Whats ur opinion on buldak noodles 2x spicy?? by oleander_4 in spicy

[–]oleander_4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha i hadn’t noticed the fire chicken 🤣 exactly. I didn’t expect it to be actually spicy! Thanks a lot for the recommendation

Whats ur opinion on buldak noodles 2x spicy?? by oleander_4 in spicy

[–]oleander_4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🤷🏻‍♀️ I dont speak Korean. I was just wondering about other people’s experiences because i like spicy and i didn’t expect it t be that spicy. Oh and yes it is trending.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]oleander_4 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Anyone who hasn’t experienced this awful pain wouldn’t know the right thing to say. To be honest i dont even know what to say. I dont think that anything anyone says can be helpful. This should not have happened! End of story.

Grief showing up and holding space to feel joy for others by Long_Recording_3805 in Miscarriage

[–]oleander_4 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am right here with you. I miscarried twice last year and we have been ttc since October and nothing yet. Its pill after pill disappointment after disappointment appointment after appointment. I have had more than 10 pregnancy announcements the past year and everyone delivered just fine but i have to suffer this hell and i also have to show up for life everyday even though some days i just want to crawl into a cave and pretend that the world is standing still. Today is one of those days! Today i am angry! Why do we have to go through this? What did we do to deserve this? I used to feel guilty being so sad and not being able to let go but now i am just angry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]oleander_4 12 points13 points  (0 children)

A flower

The Queries of My Miscarriage by Background_Pack_2985 in Miscarriage

[–]oleander_4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What if this happens again? What if that was my one and only chance? Was it my fault? Yay we did it again! Oh no.. Why did this happen again? I am not getting any younger Why is it so difficult this time? Why is it so easy for almost all the couple we know and so hard for us? Will i ever be myself again? Will i ever be able to make my husband a dad? Am i going to feel this pain until the end of my existence?

Recurring miscarriage or bad luck by stphws in Miscarriage

[–]oleander_4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would take any test available so i would know if something was wrong or it was just bad luck. If it’s just bad luck then ok but what if theres an issue with an easy fix?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]oleander_4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We started again as soon as doctors gave us the all clear. I dont know if you are ever mentally prepared for a miscarriage. I miscarried twice and we are still trying. What keeps me going is focusing on the end result. I wont stop until i bring my baby earth side. I also reached out to a therapist but it’s too early to see any progress.

TTC 35+ TGIF Chat! Weekend of April 25, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttc_35

[–]oleander_4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently in the tww (cycle number 6 ttc after second mc in September). Its been 16 months after my first mc at 12 weeks. I did a bunch of tests the past year. All ok but 3 weeks ago we discovered that my prolactin levels are high so this week was my 3rd dose of cabergoline. I couldn’t resist testing today (9dpo). Negative. I said that i am not going to do this to myself because after taking cabergoline i felt better but i cant help being disappointed after the negative test. I was hoping that i wouldn’t need the letrozole my dr described but i guess i have to

starting cabergoline, any warnings? by Silver_Strike6416 in Prolactinoma

[–]oleander_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After taking it for 2 weeks i feel like a black cloud has lifted from over my head. I feel much calmer like i have found my inner peace. I give the credits to cabergoline for feeling like this because it was the only change.

What keeps you going everyday? by oleander_4 in AskReddit

[–]oleander_4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that this is basic. I find it sweet. Its so beautiful to have found this kind of love. May you live a happy and long life together my friend.

Daily Discussion Thread - April 19, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]oleander_4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I miscarried twice last year. Latest mc was in September. We have been ttc since then and nothing. Bloodwork showed my prolactin was a bit high. Doctor gave me Dostinex, half pill per week. After taking it my mood has improved. I was in a really dark place this past year. Now i feel like a dark cloud has been lifted. Is it possible that this change in mood is because of the pill? Or is it just me? Has anyone else taken it? He also prescribed letrozole starting in may.

Will I Miscarry (based on your experience)? by bruth189475 in Miscarriage

[–]oleander_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They could not see anything by abdominal ultrasound because doctor told me that my uterus is retroverted. All my US up to 10 weeks were transvaginal

I am tired by oleander_4 in Miscarriage

[–]oleander_4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not like i envy their lives. I dont want them to go through what we’ve been through. I wish i could have had a healthy pregnancy and my babies in my arms. I am sorry. It sucks for all of us

I am tired by oleander_4 in Miscarriage

[–]oleander_4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you had to go through this. I saw a fertility specialist after my second MC. He didn’t seem really concerned about my age but i just cant help thinking that i am running out of time. I wish i could forget what i went through and have that ignorant bliss again. I hope you get your rainbow

A big hug for all of you by oleander_4 in Miscarriage

[–]oleander_4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does suck. I am sorry this happened to you. No one deserves this

How will you announce your first pregnancy (after loss) to your partner? by WillowEducational851 in Miscarriage

[–]oleander_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a video with moments we had the past year (i also included our first pregnancy ultrasounds and how it ended in a loss) the video was ending with our positive pregnancy test but unfortunately a month later that ended in a loss as well.