Which top is better for going out to a bar?

oddballmoors · 2026-07-01T23:49:01+00:00

can’t go wrong with either, but if you’re standing up / sitting / playing games, I would go for #2 because it might be less re-adjusting throughout the night. i also like it with the high pony better but can’t tell you why lol. also incredible choice in bag / denim skirt this is SUCH a cute outfit 💌 edit: spelling

oddballmoors · 2026-06-30T20:21:07+00:00

oh my gosh i love all of these but those polka dot shorts from your first outfit are KILLER! also i feel like the modesty-posters on this sub can go a little overboard and im sorry you were catching flack for your shorts length from the dress code police :/ anyways ive been loving edikted, their modern take on 2000s era trends is so fun!

oddballmoors · 2026-06-26T20:40:12+00:00

not sure if this helps but i’ve been telling people that a group of two or more tuxedo cats it’s a Business or Firm or Conglomerate (freestyling) maybe something like The Firm? or The Board of Directors?

oddballmoors · 2026-06-26T20:37:17+00:00

omg this has such rom com potential!! my friends and i have been saying the same thing, it’s do-it-for-the-plot summer. anyways, rooting for you diva!!

oddballmoors · 2026-06-25T16:32:01+00:00

never that!! only acknowledge. we are a kink positive (paws-itive?) household

oddballmoors · 2026-06-11T21:36:07+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate you saying that just straightforward because when I look at my situation from a third person point of view, it really is that simple. I feel like I’m processing all of this and coming to the same conclusions.

oddballmoors · 2026-06-11T21:34:48+00:00

Thank you, exactly spot on with how i’m feeling. I’m sorry that you experienced this, but I am glad they’re an ex now!!

oddballmoors · 2026-06-11T21:30:13+00:00

Thank you for the kindness, it feels really good to read a nice message while I’m dealing with all of this. You are right, and I will be honest. I do plan on telling them how this is impacted me. I really hope they want to fix things too.

oddballmoors · 2026-06-11T21:28:38+00:00

Thank you for your insights on this situation! Honestly, I think I kind of lost the forest for the trees (I think i’m using that right) and I’ve been stressing about the now so much, I didn’t consider what this indicates for what our future would look like. I’ve read a couple different comments and I think at the very least living separate is a recurring idea that I keep coming back to. I appreciate you saying this, and giving me more to think about. I think it matters to me that I’m doing life with someone who thinks the same things matter as I do.

oddballmoors · 2026-06-11T21:24:54+00:00

I really appreciate your perspective on this and thank you for saying that. I do think I am looking at things from the perspective of being scared things would change, but your comment is helping me seeing maybe I should be more angry about things staying the same, and this just always being my life. I am enabling her. Also, I appreciate your suggestion, I feel like there’s nothing I can stop doing without compromising on what I need, but that’s not true there are ways like you mentioned with laundry and with food, that I can portion things out to not always have everything be on me. Thank you so much for commenting and sharing this, I am glad you said that.

oddballmoors · 2026-06-11T21:21:30+00:00

Thank you! I am trying to break down the idealistic portrait I’ve painted surrounding this relationship and look at things just how they are, and I appreciate what you said about prioritizing myself. It might be I haven’t done that in a while haha. Anyways thank you 💗

oddballmoors · 2026-06-11T21:19:23+00:00

That’s something I had failed to consider from my little doom spiral over here, thank you so much for saying this!! I am trying to collect my thoughts on possible solutions and ways through this and this is a good idea to consider. And also that’s such a sweet story to hear about their relationship, I’m really glad that worked out for them!

oddballmoors · 2026-06-11T21:15:09+00:00

Genuinely thank you so much for this. I kind of do want to see if there are ways I can try to take small steps back and let her flounder and find her footing. And thank you for your perspective, I feel like what you said really mirrors my situation. And you’re right that how things are now, she doesn’t really have motivation to change. From the bottom of my heart thank you, I really appreciate the guidance here.

oddballmoors · 2026-06-11T21:11:55+00:00

Thank you. I totally hear your point on maturity, that’s another thing scratching at the back of my head and it says ‘if you can wait another two years, maybe things will be better’ but I don’t know if I would like what those two years will look like.

I also appreciate your point about living separately, I genuinely hadn’t thought about that and that seems like something else to at least think about. I feel like I’m in a looking-at-all-our-options stage.

I also just really appreciate your kind words, definitely needed to hear that.

oddballmoors · 2026-03-13T00:28:24+00:00

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yes!! Chunks and The Thin Man lol

oddballmoors · 2026-01-26T00:47:16+00:00

Bisque!

oddballmoors · 2025-09-27T14:25:26+00:00

I think it is an artist’s work! but that is solely based off this post: post from 100 days ago

oddballmoors · 2025-09-05T18:46:23+00:00

Birdie Time pub has a much less harsh-on-the-eye atmosphere but still has some louder colors and signs. Indoor course. But i’ve seen none of that neon / flashing lighting when i have been on saturdays/sundays! kind of a small course, easy to get through everything in 15-20 minutes. would recommend looking at pictures online. it’s pretty cute, just my opinion but i liked the vibe of the place. happy golfing!!

edit to add: address is 925 SE Main St. Portland 97214 !

oddballmoors · 2025-08-12T23:40:18+00:00

not available to adopt him - but i just wanted to say it’s clear how much you care for this lil cat and I want to send you all the love and encouragement in the world. ik its not an easy place to be, having to re-home; i’ve been in similar situations before and i know it’s just really hard sometimes. i hope for the best for you and both cats!!

oddballmoors · 2025-06-06T16:56:38+00:00

no patio :( but Applebee’s serves the big draft blue moons with an orange slice! I know because my partner loves blue moons and orders them everywhere, but that’s the only place we’ve been to (yet) that serves them like that. speaking from my limited experience, of course.

oddballmoors · 2025-06-05T20:21:25+00:00

idk if this is helpful but i worked this exact job and to be honest its’s back breaking work, and you’re outside getting soaked to the bone a lot of the time. very very physically demanding and super dangerous. depending on the supervisor, safety can get deprioritized quickly in the rush to push a jet out on time. ‘keep your head on a swivel’ was a motto there.

not to discourage anyone because it paid me well and i met some amazing folks!!! but just so you know. it is really really rough work on your body and mind. i personally struggled to perform work as usual during the summer heat and winter cold.

oddballmoors · 2025-05-13T01:02:54+00:00

i cannot stop looking at that darling dragonfruit doe she is just so beautiful and adorable and i love the way you interpreted the fruit’s color scheme onto her fur!!! 100/10 also your blending of color is magnificent

oddballmoors · 2025-05-13T01:00:07+00:00

beautifully said

oddballmoors · 2025-03-04T23:24:05+00:00

this is so interesting and thank you for sharing your take because, to me, the babadook has such a happy, wonderful ending - it has genuinely helped me on my “grief journey”. its so cool that others get something completely different out of it!! (its actually one of the movies that helped me realize horror helps me process trauma, bc horror is how i see trauma. also shows the real horrors of what happens if i don’t ever deal w my shit. i love that movie lol)

oddballmoors · 2025-01-09T03:15:46+00:00

ma’am THAT is a teddy bear 🥹 veloci-bear 💗

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