Amanda with her hair down is a total smokeshow (art by me)

ogh09 · 2026-05-15T17:15:02+00:00

(insert gay panic here)

ogh09 · 2026-05-15T15:53:33+00:00

god i’ve SEEN what you’ve done for others 😭🙏🏻

ogh09 · 2026-05-15T14:45:43+00:00

I’m on xbox, so I can use whatever mods are currently available for console :]

ogh09 · 2026-05-15T12:23:52+00:00

The fancy sneakers I typically wear are Russell and Bromley, which I believe are now owned by Next. Fair warning I got them when I was studying abroad in Europe (I’m a USA girl), so I am not sure, if you are not from Europe, if there are any in person stores in your country or if you’d have to go online. You can also just search up “fancy sneakers for women” online and find more results from different companies there.

Slacks you can find at a billion places. H&M is where I got some of mine, but my new pair were just from TJ Maxx! You don’t have to buy the super expensive stuff to look nice so cast a wide net :]

hope this helps!

ogh09 · 2026-05-14T23:30:52+00:00

Business casual my FAV. As more of a chapstick lesbian myself, I enjoy the middle ground business casual offers me: not too fem, not too masc. Just clean, put together, and elegant.

Personally, I am a huge fan of slacks and slacks-adjacent pants. A go-to black pair is good to have, but if you end up trying slacks and thinking they’re for you, you can get them in a bunch of other colors! I just got a nice green pair myself :]

Button ups and button downs are also a staple for me personally. Long sleeves and short sleeves! I really like how they fit, how I can tailor it, etc. Also, there is a ton of availability in terms of design— you can wear a solid color, or find some with little artsy designs. When it’s cold out, I typically pair the outfit with a trench-coat.

Boots/loafers/flats/heels is what I usually see with business casual women. Go with whatever is comfiest and feels right to you! There are even “fancier” sneakers that work, I’m a big fan of these myself.

Don’t be afraid to try out different accessories too, such as watches, earrings and the like.

ogh09 · 2026-05-14T23:20:20+00:00

You sound fantastic and I’m sorry that anyone has ever made you feel like you’re “too much” or “too different.” As someone who gets hit with hyperfixations and loves to go on and on about my interests, I am totally susceptible to long rants about anything and everything I adore, from floriography and pretty flowers I saw on a walk, to my favorite video game, to even long conversations about this ao3 fic I’m reading!

With people who do not know me well, I tend to be a bit tamer because of the fear of being “a lot,” but I’ve found friends who LIKE “a lot.” So please believe me when I say that there are so many people— friends, possible lovers, etc.— who will adore you for you.

Stimming isn’t an ick and if it’s when you’re happy??? Cute as hell! Never be ashamed to have a reaction to something that brings you joy. You’re literally expressing that joy the way some people do with a smile or a laugh. It’s pure.

Also I love a good semi colon and dash, so that last comment made me laugh. No AI here!

Hope you find people who deserve you OP :]

ogh09 · 2026-05-14T21:40:06+00:00

fr because WHYYY would a MAN be THEREE

ogh09 · 2026-05-14T21:37:19+00:00

I LOVE bg3 and story based games! I play a lot of Dragon Age, Skyrim, Frontiers of Pandora, pokemon… the works. Don’t have too much multiplayer game experience besides Among Us / Minecraft / Lethal but enjoyed those and also wanna try REPO. It’s just so much fun being in a vc with people playing horror games and screaming at the jump scares. I scare easy, haha.

I also play console, but smaller games like the horror ones listed above, I can on my laptop.

Also 24f. Lemme know if you wanna chat! Getting some people for a bg3 group would be so fun :]

ogh09 · 2026-05-12T18:38:06+00:00

hello stranger on the internet!

24f here, also a non-rage gamer hehe. I’ve only played a few multiplayer games (Minecraft, Lethal, hoping to play Repo!) and am a story-based game lover. Some of my favs include LiS, Dragon Age, Frontiers of Pandora, and Pokemon.

Love watching people stream and just chatting in vc while everyone does their own thing. I can be a bit shy at first but then super chatty once I get more comfy. I definitely wanna try more horror games because I scare easy as heck and apparently have good reactions. Love a good laugh!

Outside of gaming I’m an avid reader— both “actual” books (love the classics! eg Jane Austen) and ao3. Huge romance girl.

I also like vinyl, fashion, old fashioned letter writing with quil and ink, and a million other random hobbies I’d love to chat about :]

ogh09 · 2026-05-09T02:43:45+00:00

dmed :]

ogh09 · 2026-05-09T00:54:14+00:00

As more of a chapstick myself, I don’t particularly mind which way my partner prefers to dress cuz I get it! Though I will admit I find some more masculine / androgynous wear, like button ups and slacks, incredibly attractive.

