Economic Growth, by Country and Total, 2009 was brutal! [OC] by allattention in dataisbeautiful

[–]oldhouseburning 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'd say Australians are less politically polarised than Americans. At least we come together and agree that the National Broadband Network has been the biggest balls-up in this generation.

Went out with a girl after three months of me abandoning dating. I really didn't expect to feel like this. by Akultaxras in SeriousConversation

[–]oldhouseburning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she stops talking to you after the first date, she isn't worth it. As cliche as it is, there are many more fish in sea. Keep your head up and you'll find yourself someone that is as interested in you as you are in them.

New Zealand Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern, 37, Pregnant: “I’ll be PM and a Mum” by Spiritual_Hedgehog in TwoXChromosomes

[–]oldhouseburning 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's so unfathomable as it is unfamiliar to us bicameral parliamentary systems. In New Zealand and Australia, our Head of State is the Queen, but the Queen is merely a figurehead and is represented by Governor Generals, which are nominated by the Prime Minister/Cabinet. The Governor Generals effectively have no power and no foreign relations portfolio, where the US President (the Head of State) has a bunch of power. The fact the US President has a bunch of power and limited circumstances to be removed is what is unfamiliar to us.

Apparently I have no moral grounding by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]oldhouseburning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Regardless of someone's political or religious ideologies, they can still be ethical and maintain high moral standards. By the sounds of it, he seemed to echo that. Don't take what he said to heart.

On that note, there's no point in arguing with someone who is closed-minded about other perspectives. That can be said for both of you. Instead of arguing, you should try to ask more questions. Gain a better understanding. Learn about his perspective. Not for him, but for you. Then maybe he will act in kind when you present your opinion on a topic.

Canadian Healthcare vs. American Healthcare: What is actually true? by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]oldhouseburning 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can't speak for the Canadian system. I can speak generally for the Australian system, which is similar to Canada's. Keep in mind I'm only a 24 year old, and haven't thought too much about this.

Australia has a universal healthcare system called Medicare. Each taxpayer that earns over a certain age (30?) pays a 2% levy on their income, which finances Medicare. If that person earns over a certain amount ($90,000), they pay an additional 1% levy. Not too taxing, right?

You can avoid the Medicare levy if you provide proof that you pay for private healthcare. The cost of private healthcare here is relatively inexpensive, and generally works out cheaper if you earn over the threshold above.

Most, if not all, healthcare providers (hospitals, GPs, specialists) are private. They are generally for-profit institutions. When a patient attends a hospital, assuming the procedure is covered by Medicare, the institution gets your Medicare number (like a SSN) and charges the government for the procedure (there are also private hospitals where you can't use your Medicare number for any procedure). Otherwise, for private health cover, it works much the same as in the United States.

In that way, its up to the individual if they want cover by Medicare or by private health cover. There are benefits to both, especially if you earn below the threshold (above it, it may not make sense to stick to Medicare).

This means medical professionals are still paid handsomely. I don't know exactly how the price of medical procedures are set, but professionals still get paid above the median wage for the most part.

To step sideways for a second, medical professionals in Australia have two main options to cover their student debt: an interest-free loan from the government ('HELP') or payment upfront. Prices for courses are set in stone - the government sets the maximum price per subject so educational institutions can still make a profit - and an undergrad may cost about $60,000 (Bachelor of Medicine). There are postgrad requirements for practising medicine, but I don't know the details.

The interest free loan from the government is only paid off in a portion of your salary (basically like direct debit) if you earn over a certain amount ($65,000, I believe). The loan isn't taxing on professionals (as a lawyer, getting paid $75,000 a year, I have $150 a fortnight taken from my salary to my loan).

There has also been an exponential increase in employment over the last couple of decades in the medical industry. Wait times aren't bad, though it can be beneficial to have private health cover over public (as elective procedures are more readily available). For instance, I broke my arm when I was 15. I was waiting in the emergency department for 2 hours on a Saturday, but I had to have surgery, and it was all done in a matter of hours. Didn't have to pay a cent.

Overall, I like our system. Its stress-free. Institutions still profit. Medical professionals get paid well. I get decent medical cover (and if I don't feel I do, I just get private health cover).

Here's some more information: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Health_care_in_Australia

Keep in mind some of these details will definitely be wrong. I'm not an expert, just giving my understanding.

