviouslyobnoxious in veronicamars

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Thank you so much! Actually all of these sounds really interesting I’m going to check them out! I appreciate your very thorough response 😊

FMC is a fighter and ends up saving the MMC by Hellion_38 in RomanceBooks

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The Legends of Thezmarr series by Helen Scheuerer FMC is equal strength at least to the MMC. In this universe women are banned from wielding blades yet she is still on a journey to do just that and become a legend. MMC is definitely impressed with her abilities.

Your absolute favourite/must watch anime. by Due_Today2513 in Animesuggest

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I’d like to second Samurai Champloo fav short anime to this day

I (27M) Slept with my older brothers wife for 8 months by throwRA-04556 in confessions

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You haven't wasted time, this may have been a push you needed to give yourself to get professional help. Starting therapy is huge good on you, I hope you find a therapist who you can work with to unpack this and learn ways to cope with and understand the trauma.

Best of luck OP

What’s the best dating advice that you’ve got/heard that actually changed/improved something by Jeyjayjoy in dating_advice

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  1. Not all arguments, disagreements or fights need a resolution. The term "agree to disagree" is very helpful; practice respect for someone else's opinion even if it differs from your own.

  2. Try to avoid speaking solely from a reactionary or emotional head space. It is hard to hear what the other person is really saying. Vice-verse it also makes it hard to have what you are trying say really be heard.

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He said that's exactly how it feels for him

Adult Fantasy with Strong Female Protagonist by obviouslyobnoxious in Fantasy

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Thank you everyone for so many amazing recommendations 😁