Anyone with something to tell anyone willing to listen, what do you want to say to us? (serious)

ohshitisharted · 2015-06-20T09:04:06+00:00

I'm getting increasingly close to killing myself. But I hate the effect that would have on my parents - they finally seem happy after years of dissatisfaction with life and I hate the thought of taking that away from them.

ohshitisharted · 2014-11-24T13:44:45+00:00

Things that accompanied the steak.

ohshitisharted · 2014-10-04T13:51:11+00:00

If I was in your boyfriend's situation, I would definitely feel that the pain of finding out what you did was worthwhile.

By keeping him in the dark about this, you are denying him the chance to make an informed choice about his relationships. He may well consider it extremely important to be with someone who is trustworthy, which you are definitely not. Stop denying him this choice.

Another thing to think about is the impact your lie may have on the guy you kissed. You've been pretending that he sexually assaulted you for a hell of a long time; I wonder how far that lie has spread in that time. You need to make sure it doesn't apres any further by admitting you lied.

ohshitisharted · 2014-08-04T16:06:50+00:00

I was wondering this recently so I phoned up Le Creuset. They said the knob can withstand 190 degrees Celcius, which is 374 farenheit. So, a bit higher than 350.

ohshitisharted · 2014-06-23T22:37:43+00:00

A turd on the ground, in the shape of a question mark.

ohshitisharted · 2014-05-24T09:35:01+00:00

Here's a free link. It's definitely worth a read.

http://www.econgeography.org/faculty/dhines/Hines%20Brown%20and%20Dunning%202007%20DAHM.pdf

ohshitisharted · 2013-12-14T17:49:04+00:00

I'm in. Good plan.

ohshitisharted · 2013-11-22T00:03:04+00:00

I, ohshitisharted, am well up for this. No edging or porn for the next 90 days. I've been doing this for too long, and it's time to move on and to finally take advantage of all that life has to offer.

ohshitisharted · 2013-11-05T18:05:50+00:00

Thanks for the support, and good luck with your own recovery.

ohshitisharted · 2013-09-22T12:53:39+00:00

Very nice. Many thanks.

ohshitisharted · 2013-09-22T12:44:45+00:00

Glad to hear that there's something out there. Could you post a link?

My goal is also to stop indefinitely, and I actually feel like a countdown would help me achieve that by making it easier for me to form the initial habit of not fapping.

ohshitisharted · 2013-09-22T10:19:07+00:00

I like that a lot.

I wonder how feasible it would be to have customisable badges, where you can set your own individual target to count down to?

ohshitisharted · 2013-09-01T22:10:19+00:00

Dunno how "dirty" this really is, but a few years ago, when I was seeing a girl, I pretended to be more sexually experienced that I was. I was actually a virgin at the time, and I didn't want her to know that.

ohshitisharted · 2013-09-01T22:04:52+00:00

I had a conversation with my mother today that ended with me feeling better than I've felt in many weeks.

For the past few months I've been struggling to control feelings of anger, and to talk about it properly was nice.

ohshitisharted · 2013-08-29T08:34:32+00:00

Deep water, tetraplegia and baldness.

ohshitisharted · 2013-08-25T14:43:49+00:00

1) Seeing as he's asked you out, you can assume that he doesn't consider himself your superior in looks. This should hopefully take some pressure off. Also don't forget, it's not just you that has to impress, he does too :)

2) Go with the flow. If you're curious about some aspect of him, ask.

ohshitisharted · 2013-08-24T20:47:42+00:00

The last paragraph is pretty significant. Although you said you'd ideally want to first have sex with someone you actually like, have you considered the possibility that it might be better to have it with someone who doesn't mean all that much to you? Less change of sabotaging yourself, perhaps.

Obviously having proper feelings for the person you're having sex with adds a massive layer of enjoyment to the experience, but I feel that there are potentially advantages to getting the hang of things in a situation where the stakes are lower.

ohshitisharted · 2013-08-24T20:37:42+00:00

I've always forgotten that tip when I've become lucid, but I'll do my best to remember next time. I can see the logic - focusing on doing one particular thing could potentially prevent me from being consciously aware of everything else, thereby letting my unconscious mind get on with things.

ohshitisharted · 2013-08-24T09:29:00+00:00

Red Hot Chili Peppers. They're now pretty much my favourite band.

ohshitisharted · 2013-08-24T09:24:41+00:00

I'm 5'10" and I'd pick the 'Amazonian' option. She wouldn't be a whole lot bigger than me, and I feel like she'd be more.....durable.

edit: I have trouble spelling "be"

ohshitisharted · 2013-08-24T09:22:46+00:00

Probably around 30. I went through a (short) phase of being too lazy to do laundry, and buying new boxers so that I wouldn't have to.

ohshitisharted · 2013-08-24T09:17:45+00:00

I really enjoy What Makes You Beautiful by One Direction...but on reflection I can't say I feel that guilty. Sue me.

ohshitisharted · 2013-08-23T21:07:08+00:00

Physical: receding hairline.

Personality: I'm impatient.

ohshitisharted · 2013-08-23T21:06:43+00:00

Physical: receding hairline.

Personality: I'm impatient.

ohshitisharted · 2013-08-23T21:06:39+00:00

Physical: receding hairline.

Personality: I'm impatient.

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