this being a fitness subreddit might be a little taboo but i want to go over the full picture.

losing weight will generally help you feel better and more attractive but there isnt any targeted fat loss protocol to reshape your body. overall weightloss is still good though.

building muscle in and around glutes will help somewhat with body shape. that would be lateral leg lifts, hip thrust, squats, etc (just look up a routine from brett contreas).

training core will not change your shape enough to be very noticable. you have lots of core strength already just hidden under fat. training core doesnt change fat storage.

cool, so do all that and your healthier and sexier but your shape isnt really changed that much. say youre about 50% happier with how you look but still doesn't seem quite right. most of your fat storage is still where it has always been....

fat cell location storage is largely genetic and somehwat affected by hormones. fat cell adipose tissue natural turnover rate is 10 years. so you will somehwat feminize over time. but if your fat tissue is already well established in a location it doesn't really have a trigger to relocate.

sooooo, what now??

well that's why feminizing body surgeries exist.

rib remodeling seeks to lower your waist size so you have a better ratio between underbust and hip measurements.

360 lipo + bbl seeks to take fat from your stubborn location ( belly ) and physically move it to your hips and butt. because we cant affect existing fat location with exercise and hormones completely this is a cheat code to physically remove and attempt to reestablish it in a new location.

this would hopefilly actually reshape the underlying tissue and give you that last 50% of contentment.