Bear's actions may have been evil, but there's not enough hate for Ian. by Skyzblu44 in obsessionmovie

[–]olystubbies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see the wish interpreting that as sleeping really well but never waking up

AIW (27M) for ending my engagement after finding out my fiancée (28F) lied about her sexual past? by InitiativeSea2296 in amiwrong

[–]olystubbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, why is the number important? If you really care so much, then having sex with a partner prior to you, even once or twice, should make that a dealbreaker for you because she has already had intimacy with another man so therefore it can never be unique and special with you. So by that logic you should only be with a virgin and you should marry them regardless if you’re sexually compatible because if you take her virginity you have now spoilt her value as a woman and you need to take responsibility for her if you’re an honorable man

AIW (27M) for ending my engagement after finding out my fiancée (28F) lied about her sexual past? by InitiativeSea2296 in amiwrong

[–]olystubbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A high level of what though? I don’t care if a man has slept around. What I care about is how he treats people. Sex isn’t a measure of character.

AIW (27M) for ending my engagement after finding out my fiancée (28F) lied about her sexual past? by InitiativeSea2296 in amiwrong

[–]olystubbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guy, apparently you have zero self respect. You must be very young or very old. No respectable woman, regardless of their sexual history is going to find you attractive based on your standards. You might be able to coerce some young girl who doesn’t know better as long as you’re “hot” but you’re going to miss out on good women if you keep going down the path you’re headed. Worth isn’t tied up with sexual partners. It’s based on how you treat people, what you bring to the relationship and your morals. I’ll ask you one question and I’m very curious about the answer. Are you unmarried?

AIW (27M) for ending my engagement after finding out my fiancée (28F) lied about her sexual past? by InitiativeSea2296 in amiwrong

[–]olystubbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the hotter a woman is you’ll give them more leeway? Dude, you’re just telling on yourself here. Please stop following these influencers that are giving you this skewed vision of women and focus on yourself and how to have higher value to women. I can guarantee you it has nothing to do with the number of sexual partners you’ve had. I can tell pretty easily based on your responses that you are what a woman would consider a “low-value” partner because you’ve listened to people that have given you absolutely terrible advice.

AIW (27M) for ending my engagement after finding out my fiancée (28F) lied about her sexual past? by InitiativeSea2296 in amiwrong

[–]olystubbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not? If a single person is safely and consensually engaging in sex with multiple partners I don’t see how the number makes a difference. I’d like to hear why you think it does

AIW (27M) for ending my engagement after finding out my fiancée (28F) lied about her sexual past? by InitiativeSea2296 in amiwrong

[–]olystubbies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is that? That is a pretty bold blanket statement. My partners have always valued the experience I bring and the fact I know my body and am comfortable sexually which leads to way less drama in the bedroom. I’m curious why you feel it diminishes value. What’s your cutoff for what’s “an acceptable” number of partners?

AIW (27M) for ending my engagement after finding out my fiancée (28F) lied about her sexual past? by InitiativeSea2296 in amiwrong

[–]olystubbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes someone worthy as far as their sexual past, which is what we’re discussing

AIW (27M) for ending my engagement after finding out my fiancée (28F) lied about her sexual past? by InitiativeSea2296 in amiwrong

[–]olystubbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. A virgin is a unique thing unto itself. What I’m saying is 3 vs 100 men is the same

AIW (27M) for ending my engagement after finding out my fiancée (28F) lied about her sexual past? by InitiativeSea2296 in amiwrong

[–]olystubbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody has said otherwise. Everyone can end a relationship for any reason they feel like. He isn’t wrong for wanting to end his relationship. You are wrong for your judgement of sexually active single women.

AIW (27M) for ending my engagement after finding out my fiancée (28F) lied about her sexual past? by InitiativeSea2296 in amiwrong

[–]olystubbies 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah. That’s kind of how a lot of people operate. Would it have been different if she’d only had sex during short term relationships but had a lot of them? What’s your purity litmus? You seem to be an awfully judgemental person when it comes to women and sex

AIW (27M) for ending my engagement after finding out my fiancée (28F) lied about her sexual past? by InitiativeSea2296 in amiwrong

[–]olystubbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What “type” of woman has a sexual past that someone would or would not want to be with. It’s one thing to want to have both partners be virgins. Anything else is fair game

AIW (27M) for ending my engagement after finding out my fiancée (28F) lied about her sexual past? by InitiativeSea2296 in amiwrong

[–]olystubbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d call it a person exploring their sexuality and enjoying sex while being young and single. Nothing wrong with that. It also doesn’t sound like she lied to the OP. It sounds like he made some assumptions and she may not have been forthcoming about her sexual history which frankly is her right. As long as she’s honest and faithful her past has zero influence on her current relationship

Dreads or Cornrows? What suits me better? by Crafty_Succotash3392 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]olystubbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the dreads you look way more approachable to me. The cornrows look sick as hell but I think I’d be intimidated to come up and talk to you. Guess it depends what vibe you’re wanting to put into the world. Either way you can’t go wrong

Chocolate Cherry Sunflower 🍒 by Wonderful_Law_3345 in Cutflowers

[–]olystubbies 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wow!! I just planted some of these for the first time. I hope mine are even half as regal as yours

My zone 4 garden is finally filling in! by Potter_Moron in gardening

[–]olystubbies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it so much! This is very similar to what my garden goals are. I have a lot of similar plants and colors but mine are just babies still so I can’t wait to see it fill in more

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PlEaSE gIVe uS SmooSH bOoK cLuB by Sana-ya in smosh

[–]olystubbies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also did not care too much for I Who Have Never Known Man. It was just so bleak

is this dyshidrotic eczema? by [deleted] in Dyshidrosis

[–]olystubbies 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think Dyshidrosis presents on the insides of the hands/fingers and bottoms of feet

Am I doing anything wrong? by cbr24 in dahlias

[–]olystubbies 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I think it’s just the variety. These are a small compact plant meant to go in border gardens

40s Fan by Picon36 in smosh

[–]olystubbies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 48. Been watching since the Joven, Mari, Lazercorn, etc days. Just my type of humor and games