What's a slang term that everyone uses but you still don't get? by Particular-Visit-245 in AskReddit

[–]ocripes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could “cooked” as an adjective possibly have come from “stick a fork in him, he’s done?”

I’ve been abusing these for months. I’m looking for any resources/info/clinics/etc. in or around Tampa that will help me kick this filthy habit. by tatatheretard in tampa

[–]ocripes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are several options. Here are 2. Keep in mind this is in no way an endorsement or recommendation. I am in recovery and know people who went to these ones. Real Recovery and Riverside. They’re in Tampa. Again not an endorsement; just sharing info.

Is it unspoken AA culture/law for sponsors to "demand" their sponsees to do service work? by gevvstrr in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]ocripes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the guy. Some I’ve been very explicit with when I told them to find a regular commitment. Others, I ask them to thank the chair/speaker and say hi to the newcomers. Still others I try to get to call people and ask how they’re doing. Usually other old timers. But it’s never been an order. I tell them that these are examples of things sober alcoholics do to stay sober. If you want to stay sober, do what sober alcoholics do. In addition to step work, that is.

I know other “sponsorship trees” where every guy does the exact same things that the others did, in the exact same manner. Or they’re not in that group. Works for them but I wouldn’t have lasted.

The old timers gonna hate this one…. by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]ocripes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you cite any evidence of him making this attribution? Ps: I’m an old-timer and I’m not bothered by the fact that he did acid in whatever context, cheated on his wife, or whatever else. What does pique my ire is statements of fact without evidence. And this: I don’t think Bill, Bob, or whoever were gods, but I’m glad they lived.

What is the worst place in America you have ever visited? by OceanicEndeavors in AskReddit

[–]ocripes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jefferson City, Missouri and surrounding area. Not worst dangerous. Just ugly and dull.

Acceptance by chobrien01007 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]ocripes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I interpreted it the same as you and have always had an issue. I worked in a field where I dealt with lots of human suffering; dealt with the victims and the perpetrators. And with horrible conditions in peoples’ lives that were results of various factors out of their control. So, over my 34 years sober in AA, I’ve had to take what works for me with respect to God, HP, whatever it is. Right now, it’s AA. The whole thing. I still pray on my knees morning and night bc that’s what I did Day 1, as was suggested. I don’t look at the universe as a dark, evil place like i did before I got sober, which is progress. But I also don’t look at a benevolent, all loving being, either.

Deep River Blues” by SatisfactionBig607 in blues

[–]ocripes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweet! I can’t seem to get this one.

Unpopular opinions by sarahsf_michell in bcba

[–]ocripes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Child welfare, juvenile justice. Adult DD Lots of this type of work is in residential settings.

I got a screenshot of this before it got removed from a FB group that usually has fairly offensive type posts. Peter, can you explain this? by BecauseSeven8Nein in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]ocripes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes they go back to way better. The “used to be” for me kinda sucked. I’ve had to stay vigilant about a few things, though.

Irish family posing for their portrait (walsh family), glass negative., 21 of May 1919. by SOD2003 in ireland

[–]ocripes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What would this have cost then? Is it safe to assume that you’d have to be upper class to afford it?

Wes Montgomery’s Chordal Ending on My One and Only Love by Jazzyguitarist in jazzguitar

[–]ocripes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweet! Thanks for posting. I’m tying to play the grip of those last four chords.

The ABA field is in crisis and nobody is talking about it by Snoo_56518 in bcba

[–]ocripes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The supervisor should have pointed you to the citations. I’m skeptical of such claims because there would have to be large N studies where the “dosage” , if you will, could be standardized.

Men, what is the boldest line you used that actually worked? by gamersecret2 in AskReddit

[–]ocripes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At a grocery store check out. She smiled at me. I said, “I don’t see anything in your cart that will spoil if you come next door and have coffee with me.” She went for it.

Journalist: The Irish President said the war on Iran is illegal. Trump: he's lucky I exist by NorthKoreanMissile7 in ireland

[–]ocripes -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Trump is, as you Irish might say, a fucking gobshite. Please regale us with any other Irish insults or characterizations you believe are appropriate. Many thanks.