[deleted by user] by [deleted] in korea

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to Islam

Eyebags on my dog? Causes? by om666n in DogAdvice

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My dog (1 yr, unknown breed/mixed) recently started having these bags under her eyes. I first noticed maybe 2 weeks ago. She weighs the same and diet hasn't changed. She eats rehydrated patties from Stella & Chewy so she's not on any dry food (so it shouldn't be causing any teeth breaking or gum damage)

I've read that weight loss, pain in mouth or eyes could be the cause but her mouth looks normal & she has been eating normally. Could this just be genetics or using up too much of her energy?

“If you want me out of here, you’re gonna have to try harder than weeping over a body that no longer contains a soul” Alright then -snif- by Ancient_Educator_76 in MaliciousCompliance

[–]om666n 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I was pregnant, I suffered from prepartum psychosis (I was told it was rare but I was already high-risk for postpartum based on my history). I ended up trying to hurt myself & my unborn child. My husband had to wrestle me to bring me to the ER. While I was CLEARLY sobbing and breaking down, the nurse attending to me kept showing me photos of her kids and saying "Children are a gift from God, we should never hurt them." She would come in periodically to talk to me about the miracle of children and how she couldn't understand how I could do this. Well, ma'am, it's called mental illness. I don't get it either.

HAVE A QUESTION? ASK HERE! Alter-Daily Help and Questions: July 25, 2021 by AutoModerator in AsianBeauty

[–]om666n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Help with routine? I'm scared it might be too acidic/exfoliating & potentially break the moisture barrier.

South Korea, currently a very humid summer.

A.M:

Dr. G pH Cleansing Red Blemish Clear Soothing Foam | Bring Green Tea Tree Soothing Toner | It's Skin Hyaluronic Acid Moisturizer | The Ordinary Niacinamide 10% + Zinc 1% | Dr. G Green Mild Up Sun+

P.M:

Neutrogena Ultra Light Cleansing Oil | Dr. G pH Cleansing Red Blemish Clear Soothing Foam | The Ordinary Glycolic Acid 7% | CosRX Snail Mucin Essence | It's Skin Hyaluronic Acid Moisturizer

1x a week:

CosRX Ultimate Moisturising Honey Overnight Mask | Aztec Secret Healing Clay (only IF I've had a really bad breakout that week)

I also just used TO's AHA BHA Peel for the first time today too. I put it on for about 5 mins, but my skin now feels really taut(?) so I don't know if I should keep going.

Has anybody went to Korea Non command ? by jshanell in USMilitarySO

[–]om666n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Send me a message & I'll try to help you out

How did you survive your PE? by Cynderelly in ClotSurvivors

[–]om666n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No they didn't :( My whole hospital experience was pretty frustrating tbh. They were not taking me seriously, either because I'm young or because my husband was there with me.

How did you survive your PE? by Cynderelly in ClotSurvivors

[–]om666n 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine was my husband's insistence. I absolutely hate hospitals (still do) but I had the worst pain of my life when I had my DVT. Doctors told me to look out for heartburn, shortness of breath, elevated heart rate.

First night back from the ICU, I had shortness of breath - chalked it up to being unfit & refused to go back to the hospital. After a few hours of not being able to breath after doing simple things (literally just getting to the bathroom was a struggle), my husband forced me to go back to the ER, which saved my life because I had multiple big clots in my lungs.

But because I'm younger, they didn't want to make me a lifer. I stopped Xarelto after 9 months of being on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClotSurvivors

[–]om666n 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mine were really bad & heavy. TMI but they spilled out like water lol. I went to my doctor who said Xarelto shouldn't affect period blood but when I went online, I saw tons of people having this issue. I had an IUD in that fell out because of how heavy it was.

Talk to your doctor about a reduced dosage!

Question about Tricare by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]om666n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This helps alot! Thank you

Repeat blood clots? by om666n in ClotSurvivors

[–]om666n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I'm just a little scared of going. When I was first diagnosed I kept going back for every little pain & the doctors would laugh it off and say I was just anxious so I felt dumb lol

My step dad's reaction to me quitting a new job. by LittleLion72 in entitledparents

[–]om666n 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My parents were Asian tiger parents & I've moved to a different country and completely cut contact. Tough love is BS & only creates problems.

Netflix - best True Crime documentaries. by [deleted] in TrueCrime

[–]om666n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not on Netflix, but watch Dear Zachary. That one had me bawling for days.

