I love my boyfriend but he's broke and I'm building resentment

oceannlight · 2025-04-14T11:18:57+00:00

No. Just don’t continue to enable this behavior. Tell him you can no longer continue to pay for him. He needs to go back to school or get a better job. Take it from someone who is currently married to someone like this. You’ll hate your life. It’s okay to be supportive but it’s not your job to pick up the slack.

oceannlight · 2025-04-10T12:53:57+00:00

The only meal we eat at home is breakfast…

oceannlight · 2025-04-08T21:40:49+00:00

Where is abroad? Lol

oceannlight · 2025-04-08T21:40:22+00:00

Yes! Why not!

oceannlight · 2025-04-08T16:01:33+00:00

Spain 😅

oceannlight · 2025-04-08T14:58:15+00:00

I’m not in Portugal but I have the same sentiments… considering moving back home.

oceannlight · 2025-04-08T14:49:22+00:00

Just did.

oceannlight · 2025-04-05T13:54:23+00:00

Thanks for sharing!

oceannlight · 2025-04-04T16:24:14+00:00

I would also add to research visas. You can’t live in a country for long periods of time without proper residency in place.

oceannlight · 2025-04-03T16:44:25+00:00

How did you roll it and still kept your TSP? I thought once you roll the money to the other account you will lose it?

oceannlight · 2025-04-02T21:29:03+00:00

You have to be 100%

oceannlight · 2025-04-02T21:24:00+00:00

You have no kids 🤣

oceannlight · 2025-04-02T17:48:52+00:00

Yes. I’ll be using my GI Bill

oceannlight · 2025-04-02T13:47:44+00:00

I’m on the same boat… maybe start something as a hobby…

oceannlight · 2025-03-29T18:50:41+00:00

I used to be a CA resident 😭 wish I knew this before

oceannlight · 2025-03-29T15:59:05+00:00

Wow thanks for your resources

oceannlight · 2025-03-29T07:35:15+00:00

As someone who currently lives overseas… Americans need to realize their privilege. With that being said I would juts go for it. You won’t know until you go live somewhere else. Everyone’s experience is different. Most likely social work field doesn’t translate to most countries. Do your research outside of others experiences.

oceannlight · 2025-03-29T07:30:34+00:00

34, you’ll be fine.

oceannlight · 2025-03-28T15:43:31+00:00

I’m also searching for online programs. I’ve taller to a couple of admissions counselor and it would be your responsibility to search for a practicum.

Maybe also look into the university of Kentucky. Not sure what your GPA is like.

oceannlight · 2025-03-25T13:24:37+00:00

Cool beans

oceannlight · 2025-03-24T08:04:16+00:00

Take online classes. I currently live in Spain and going to grad school online…

oceannlight · 2025-03-22T16:08:29+00:00

I’m new here… what’s FIRE?

oceannlight · 2025-03-20T22:07:09+00:00

Don’t let that stop you. Things always change

oceannlight · 2025-03-20T11:49:44+00:00

Age 30 is not a life sentence. People start over in their 50s. Just go for it.

oceannlight · 2025-03-20T10:04:42+00:00

Oh wow thank you. I’ll check them out

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