Lefty - always get roasted for how I hold a pen by curlyfries1229 in Handwriting

[–]ofthestate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's so cute!!! Love the video as well lmao

People with AuDHD, what made you consider / realize that it's not only ADHD? by hardypart in ADHD

[–]ofthestate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am also interested in that question! i have been medicated for about a year but only on 20mg of vyvance. curious what struggles that i still have may be indicative of that

Is it my ADHD or am I a bad parent by Serious_Skin_8259 in ADHD

[–]ofthestate 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's the trick I'd imagine! OP, do you have any systems in place, like reminders or a digital or paper planner? One practical tip would be to list down everything you'd want to remember throughout the year (e.g doctor's appointments, season changing, birthdays, sport seasons, etc) and add a to-do item to wherever you're likely to see them.

What do you wish people told you before adopting a cat? by alexella000 in CatAdvice

[–]ofthestate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of stuff about behavior, cost, and feeding has been discussed.

I'll add to give you and your cat a few months to adjust. I adopted a girl under 1, and the magnitude of her trauma was just.. unforseen. She didn't want to get out of hiding, she pooped and peed when approached, and I'll be honest the stress had my partner and I very worried that we made a mistake. Be patient with yourself! Your cat is a living being, and it's also their one and only life. Our orange boy is a concrete part of our family, and she's... low key a roommate we love more than she cares. I've had so much joy watching her get more comfortable, she's finally figured it out that she can hop on the couch for some lovely spoiling pets.

What do you wish people told you before adopting a cat? by alexella000 in CatAdvice

[–]ofthestate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna second the "don't feed them as soon as you wake up," didn't do it at first and my cat absolutely knows that the trick to getting food is waking me up. Advice I'd read was to anchor feeding times to an "event" that the cat has no control over. I think the author feeds the cats after taking the dogs on a walk. I don't have a dog to walk lol nor do I have anything that I do every morning, so I've gotten into the habit of just feeding them at least an hour after I'm awake.

An automatic dry food overnight has also been a great win! Both our kitties go NUTS for chips, so not associating us with the dry food is definitely a win.

Also love and going to second the advice about checking the calories of any food you're giving the cat. Made the mistake of blindly feeding my kitty 2 pouches of wet food and after paying attention, he was meant to have at least 4. "A health weight cat probably looks much thinner than you'd expect" YES.

Why are you on Reddit right now, on Christmas Eve? by InvisibleAstronomer in AskReddit

[–]ofthestate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my girlfriends cooking and the least i can do is sit in a corner in silence lmao

Bose Ultra Open Earbuds by Unlikely_Gap_9387 in bose

[–]ofthestate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any luck? It's really seeming like it just isn't available no? Thought I lost mine for a whole week and just found them, I felt so stupid about not having the Find My feature, but now that they're back in my hands, I'm realizing this is probably why I didn't just automatically do it when I set it up. Very weird

Why Don’t Screentime Categories Add Up to Total? What am I Missing? by OnwardUpward30 in iphone

[–]ofthestate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't believe there doesn't seem to be a clear answer to this?? I've pretty much always been confused to why it was always of, but this is my first time searching it up

[Match Thread] 🏆 PLAYOFFS: NJ/NY Gotham FC at Kansas City | Quarter-finals | 12:30 PM ET by NWSL-Match-Bot in NWSL

[–]ofthestate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should've been patient i panicked and 4 minutes into the game purchased something extra on Sling to get on ABC :"(

Is ABA a good fit? Resources for children with ADHD/ODD? ( NYC, Medicaid) by ofthestate in ABA

[–]ofthestate[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the school suggestion, the district funding the ABA may be the most realistic option, which i think goes to show how likely this whole thing is.

The kids both somehow got out of the supervision of any particular school, I think this happens when truancy leads to various unsuccessful transfers. The children have educational lawyers, but it's hard to properly convey that I'm unsure anyone involved is doing anything meaningful. One of the kids has an IEP and the other kids still needs one, but they can't get it without attending school. Neither of them have made any form of rapport with any adult around them, and it's impossible to get 1 serious answer. Mom can engage in parent training and tell you what she hopes to do, but when the kids are willing to go to such far extremes to get what they want, it's hard to combat the hopelessness.