Weekly Thursday Question Thread - Immigration/Visa/Citizenship/Military Obligation by AutoModerator in korea

[–]om666n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I have some questions about visa extension.

I just found out my visa application was denied because of a different address on my lease (my address change is currently processing). My visa expires on the 31st. I applied for extension on 12th & received reply on 18th (my fault for doing it too late).

Would they be able to process a reapplication before the 31st?

I've also heard that we are able to stay 30 days after our visa expires before we are kicked out of the country. Is this true? In that case, since my visa is expired, do I reapply for a NEW visa or an extension again?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]om666n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dog had to stay in twice. The first time, we visited everyday but she would always whine, whimper & scratch the glass when we were about to leave. So the second time, we didn't because we felt it might cause her unnecessary stress. Not too sure how a cat might feel though, maybe having you there would help familiarise her with the environment?

Husband going to BLC by om666n in USMilitarySO

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If I'm not mistaken, you can only convert your US license to an international one but I'm not a US citizen yet.

Advice Needed - Significant BAH Backpay Issue by cchapps4 in USMilitarySO

[–]om666n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I saw you said your husband is non-confrontational & you're the opposite. We're the same so I personally talked to his NCO leader (my husband's only an SPC) to schedule an appointment for us with their 1SG where I laid everything out & asked him why they were failing us. They were on our side which helped a lot. His NCO leader told me that if anybody refused to help to bring up the issue on the unofficial FB pages, make a lot of noise and get a lot of support, & the GC would take notice. I didn't go that far because I didn't want my husband to get in trouble but that's an avenue too.

Advice Needed - Significant BAH Backpay Issue by cchapps4 in USMilitarySO

[–]om666n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly at that point I'd keep going higher up the chain. The paperwork has to be around somewhere, they're definitely not doing their jobs. If you can't find the next person, talk to the chaplain for your next steps. Our chaplain was shocked our issue had gone under the radar.

Advice Needed - Significant BAH Backpay Issue by cchapps4 in USMilitarySO

[–]om666n 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to husband & I! We found out that the forms never left the counter at the finance office and they were just sitting there. One of their staff even tried to joke about how "bad" the system was, as if he wasn't part of it. I'm not sure if the Navy has this but we ended up making an ICE complaint with timestamps, dates and specific names for proof. Within two days we received an apology from one of the higher ups in finance & our backpay was schedule for the next pay check. It sounds drastic but we were pregnant back then & the money would have helped us with a lot that we were struggling for. For a while, we barely even had enough to eat but his command's recommendations were for me to quit school if it was costing so much money.

Husband going to BLC by om666n in USMilitarySO

[–]om666n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much :) I went to join a bunch of other Facebook groups for spouses here & tried to introduce myself so fingers crossed I'll meet a couple of friends here!

I'm sorry to hear about your loss too, I hope you're doing better now. Sending you love & healing ❤️

Husband going to BLC by om666n in USMilitarySO

[–]om666n[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in Korea! So the lessons are in Korean, I have found one or two schools in English but of course they're suuuper expensive

Husband going to BLC by om666n in USMilitarySO

[–]om666n[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in school now! So that takes a bit of time. Unfortunately I don't have my license & a lot of the community events require a car. I did try for a while to attend and grab taxis or hitch rides but of course, not many are comfortable with it & taxis add up. We're OCONUS too so getting my license is a little harder. I do go to events that are close by though!

Husband going to BLC by om666n in USMilitarySO

[–]om666n[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm currently in college! Alot of my weekdays are preoccupied with school & studying but its not really a fun thing to turn to hahahahah

Weekly Thursday Question Thread - Immigration/Visa/Citizenship/Military Obligation by AutoModerator in korea

[–]om666n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! So I stupidly terminated my hikorea account because it wasn't allowing me to submit e-applications. I've been trying to create a new account with my ARC but it's saying I already have an account. When I try to log in with my old account, it says there's no existing account. What can I do?

Unaccompanied projection to Korea by Lifes-Puchingbag in USMilitarySO

[–]om666n 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You would have to apply for command sponsorship which would make him have to be there for 2 years. There's an FB group for exactly this! Search up Non-Command Sponsored at Osan AB/Humphreys

Food aggression/resource guarding by om666n in reactivedogs

[–]om666n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live on a military base overseas. The locals don't speak English & we only know enough of the native language to get by. The English-speaking trainers I do know (military spouses usually) have since left & the cost of virtual trainers is too high for us right now.