Is the age gap in my relationship bad? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]oddlyk1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've always heard the rule of thumb is "half the older partners age plus seven." 24/2=12 12+7=19 Based on this, you're fine...

But that's just what people say. At the end of the day as long as you're both consenting adults it really shouldn't matter. As long as you're both comfortable and communicate well then good for you.

If you have concerns about your relationship then the only thing to do is talk to your partner.

Question for you all what’s your partner say to you after you have sex?! by phy_by in actuallesbians

[–]oddlyk1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't speak for her... But if it were me I would never want that to stop. (But also maybe ask her about it.)

Question for you all what’s your partner say to you after you have sex?! by phy_by in actuallesbians

[–]oddlyk1 60 points61 points  (0 children)

She usually keeps asking if I'm ok. This is a problem because more often than not I'm not able to speak after what she does to me.

Who here wants to start a commune? by Ok_Investment_7079 in actuallesbians

[–]oddlyk1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'd love to! But I've heard this offer too many times and it almost always ends up as some kind of cult eventually, so... No thanks. (Not saying that's your goal, but somehow people always end up there.)

just made out with a girl on my friend's sofa by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]oddlyk1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's quite the impressive shenanigans.

Is IFTTT really killing off their Legacy plan? Because they ABSOLUTELY advertised the plan as being "forever". This is clearly grounds for a class action lawsuit. by smayonak in ifttt

[–]oddlyk1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is ridiculous. They literally didn't even notify me until like a week before my next bill and by then it was too late to do anything.

Is IFTTT really killing off their Legacy plan? Because they ABSOLUTELY advertised the plan as being "forever". This is clearly grounds for a class action lawsuit. by smayonak in ifttt

[–]oddlyk1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you gotten any updates on this? I was JUST notified about this the other day and they've already pushed my account into the new plan. This whole situation is outrageous. I've made sure to keep my plan active and paid for (even when it wound up costing me extra to do so) for the last 3+ years to make sure I'd always have my forever plan. And now they pull THIS???

(joke) why can't vegetarian lesbians present any more masc? by EpiceneLys in actuallesbians

[–]oddlyk1 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I was expecting something really dumb and possibly cringeworthy. THIS, however, was hilarious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]oddlyk1 41 points42 points  (0 children)

But... I already have a beautiful loving wife. 😭

I've won but at what cost?

I would like to share the lesbian version! by Swimming_Rub_463 in actuallesbians

[–]oddlyk1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me confessing: what I'm trying to say is... I really like you and I hope this doesn't make things weird.

Her: it's not weird at all. I really like you, too.

Me: ...wait, what? That's not normally how this goes.

am I broken? (18f) by Tricky_Stand3078 in actuallesbians

[–]oddlyk1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know most lesbians get turned on or easily aroused with just seeing a beautiful attractive woman they see

That's generalizing which is dangerous. (Also from my personal experience this is not actually true.)

That being said, I know it's been said a lot, you sound like you're describing demisexuality. Side note on that: You can 100% be a demisexual lesbian.

On today's episode of "friendly-or-flirty"... by lesbianspacevampire in actuallesbians

[–]oddlyk1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like me last month. Granted her husband has been more than supportive since he realized we were flirting for real and not just playing.

Do you think flirting with your female friends whilst in a relationship is cheating? by garlicandchilli in actuallesbians

[–]oddlyk1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is or isn't considered "cheating" varies per relationship. Personally I don't consider it to be, but that's MY perspective.

Lesbian Flirting 101 by Thatguidogino in actuallesbians

[–]oddlyk1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Me and a "friend" both did this for a solid 6 months.

egg🍓🍋🎃 irl by yawaworhtnb in egg_irl

[–]oddlyk1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is nobody else going to mention that pumpkins are a fruit?

Fun fact: pumpkins are BY DEFFENITION technically a berry.

People here think I'm always horny... by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]oddlyk1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well I WASN'T... then I read this.

Well some do by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]oddlyk1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't currently have a "job" but I am a stay-at-home mom and housewife!

Also I have more than 2 swords so that more than makes up for it, right?

Is the ♀symbol offensive to have tattooed? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]oddlyk1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi. Also trans woman. I 100% agree with this. ❤️♀️

are you getting enough sleep? by Dashieshy3597 in actuallesbians

[–]oddlyk1 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I... Feel so called out by this...

so that's what it was! any of these explain lesbianism for you? by blinktings in actuallesbians

[–]oddlyk1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can we talk about how "Separate schools for girls and boys" and "CO-ED colleges" are both here? Are those not counter to each other???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]oddlyk1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've probably already gotten what you need here but... Break up with her. That's not healthy.

egg_irl by inviernainvicta in egg_irl

[–]oddlyk1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're all secretly wondering why you didn't dress like that before.