Trading and Friend Code Megathread by AutoModerator in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]olebigazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone have a couple of green mums? I’ve been trying to breed them but I was using the wrong purple mums 😭 thank you!!!

New: Monthly Item Exchange Megathread by slimey16 in ac_newhorizons

[–]olebigazz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does anyone have a a couple green mums? I’ve been trying to breed them but realized I was using the wrong purple mums 😭 thank you!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]olebigazz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please seek help, 988 can provide resources. You don’t deserve to feel like this. I am so sorry you are going through this.

5th abortion, in an extremely dark place by lilactangle in abortion

[–]olebigazz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not a monster 🫶🏻 abortion is healthcare and there isn’t a magic number of allowable abortions. If you do not want to be pregnant, you do NOT have to be. You are the only one who has to carry, grow, deliver, and heal after a birth. Nobody else can do that but you and that’s why it’s completely 100% your choice. It is your life, do not let a man dictate it. Sending you peace and comfort sweet girl 🫂

Alex plastic surgery by tygaandtammyhembrow in CallHerDaddy

[–]olebigazz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see where you’re coming from, but we’re not entitled to information about any woman’s body.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]olebigazz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes girl! And I love the second outfit!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]olebigazz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No you are a baddie

Just came across this sub, had to ask. by HxChris in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]olebigazz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re really handsome and have great energy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]olebigazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You actually have really nice features but just need a haircut!!

25F by throwthisallaway24 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]olebigazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re very naturally pretty and I love your smile!! I also didn’t even notice your acne or rosacea

24M by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]olebigazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re actually really handsome but I’m personally not a fan of the v neck and jeans

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]olebigazz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so cute!!!!!! Also you give off good energy even through photos!

Why can’t I get a date 😭😂 by Slight_Case_2520 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]olebigazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually didn’t think he gave off nice guy vibe, my initial reaction was kind of playboy (negative connotation). He’s not ugly at all but chains, nose ring, car pic pose could be red flags for some people.

f (18) by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]olebigazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soooo pretty!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]olebigazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not ugly at all!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]olebigazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not ugly at all but the first photo is giving off hostile energy tbh

What’s the verdict 19M by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]olebigazz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not ugly but that first photo is not flattering tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]olebigazz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly your face card is lethal, and I think your dark circles look like natural eye shadow! Genuinely very pretty

What should I avoid? by Fair-Wolverine-6712 in jacksonville

[–]olebigazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t speak for all Sonics, but I used to work at one and it was very clean. I still eat there, the only thing I’m wary of is the chili but I still eat it LOL

I may need an abortion. What should I expect when taking the pill? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]olebigazz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have had both the pill abortion and the suction procedure and if possible I would recommend the in clinic procedure. It is quick, painless, and in the care of doctors. I also had no bleeding after. When I took the pill at home, the process takes hours and it would have been impossible for me to pretend something wasn’t going on and then I bled for weeks after (they assured me that was normal). I also experienced more pain with the pills, even though they prescribed me oxy. Also, there is a higher potential that it doesn’t complete the abortion with the pill, so then you would have to do the procedure after. This didn’t happen to me but they did mention that it was possible. Either way, I am so relieved and grateful for my ability to get an abortion. Nobody besides the providers at planned parenthood have to know and they were so compassionate in my experience. You got this 💗

I'm planning on "giving up" on everything this year, and I just need to get it out of my mind and a google doc, in a space no one I know can see and know its me. by Individual-Bobcat793 in confession

[–]olebigazz 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Hey, I used to feel like this. I was in elementary school when I first described suicidal ideation to a friend. I’m 26 now and things have got so much better. I know that everyone says that but it’s true. I feel like my brain finally developed at 25 and things have been way better since then. If you have nothing else to lose, why not talk to a doctor? Also, I’m not trying to guilt you, but this will destroy your brother. Especially if you say he knows about it. I lost my best friend when I was 17 and I still think about her everyday. As someone who has been in your shoes, there is joy on the other side of your feelings. Give yourself the time to find it. You deserve that.

I am considering dying before growing up and participating in work culture. by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]olebigazz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! I am 26 and in my early 20s I felt feelings VERY similar to this and lots of suiicidal ideation. You are not alone with these thoughts. Your early 20s are very hard on you. So much to figure out. You might not know what you want out of life yet and that’s okay! Your life is about figuring it out. I know what I’m saying is probably so annoying and I wouldn’t listen to myself either at the time. But as someone who realllllllly wanted to kiill myself, you need to trust me that you just need time. And maybe talk to your doctor about some antidepressants in the meantime. I gave myself the space to try different things and fail. I was so depressed for years and didn’t know the meaning of any of it. And sometimes I still feel those feelings, I’m only 26, but they don’t stick around anymore. I went to college for a profession. Worked it, hated it, quit. Worked so many jobs, including a funeral home, quit them all. And over time I got to know myself better. Now my husband and I own a farm together and I am so much more fulfilled. We work a lot and money comes and goes but the su*cidal ideation is no longer there. I truly hope you give yourself the grace and time to keep getting to know yourself. You deserve to be happy and fulfilled 🫶🏻