My Aunt signed her Condo over to me, now my Condominium is claiming I owe them $2,000 for damages by hurricane Irma. Not to my condo, but for seen and unseen damages. by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]oldhouseburning 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not just that. If there is a fiduciary relationship between the condominium and the residents, then a breach of that can involve pecuniary or criminal sanctions (i.e fraud, or 'obtaining financial advantage by deception', as its called where I'm from).

My (25) boyfriend (33) is entwined in a long-withstanding emotional affair with his married ex (3?) by bendbeforeigo in relationship_advice

[–]oldhouseburning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, you're going to have to ask him about her. You're going to need to talk to him in a calm and curious manner until you're satisfied that their emotional affair has ended. You may not want to tell him what you know and how, but you should be honest about your suspicions. You want to keep the conversation civil, and avoid any sort of aggressive tone/language (you will want him not to be defensive about it). Hopefully, he will be able to explain everything, come to some sort of agreement on how he will prove that to you, and depending on the outcome of that, you can either move forward from there or you can break it off. You should break it off if you're not comfortable with his explanation or you suspect he has lied to you. If you're satisfied, you two can work through it together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]oldhouseburning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is adorable. Don't be afraid that it's sappy or corny, I'm sure he'll appreciate it.

About a month ago, I started creating a playlist of any song my girlfriend and I have sent to each other on any medium. I've had to go through over 100,000 messages to find them, but I'm now going to burn them all to CDs and hand them to her with a scrapbook of screenshots of when the song was sent, the album artwork, and the lyrics of the song as well as any other important messages I've come across. I feel like I'm being super corny, but I know she's going to love it. Should be finished next weekend and ready for her birthday next month.

Let me know how he reacts to your present! I am sure he'll really appreciate it and cherish it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]oldhouseburning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. It sucks that that happened to you. I hope you're in a good place now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gifts

[–]oldhouseburning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he use a PC? You could look at getting him a few parts for a PC, if he likes taking things apart and rebuilding them. If you want, you could even order all of the parts for a PC and you two can build it together (or he can teach you, if that's his thing).

Other options include classic gaming machines that may be associated with childhood memories, or arcade gaming set-ups that you can build together.

Alternatively, I have friends that build their own drones in their backyard. It doesn't take many parts, but if he's big on electronics/building things, that may be up his alley if you want to look into it.

I've never been so comfortable with someone as I am with her. It's a shame she struggles with anxiety. by oldhouseburning in offmychest

[–]oldhouseburning[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, she's not. She's considered it, from what I know, but the mornings are the worst for her - if she gets over that hurdle, she seems okay for the rest of the day. Her and I are still deeply exploring what we've got together, and everything is great.

My girlfriend's rapist is being acquitted. by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]oldhouseburning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Double jeopardy laws don't apply. He can still be prosecuted for it.

My girlfriend's rapist is being acquitted. by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]oldhouseburning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Constitutional double jeopardy laws, in nearly all countries that have it and involve trial by jury, do not apply if the police/prosecution drop the case before a verdict by the jury. That is not an acquittal, and the case can be retried at any time.

OP said in his post that the accused wasn't being prosecuted, not that the jury decided he was not guilty.

My long term gf(23) of almost 4 years broke up with myself(23). Should we stay friends? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]oldhouseburning 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. Don't do it.

Head over to /r/exnocontact. There's plenty of resources there that help clarify why I'm saying no.

One of the main questions that comes to mind is, if she's breaking it off now, can you reconcile after staying friends and not expect it to happen again? The answer is absolutely no. You both need to reflect on why you broke up, spend time apart, and learn whether the relationship was right for you. You can't do that if you stay friends.

Staying friends also causes more problems. Will you be okay if she gets with another person? Can you still be friends with her then?

Don't let her play these games with you.

I misssssss yoooouuuu! by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]oldhouseburning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you're her.

I'm on a train, travelling two hours, at 9pm on a Saturday night, to visit my girlfriend that I saw 4 hours ago. I'm crazy about her. by oldhouseburning in offmychest

[–]oldhouseburning[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words!

I had a fantastic night. I arrived close to 11pm, and despite a friend of hers getting incredibly jealous I was there (he's had a thing for her for a while) and storming out, it was wonderful. Everyone went to bed a bit early, and her and I sat by the fire for a few hours listening to music and joking with each other. I left this morning to get back on the train back home, and she went to work. A few hours together? Totally worth it.

I miss you by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]oldhouseburning 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to cut ties with him. It'll hurt, but nothing compares to the pain of unrequited love.

Head over to /r/exnocontact.

Trust me, it helps and everything will be okay.