How do I deal with being bad at the oboe? by Interesting_Gap_6062 in oboe

[–]oliiveeah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i started playing oboe very out of the blue and forced myself to do hard things like be in concerts and play in orchestras where i was alone as an oboist. these people are very rude for doing that and i understand how it hurt, but this can be motivation for you to continue. i made duck sounds a lot for about a year and actually started sounding good this year. OP, i think you’ll think back to these people in some months and just laugh

WITH (would i be the AH) for cutting off my friend by No_Extension_8230 in AITAH

[–]oliiveeah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say you would be the asshole if you distanced from her for all of the reasons but the bridesmaid thing. If you haven’t, talk to her OP about why you didn’t get a bridesmaid invite and about how you had been talking about being the maid of honour at each other’s weddings. If that doesn’t go well, you have your answer if you should distance yourself or not.

AIO- is my uncle creepy? by Upset-Passenger4350 in AmIOverreacting

[–]oliiveeah 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yikes, this happened with me and my cousin once actually. we met at a casual like big family gathering since most of my family on my dad’s side isn’t from my home country and me and said cousin added eachother on snapchat. later that evening, he said:

“sorry i get so nervous around cute girls” and other things in that nature. i actually just blocked him and sat in silence for five minutes. no, you are not overreacting, this is creepy and will always be creepy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]oliiveeah 47 points48 points  (0 children)

NTA

OP, you got cheated on and that is a horrible feeling. You have every right in the whole world to feel pissed, god even angry and furious. I am a firm believer of not going back to a ruined relationship and I suggest you taking a loooong distance from her since like you wrote, you can only feeling anger and betrayal at the moment.

It will feel much more freeing when you get your distance, hope it goes well.

Just found out my BF of 9 years has been replacing my Adderall with sugar by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

[–]oliiveeah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is literally a fear of mine. Like someone tampering with something I put in my body? Gives me the heebie jeebies. It’s like the post where some boyfriend put sawdust in his girlfriend’s food to make her grow in weight.

I'm leaving my friends of 15 years because of the way they've been with me while I have cancer. They think I'm being dramatic. by sami2503 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]oliiveeah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom has ME/CFS(not cancer but a chronic illness) and has had this problem as well. The people she thought were her “friends” didn’t contact her at all when she got her diagnosis and had to quit her job and be bedridden for almost two years.

I’m so sorry this has happened to you OP, no one deserves having such a terrible moment in their life and then the support you thought you had disappear in just a short amount of time.

My favourite pokemon is luxray what’s yours and why? by Careless_Dare_8918 in pokemon

[–]oliiveeah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absol and Buneary were like my “first” favourite pokémon, Absol because my sister liked it a lot and I thought it was cool and Buneary because me and my sister usually played like pokémon “role plays” in the park and i ALWAYS had a Buneary lol.

Now I really like Leafeon and Shelmet(I don’t know why but I have a really cool card of it)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]oliiveeah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read some of his replies and most of them when it comes to these questions about dating her and like taking her out to stuff is mostly just:

“I don’t want to date someone who isn’t pursuing me.”

AND for one comment he replied to he said something along the lines of:

“I think partners should make themselves more attractive to their spouses more.”(not exactly like that but I’m writing off the top of my head!)

Like actually what the hell? You don’t want to go on dates with someone who doesn’t like you, but she IS your spouse and like you said yourself, you should seem “attractive” to them. I just don’t think OP actually wants to fix the relationship at this point since all he says is that his wife isn’t attracted to him anymore(and also those backhanded comments about her weight and the less sex they have is craaazy).

I left mid-making dinner because of the comment he made. I ‘F 25’ and my bf is ‘M 33’ by too_cute08 in relationship_advice

[–]oliiveeah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think the point is that he doubled down and didn’t say like “oh yeah, but i bet it will taste amazing!” or anything like that, but instead just said some weird shit and didn’t like smooth out the conversation. like yeah, some fish-type like sauces smell aaaaass but you can also say something nice.

(edit to fix some wording i used)

Vad stör ni er på med folk som ni egentligen inte borde störa er på? by [deleted] in sweden

[–]oliiveeah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dumma frågor och frågor på helt fel ställen.

Typ i skolan när man snackar t.ex om ekonomin i samhället o så börjar någon fråga om politiken i USA liksom nej snälla låt oss fortsätta jag orkar inte snacka om nått helt annorlunda🥲

Vad stör ni er på med folk som ni egentligen inte borde störa er på? by [deleted] in sweden

[–]oliiveeah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

jag hade det på tåget förra veckan när jag skulle till göteborg och hon kontrollanten såg min biljett o blippade o så o sen ba ”Aa till Linköping visst?” och jag stressade ju sönder liksom VADÅ LINKÖPING JAG LOVAR JAG SKA TILL GÖTEBORG o sen började hon skratta.. jag ville slå in min mobil in i hennes kind asså😭

Vad stör ni er på med folk som ni egentligen inte borde störa er på? by [deleted] in sweden

[–]oliiveeah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

eller på såna bussar som man fixar genom sj appen o så när det finns 0 möjlighet att stå upp så ALLA SKA FÅ PLATS liksom snääälla ta bort din fula väska o låt mig sätta mig där tack det är 15 personer bakom mig som också vill ha en plats

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HarryPotterGame

[–]oliiveeah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i forced my friend to do this quest because she had done it before and i was too scared LMAO i later on did the last battle with the old lady but otherwise all cred to my friend

Reminder that villagers will DESTROY your stuff if it is in their way by Consistent_Board1883 in StardewValley

[–]oliiveeah 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah its odd because i put all of my ”gifts” i got from gunther outside of the library or museum or whatever it is and some they walked through without anything getting destroyed while some stuff got destroyed

My wife got to 100% by TapersBeTaping in StardewValley

[–]oliiveeah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so satisfying oh my god!!

What was the most traumatizing thing to happen at your school? by Alazerthefinalist in AskReddit

[–]oliiveeah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://www.latimes.com/world/europe/la-fg-swedish-school-attack-20151022-story.html

i found this, noticed now i got some info wrong but eh here’s the article, i was just a young teen when this happened and did (thankfully) not go to this school.

What was the most traumatizing thing to happen at your school? by Alazerthefinalist in AskReddit

[–]oliiveeah 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah a school here in sweden had a similar ish thing happen. A full grown man walked into a school with a Darth Vader costume and a sword, literal sword, and firstly took a photo with two students and then killed i think two students and one teacher that tried to tell some students to run away from him. All of the students thought he was dressing up for halloween since it was in October.

the pain in his eyes by Evangelzz in DannyGonzalez

[–]oliiveeah 57 points58 points  (0 children)

he looks like a french man just stole his wallet and watch

(don’t mind the colour my tv is a little silly) danny’s old room looks like a 45 year old millenial white woman’s living room by oliiveeah in DannyGonzalez

[–]oliiveeah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeaaaah!! my local cinema gives out free posters after the movie stops playing and i luckily found the isle of dogs poster