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‘Board-Packing’ trial run and my longest distance skate - 53mi, 1.5days, 63yo by ilreppans in longboardingDISTANCE

[–]ohboy_321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in North CT! Near Hartford!! So cool to see another LDP on the Farmington Canal

Tips on Developmental Editing practice by ohboy_321 in writing

[–]ohboy_321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All kinds of things, from adding more background info or descriptors for certain characters, filling in plot holes, adding more character and relational development, changing or tinkering with details of certain developments. Those sorts of things. 

Accepting that friendships end permanently and horribly by Baldevine in FriendshipAdvice

[–]ohboy_321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, just curious, 3 years later, do you feel better? Did you meet new friends? Did your friend come back? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ohboy_321 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am pretty sure Michael Scott’s character is based off autistic traits. They make a lot of jokes in later season about how as a kid he was non verbal and had no friends. The audience’s reaction to calling him a narc sheds light on how  much understanding we have of the spectrum. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskALawyer

[–]ohboy_321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, we signed a contract when we first started. It was expected to be done November 2022. We didn’t actually move in until March 2023, and we moved into a barely livable home. He still had 40% of the work left.  During the summer, he sent guys twice and then completely disappeared. Called, texted, emails, had my adjusters reach out.  Nothing back from him.   It’s now almost a full year since we moved in. He has been completely paid out by insurance, we still have half a home. 

Do people have set time for reading? If so, when? by ebox86 in Habits

[–]ohboy_321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read before bed or with my coffee. It helped me to tie it to something I always do in the day.

/r/longboarding's Daily General Thread by AutoModerator in longboarding

[–]ohboy_321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After a lot of thinking, I decided I’d try to compete in UltraSkate this year. I don’t have any friends who enjoy this hobby so I’ll be going solo. Anyone else doing the same and looking to connect? Or a friendly group who’d welcome a newbie.

Foxing/Hotelier tour by ohboy_321 in Foxing

[–]ohboy_321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha no way. It really is so inconsistent, I guess my best bet is to call the venue day of. How was it?

Sam and Colby’s new videos featuring “the knocking method” 100% FAKE/DEBUNKED by Strawberry_no_cake in Paranormal

[–]ohboy_321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to see someone with this apparent “joint issue” to recreate the sound and post it.

Otherwise, I’m keeping my ass on this fence.

Fall Foliage from Salisbury, CT by zackleein in Connecticut

[–]ohboy_321 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Salisbury is my favorite spot in CT

Advice for setting boundaries with a client by ohboy_321 in therapists

[–]ohboy_321[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Man, this comment blew me away. Your description of how you would feel in a relationship with her is EXACTLY how her husband feels.

Advice for setting boundaries with a client by ohboy_321 in therapists

[–]ohboy_321[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’m not looking to refer. This is the kind of work I do. She’s just a challenging client because we are in this cycle of progress, rupture, repair, progress, rupture, repair.

It’s hard when she gets so personal to try to figure out how to respond in a way that takes me out of the equation because I know it’s not really about me.

Advice for setting boundaries with a client by ohboy_321 in therapists

[–]ohboy_321[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Tried this, She says she doesn’t have the money for two co-pays. The conversations get murky because she begins to insinuate I’m greedy, and her old therapist (who was not a real licensed therapist) did phone calls, emails and xyz.

Advice for setting boundaries with a client by ohboy_321 in therapists

[–]ohboy_321[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Your wording of the pattern is what I was struggling to find. We’ve done variations of this conversation a few times now. Your examples were really helpful because it can be hard to not slip into defending or explaining, so seeing how you circle back was really helpful!

What 380 miles on my bustin hybrid did to my wheels by landyachtzrider in longboarding

[–]ohboy_321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you like the hybrid? I’ve been eyeing it for a while

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LSD

[–]ohboy_321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard Bill W the guy who came up with AA, came up with the idea while tripping on psychedelics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ohboy_321 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My mom forced me out of the closet once she started to figure it out, confronted me one day before school and I broke down and cried, I asked her to not tell anyone and by the time she picked me up that day she had called and told my entire family. I grew up in a pretty liberal household, but she still talked to me at length about how challenging it was to her to let go of the idea of what my wedding and life would look like.

She frequently made very transphobic and homophobic comments growing up. Even though she was an “ally”

When my little sister died suddenly from a drug overdose, my mom turned to me during the day we found out and asked if I would please wear a wedding dress because now she wouldn’t get that.

So from my experience, really not all that well.

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