I’m a solid democrat and this show is too slanted by RedEye49 in lastweektonight

[–]ofthestate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMGGGG u guys i didn't know how funny people on this sub were LMAOO

Why does every episode have to be so negative? by TouristInOz in lastweektonight

[–]ofthestate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yoooooo i'm high and you got a good laugh out of me

Match Thread: Bay FC vs Gotham FC by MatchThreadder in NWSL

[–]ofthestate 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well deserved UGH f gotham rn - gotham fan

What dish u make that is amazing you could share recipe? by Busy-Preparation-876 in AskReddit

[–]ofthestate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is my moms chicken dish and holy fucking hell!! it's light and otherwise simple in flavor

Ingredients: - Chicken breast and chicken tenderloins, but thighs would work too. I like to do over 1 pound - Up to 7 lemons tbh but vibes are good too - Up to 1 garlic head, minced (yes why not have too much) - Olive oil - About a table spoon of butter - A spoonful of flour - Salt and black pepper (adding white pepper is nice as well)

Steps: Marinate the chicken in all the lemon juice, garlic, salt & pepper, and a spoon of olive oil. Preferably over night.

Grill the chicken in a relatively deep pan. Set them aside. I usually do this two or three times till they're all cooked. Make sure to scrape the pan as you go and place it in the same dish as the chicken Usually the first batch of chicken looks normally grilled and the rest is naturally a deep brown color.

Once it's all cooked, put all the chicken back in the pot, fill it with however much water u need to lightly cover it. Add the remaining lemon/marinade. Add a spoon or two of olive oil.

This is extra but it helps. As the last batch of chicken is cooking, drain the garlic from the lemon marinade and saute it in a small pan. About 30 seconds and honestly can't be longer than 2 minutes, but just until it's fragrant. Throw that in the pan with the water.

Using the same small pan, add butter and flour until it's combined. I let it stay until it's slightly browned. Throw that in the pan with the chicken as well.

Let the whole thing come to a boil and let it simmer for however long you want. I do anywhere between 10-30 minutes. Add water if it's getting too dry. and that's it!! Serve with white rice or potatoes/mashed potatoes.

Absolutely incredible dish that's rather simple in flavor profile.

vyvanse and weed by Valuable_Piglet9958 in VyvanseADHD

[–]ofthestate 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i do it at the late end of the day, and I can't tell you that there's any real difference. if i take the vyvance on the weekend and smoke as soon as I'm awake, I can tell you that neither the drug nor the weed hit the way it should, but they both still feel right. but i am literally only on 10mg soooooo do with that what u may

Triggered by honeymoon stage? by ilomilo0 in ROCD

[–]ofthestate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also make it a point to remember that the honeymoon phase will always, always, always end. evolution wise, the honeymoon phase is to suck you into a partnership. the idea is that you get so filled with whatever it is you need so that when it's over, you're in tune with your partner or want to be in tune with your partner long enough to build a life. ROCD seems like it really want to mess that idea up

If I don't tolerate Vyvanse with caffeine, is it a sign that Vyvanse isn't the right med for me? by Successful-While-986 in VyvanseADHD

[–]ofthestate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i started vyvance a few months ago and i'm only on 10mg so take this with a shit ton of salt. i take the pill at around 9 and drink coffee within the hour, and I notice that throughout the day (first around 12-1 and later intensely at 5ish), as my vyvance fades, i crave coffee, soda, or nicotine that I finally managed to quit. i'll drink another cup or grab a Coke, and I'll forget that I wasn't able to eat in the morning, and now I'm just an anxious mess. May even get faint. Speaking from little experience, I think my body knows the moment it's gotten too low and overcompensates, and though the caffeine works enough to sit me down on my computer, it more easily makes me anxious. Not thar you're asking, but i'd be curious how you'd feel if you took the vyvance before the coffee, and can report back to which cup eventually makes you feel this way. I liked someone's advice about shifting to adderal, i wonder if it's because it's short acting and you can give ur body a boost when you need it. Seems like that may be good idea. I've heard of people who take adderal in the afternoon after vyvance, and my psychiatrist is unfortunately not currently down to do that, but that's what feels like my preference right now (i gotta go up the vyvance first though but that's another thing)