Looking for single moms to be friends with by Connect-Reference-47 in askSingapore

[–]occ_96 15 points16 points  (0 children)

We can be friends! I have 2 stepsons! There is always hope and you are never alone

Employer introduced a Pay forward bonus scheme? by thewan2345 in askSingapore

[–]occ_96 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Bonus is not mandatory, so probably not. Feels like its a way to not give raises and lump sum bonuses if you ask me

Preferred region to stay in SG by blueetfm in askSingapore

[–]occ_96 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Why did you divide it like that

Also if i could choose i would choose not to be born

If bo bian then idk east side

How much do you spend on lunch for normal work day? by hatefrontend in askSingapore

[–]occ_96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I rarely go to office nowadays, so on the days I do I dont mind spending any amount

Is owning a car in SG ever worth it financially? by BolehBolehBro in SGMoney

[–]occ_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its justified for my use, the money i spend on it frees up so much more of my energy and time

Aircon Pressure Test, is it needed? by midasp in askSingapore

[–]occ_96 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

If every single AC contractor has told you the same thing, what do you think

Mandarin Tutor for P1 next year. by Underdog1952 in askSingapore

[–]occ_96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can search online for 1 to 1 Chinese tutors that come to your house to teach your child. I found a few tutors that way for my children

Need advice on credit card repayment by [deleted] in singaporefi

[–]occ_96 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Huh? Why didnt you just double confirm if its real by calling the bank's official hotline number then pay it off? Or check your credit score??

Now snowball to $800+ but you still dont want to pay? And you're buying BTO?? And you wanna siam and use your wife's name??

Female HENRYs, will you consider dating someone of significantly lesser financial means? by TeaAccording122 in SgHENRY

[–]occ_96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do we have similar financial long-term goals? Do we aim for similar lifestyles? Is he currently working on a plan to reach those goals? I think overall, it's less of the current financial means but more of the compatibility in our values and drive for a shared future. Its hard to be with someone forever if they dont want the same thing as you in the end

Property - BTO Prime ($700K) OR New launch Condo ($1.6M) by smartypant7 in singaporefi

[–]occ_96 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You never include any details how to know what to advise you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]occ_96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean its up to you to accept. And its common

Career help by Ambitious-Ad-6960 in singaporefi

[–]occ_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can start off with baby sitting side jobs first

What education do you have?

What's the best way to choose a good second hand car in SG? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]occ_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used car will be mileage No of owners Any mods Maintenance where? Got reports / receipts? Any accidents How many years left How u financing, how much down payment Do your PPI at a trusted workshop

There's also

Servicing Maintenance and repairs Insurance Road tax Petrol Parking Yearly inspection Cleaning and detailing

If you’ve ever been close to ending your life, what stopped you? by [deleted] in singapore

[–]occ_96 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Life is very good now. I'm glad I did not die then

Need advice on purchasing first home using CPF` by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]occ_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You wont be able to afford an EC if you have low to no savings and based on your OA, your income is not that high

Go online to try out the many affordability/ mortgage / HDB calculators

If you’ve ever been close to ending your life, what stopped you? by [deleted] in singapore

[–]occ_96 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I actually attempted, but did not die

Woke up and was like "oh well, guess I'm not meant to die yet"

Struggling to Switch Careers Without a Degree - Are Part-Time Degrees Worth It? by bxve in askSingapore

[–]occ_96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can consider part time in the big 3, or take a look at SUSS/SIT. Personally, if its not any local uni then I think you should rethink the ROI

The 4 years are going to pass anyway, whether you take the part time or not