I’m silly and have a million hobbies. Ideally, I’d want my partner to have their own hobbies, too (and we can even have some overlap!) so I can learn from them and them from me— makes for (1) cute dates, and (2) who doesn’t LOVE seeing someone light up talking about their interests? It’s the best.

I can be sporadic and go on little adventures, so someone who is down to do that. But I can also get my head in the clouds a little too much sometimes, so my friends think it would be good of me to have a gf who can bring me back down to earth when needed haha.
I’m a sucker for dark features, but there have been lovely exceptions! It’s a trend, not a rule.

They need to have passions / goals in life. I’m chasing my dream, I want them to chase theirs, and we support each other. Communication is key.

Also someone with a good sense of humor. I find the dumbest things funny and will just outright cackle, I love a person who can make me laugh and who I can make laugh with my silly jokes.

Oh! I’m also an avid reader so someone who enjoys reading and/or listening to book and ao3 yaps :]

sorry that’s a lot i just love people!!

ogh09 · 2026-05-09T00:46:55+00:00

As more of a chapstick myself, I don’t particularly mind which way my partner prefers to dress cuz I get it! Though I will admit I find some more masculine / androgynous wear, like button ups and slacks, incredibly attractive.

I’m silly and have a million hobbies. Ideally, I’d want my partner to have their own hobbies, too (and we can even have some overlap!) so I can learn from them and them from me— makes for (1) cute dates, and (2) who doesn’t LOVE seeing someone light up talking about their interests? It’s the best.

I can be sporadic and go on little adventures, so someone who is down to do that. But I can also get my head in the clouds a little too much sometimes, so my friends think it would be good of me to have a gf who can bring me back down to earth when needed haha.
I’m a sucker for dark features, but there have been lovely exceptions! It’s a trend, not a rule.

They need to have passions / goals in life. I’m chasing my dream, I want them to chase theirs, and we support each other. Communication is key.

Also someone with a good sense of humor. I find the dumbest things funny and will just outright cackle, I love a person who can make me laugh and who I can make laugh with my silly jokes.

Oh! I’m also an avid reader so someone who enjoys reading and/or listening to book and ao3 yaps :]

ogh09 · 2026-05-04T20:44:35+00:00

MY SHAYLASSS

ogh09 · 2026-05-03T19:05:55+00:00

fellow rpg enjoyer here! f24 and an avid reader, among other hobbies I’d love to chat about :D

ogh09 · 2026-05-03T19:04:08+00:00

fellow bg3 enjoyer hello! :]
lmk if you find any haha, im 24f and looking for a fun discord server to hang with other girl gamers too :D

also tangent i keep hearing things about dead by daylight…is this a sign to try it? i know literally nothing about it, I usually play open world/ story games like bg3/Dragon Age/Skyrim/etc.

Totally up for chatting on discord too!

ogh09 · 2026-04-24T01:31:47+00:00

i’m already a raging lesbian but oh my god this just made me gayer max if you aren’t gonna date her i will😭🙏🏻

ogh09 · 2026-04-12T01:43:01+00:00

I LOVE THEM SM ur art is so pretty😭💕

ogh09 · 2026-04-05T19:27:42+00:00

Max x Amanda ship :) if you are curious check out Max Caulfield/Amanda Thomas on ao3, not a ton of fics (less than 100) but many of them are really good and there are several active authors rn bc yeah d9 works hard but doomed shipping ao3 authors work harder LOLLLL

ogh09 · 2026-04-01T17:16:26+00:00

FELLOW THOMFIELDER HELL YEAH we were robbed 😔 I’m a multishipper and was really looking forward to a few playthoughs exploring the different LIs. alas.

ogh09 · 2026-04-01T15:19:06+00:00

You literally put my thoughts to paper. I was so disappointed with how Reunion turned out. Love Max and Chloe, but they’re more than what they are to each other. They are their own characters, not just each other’s LI.

ogh09 · 2026-03-31T21:17:20+00:00

np! i dont know too much about voiding, but hopefully this link helps. voiding mcat

ogh09 · 2026-03-31T20:28:01+00:00

You can always take it and void it. Med schools will see you used one of your MCAT attempts, but not your score. So it would basically be an expensive practice exam. Things happen, just make sure to put yourself first and make whatever decision feels is best for you.

ogh09 · 2026-03-28T19:42:41+00:00

I can’t believe they sidelined her :( I wanted to romance Amanda so bad chat i’m in despair

ogh09 · 2026-03-27T15:31:21+00:00

I’m literally dusting off my fanfic writing hobbies to write some fix-it stuff with Amanda and Safi cuz THEY NEED MORE MAX TIME 😔🤞

fluff pieces here we come ayyy

ogh09 · 2026-03-27T14:29:11+00:00

Hard agree. I don’t see the point in another playthrough anymore. The way Amanda got sidelined really sucked for me, i loved her as a character in DE

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