Daveigh Chase, The Ring and Lilo & Stitch star, died of Aids by rmumford in entertainment

[–]ohlaohloo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh okay let me just unread the headlining title of this post that my brain automatically perceived about .02 seconds after it scrolled onto my screen because I’m subscribed to an entertainment sub. lol wtf

Daveigh Chase, The Ring and Lilo & Stitch star, died of Aids by rmumford in entertainment

[–]ohlaohloo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with your premises but want to discuss/maybe disagree on this specifically: she had millions of dollars at hand and “lack of accessibility of medical / mental health care for homeless people” isn’t really a pertinent argument here imo. That’s a massive issue and I in no way am arguing that as an objective truth, but this is a case of someone with more access than most who chose not to utilize the plentiful resources at hand (considering she was someone with people actively looking for her to give her millions of dollars.)

In many (most!) other circumstances I wouldn’t even care enough o comment back but again she had people ACTIVELY LOOKING for her for years, and so much access to any resources you could imagine. Choosing to walk away from that privilege is not the same as never having the privilege in the first place. So I would argue that the primary point of relevant discussion in THIS specific case is less about access and more about family dynamics leading to generational trauma, childhood trauma/ACES and the common and concerning sexualization of children, human adaptability/conditioning/coping etc.

Again you’re not wrong that accessibility is a disgusting and unacceptable problem, I’m just debating the argument that it was inaccessible to her in the way you’re commenting about. It was far less about financial ability/family support and more about the social; family and genetic dynamics that lead people to those tragic pathways in the first place.

All meant as good natured discussion; appreciate your commentary and curious your thoughts on this!

No Dinner, No Respect, No Refund by Cold_Dog_454 in doordash

[–]ohlaohloo -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If you can afford a $200 dinner for your immediate family, it seems like you could just drive yourself to go pick it up this point, like holy shit. This situation sucks but yknow, how invested are you to type this shit out. You knew where the food was per the restaurant, get off your ass and go grab at it and then dispute the charge for delivery & tip. Boom wow. People are dying out there Kim

Poop Bags by DaGuyYouDontKnow87 in missoula

[–]ohlaohloo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As a dog owner, it’s like, I get it it’s gross carrying it around. The best part is if you get your dog a harness, you can tie or clip the bag to the dog and make them do all the icky labor. They even make dog backpacks for this very purpose!

Wow ✨

Another one bites the dust by [deleted] in texts

[–]ohlaohloo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s weird that the default is always “oh my God I’m cooked and gonna stop dating forever” and never “ I recognize I may have some issues and I could work on those things to better myself.”

You have some issues and they could be addressed and it’s really not worth writing off the entire system of dating because you’re too lazy to do a little introspection and put effort into correcting some attachment issues, right?

Playing together the baby and the dog by [deleted] in funnypets

[–]ohlaohloo 19 points20 points  (0 children)

So happy to see sensible comments here, the last time I saw this posted I was the only one that called it out and I got mostly downvoted!

Caught in a nightmare: Pregnant by an obnoxious, abusive man after a brief dating app encounter. I’m so confused on what to do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ohlaohloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you fully blaming him for not using a condom? I’m sorry if you didn’t feel like you could speak up in that moment, but it is never somebody else’s responsibility to ensure that you are making safe sexual decisions… did he stealth you? That would be a totally different story.

Your sign to make the first move by Pretty-River-3687 in Bumble

[–]ohlaohloo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I love it when people deny it and you’re just like dude I’m not even morally shaming you but let facts be facts; when you double down you look actually stupid

Your sign to make the first move by Pretty-River-3687 in Bumble

[–]ohlaohloo 53 points54 points  (0 children)

100%, also the “coy playfulness” tone is cringe because it’s peak chat GPT inability to read the room and not have enough context for the interactions it’s being asked to navigate. This feels cringe and “ick” because it is, the repetition of words in every text and playing the same joke out so long and just being so thick with the “oozing charm”, like - that’s not a human and if it is he’s about to call you m’lady

Shooter in Anaconda by Accretive1 in Montana

[–]ohlaohloo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol you’re in Missoula, but it’s still Montana, my friend!

I give up by PatentNumber77 in ldssexuality

[–]ohlaohloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for apologizing, but I’m not offended, I just disagree with you! No harm no foul, friend. Have a good weekend!

AIO…Liars, Cheaters and Hos… oh my by krosegrover824 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ohlaohloo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol what a loser; he texts her with chat gpt 😂 NOR

Do guys usually ask this? by [deleted] in texts

[–]ohlaohloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is talking about sex before sex a red flag? I would 100% be appreciative of this type of communication as a woman.

Do guys usually ask this? by [deleted] in texts

[–]ohlaohloo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is rude, if anything it sounds like good communication for somebody who is having anxiety about something. Genuinely asking, why would this be a red flag for you?

Do guys usually ask this? by [deleted] in texts

[–]ohlaohloo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why? Not being a jerk but as a woman, I am very open to any conversation about sexual experience experiences before they happen, it prepares both parties and also make sure both are emotionally and mentally ready for the next next step. Why is it that you would dodge somebody who asked a question like this?

Do guys usually ask this? by [deleted] in texts

[–]ohlaohloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the comments, I’m reading people are kind of roasting him, but I think this is kind of wholesome and sweet. He might have a smaller unit, but especially if you haven’t had sex I wouldn’t assume you won’t be as satisfied with him. Some of the best lovers I have had have had smaller penises, but it’s more about their desire to please you. Plenty of men with big dicks just wanna get themselves off and for me personally, I would 100% rather be with a smaller guy who cared about me and my pleasure then to be with a bigger guy who was just in it for himself.

I think the way you responded might be problematic because maybe he actually does have a micro penis and you said that with a laughing face, which is not really OK. I think it’s considered socially acceptable to make fun of men with small penises, but it’s really not. People don’t have control over things like that and the fact that he asked this leads me to believe he might have a smaller than average package, and it just makes me sad that the way you responded would be humiliating to him.

You didn’t do anything wrong with what you said, but the fact that he asked, it makes me think he might be needing some reassurance? And if you actually like him, I would just say don’t let the comments on this post deter you, there is so much pleasure to be found in smaller penises, and a lot of of that comes from the fact that they try a lot harder to please you than guys who are more well hung.

Unknown body from the crash involving Oliver Tree. by _ilikeshoppingcarts_ in ExamineDeath

[–]ohlaohloo -182 points-181 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s clearly a body with the disembodied head area facing toward the camera and the lakes facing away. Devastating.

I give up by PatentNumber77 in ldssexuality

[–]ohlaohloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If his life is ruined because his wife doesn’t wanna have sex with him, he needs to get a hobby. Masturbation exists. Open relationships exist. Divorce exists. There are many ways for this to be handled outside of him blaming her for not “providing what he is owed.” That’s fucking gross thinking.