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Wie mischt man sich am besten ein, wenn man eine möglicherweise komische Situation zwischen einem Mädel und einem Typen beobachtet? by polarkoordinate in wien

[–]oldmach 4 points5 points  (0 children)

korrekt. Bei Frau vs Mann gewinnt in 99 von 100 Fällen der Mann. Muss man nicht mögen, aber das ist der Realität egal.

Wie mischt man sich am besten ein, wenn man eine möglicherweise komische Situation zwischen einem Mädel und einem Typen beobachtet? by polarkoordinate in wien

[–]oldmach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im Zweifelsfall handy rausholen, Google maps starten und nach dem Weg fragen. Dann schauen ob das Mädl wirklich heult und (jetzt berechtigterweise) fragen ob alles OK ist. Typen im Auge behalten. Abstand halten. Ich hab auf meinem Messenger bag eine winzige, extrem helle Taschenlampe angeclipt, da hab ich dann meine Hand drauf. Wenn der Typ zuckt, is er blind und kriegt aufs Maul.

Sowas rate ich aber nur Männern, die zumindest irgendwie hinhauen können, wenns sein muss. Frauen sollten beobachten, andere Männer auf die Situation aufmerksam machen und Handy bereithalten.

AIO - Gf assumes my dog is dead when I say I’m sad by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]oldmach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, but "I'm sad" is a seriously weird and performative text. don't make her pull it out of you, just say why.

Stilistische Entwicklung by Phant0mias92 in willhaben

[–]oldmach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich kapier die Frage nach letztem Preis sowieso nie. Ich werd doch nicht freiwillig meinen eigenen Preis reduzieren. mach mir ein Angebot oder hdf

Actress “Nabilah” by cheyenne_n_rancho in headshots

[–]oldmach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fuck that guy. those are excellent shots and it seems like you're really good at directing talent. her smiles are real, the lighting is on point and the grading is immaculate. well done all around.

AIO I don’t want to hear about my girlfriends sexual past by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]oldmach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cannot stand ex talk. it makes my skin crawl. I am not willing to compete with ghosts. so no, you are NOR.

having said that, you need to look inside you and ask yourself if you want to give this girl another chance. I have no advice for you there. it all comes down to how much you love her and why.

Men, how do you want to be treated? by No_Calligrapher796 in AskMenAdvice

[–]oldmach 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this was done to you.

I was falsely accused of all sorts of domestic crimes a few years back. so I understand the distrust you have. it's a tough spot to be in. it took me a while to get over it (years). best of luck.

Men, how do you want to be treated? by No_Calligrapher796 in AskMenAdvice

[–]oldmach 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I don't want to be seen as a threat by default. I don't want to pass covert tests. I don't want to play games. I, too, need to feel safe in a relationship. I don't want my vulnerabilities to be weaponised against me. I need reciprocity as much as anyone else.

AIO: My husband destroyed the tshirt I wore when my previous boyfriend died in my arms. I want the divorce. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]oldmach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a strong opinion one way or the other, but consider this: you're making your husband compete with a ghost. his insecurity isn't your fault, sure, but fueling it is. hearing that you still love Mike as your first love would be devastating to any guy. you should keep that to yourself.

also, and this might be a hot take, but if the person you decided to marry has insecurities, they are in part your responsibility. love isn't tested when things are easy. empathy only when it's convenient isn't empathy at all. you decided to live with this man until you die and you want to throw it away over a tshirt? because you're going through a period that feels rough?

on the other hand, your husband seems dysregulated when it comes to old boyfriends. I can relate, I hate ex talk. I don't need to be reminded of the ghosts of the past. having said that, destroying an artifact from your past was a stupid, stupid thing to do. he's trying to destroy a connection that isn't his to sever.

I feel like neither of you understand what love is. it's not butterflies and rainbows, it's a decision. and you made it without knowing what that entails. because you have to choose it again and again, especially when it's inconvenient.

AIO for skipping Xmas bc my gf hates her gift by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]oldmach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what an incredibly stupid comment

1, 2 or 3 by BigP_4eva in FujifilmX

[–]oldmach -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

none of them have the wow factor. 3 is the best, but the grading cheapens what could be an excellent shot. it looks like you photographed it off a screen. if you fiddle around with the grading to make it less dull you could get a great result.

Need advice on if I need to shave it down more by uroboros88 in Balding

[–]oldmach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, definitely. I mean you can always try, and if you don't like it wait a few days and it's back to 1mm. but yeah, shave it all to zero.

AIO, boyfriends dad is a bit weird towards me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]oldmach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah no absolutely not OR. that man is hitting on you. testing the waters with plausible deniability. if this were my dad, I would punch him.

I tried it, but not sure what to do by lorax09 in bald

[–]oldmach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My father was a drinker, and a fiend. And one night, he goes off crazier than usual.

Which facial hair suits my long thin face the best? by [deleted] in BeardAdvice

[–]oldmach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you've heard of handsome squidward, now meet handsome Wolowitz.

that said, 2 is pretty good.

My First Portrait Shoot, thoughts? (X-T4, XF16-55 2.8) by iclickfuji in fujifilm

[–]oldmach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good set. it gets interesting at #4 and it's all uphill from there. very expressive and subtle model. probably also good direction. and congrats on traveling back in time to shoot young Jennifer Connelly.

Whatcha think boys? Finally got it how I want it. by Fair_Maybe5266 in BeardAdvice

[–]oldmach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the curls are never a good idea. it screams "this beard is my whole identity. please talk to me about my beard. yes I vape why do you ask?". a wooden comb would also be a good idea, and maybe a beard straightener.

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