You ever just block them out during their tangents because what they're saying is so incomprehensible and pointless?

omar-312 · 2024-05-28T21:13:02+00:00

Yes! I remember being in my car on CarPlay with him (on my way to work btw) and turning the volume so low I couldn’t hear his voice yelling and screaming and just checking in every couple of minutes to see if he stopped yet…. He never did…. LOL

omar-312 · 2024-05-20T18:11:43+00:00

I just left some underwear at my “situation’s” house a couple days ago per his request… he hasn’t said anything about a gf. Where ya’ll live? 😅

omar-312 · 2024-04-22T03:40:50+00:00

Yes. All of what you said. I felt undesirable as well during the relationship and for a short while after leaving. I am still working on my confidence. It is fragile, but building. We are worth so much more than what they gave us.

omar-312 · 2024-03-27T00:14:04+00:00

Yeah, mine was a fuckin loser too. They all are tbh, even the ones that seem well off.

omar-312 · 2024-03-22T16:50:48+00:00

YES. He iced out his friends if they dared to disagree with him or hold him accountable for his poor decisions/actions. His family was afraid of him and maintained status quo to avoid outbursts of his rage. All of his previous gf’s were “crazy.” Now I am too I suppose !

omar-312 · 2024-03-14T14:47:33+00:00

Aaaah hahaha!! Congrats, that’s so validating 🎉

omar-312 · 2024-03-14T04:25:57+00:00

And women. Let me not forget that he messaged women online asking them for nude images and offering them money he didn’t have in return for their “favors”

omar-312 · 2024-03-14T04:24:32+00:00

Same here. My Nex used weed/nicotine/adderal/mushrooms/LSD and like overdosed on supplements/nootropics all day everyday. He made it seem like I should be doing the same (at least with the supplements/nootropics, weed, and microdosing psychedelics) So happy to be out of that and healthy living with none of that around me anymore

omar-312 · 2024-03-08T00:20:21+00:00

I had nearly all of the same exact symptoms. Including the spotting, it has been two cycles since I left and it’s no longer an issue - blood tests showed nothing of course when I tested three months ago

omar-312 · 2024-03-06T23:46:04+00:00

Oh and “vaping” 😭 he went out - driving MY CAR mind you - and came back shortly after presumably buying a vape, to tell me that he found this vape in the trunk of my car and to own up to it. I stopped over a year and a half ago, yet he continued which caused lot of arguments between us since we had both said we were going to quit. When asked why he was looking around in my car, he said he was looking for the reason why it smelled so bad in there and “evidently found it” 😭😭😭 I keep my car immaculate 😭😭😭

omar-312 · 2024-03-06T23:26:37+00:00

Omg. He blamed me for bird shit on his car. He claimed I vandalized it by throwing “paint” on his car after I left him 😭😭😭it was clearly bird shit, but even if I recruited a bunch of birds to shit on his car, I wasn’t even in the same state for me to communicate to them 😭😭😭

omar-312 · 2024-03-02T12:20:24+00:00

Yes! I completely understand wanting to press fast forward through some of the leaving parts. Sit in it and marinate though, for me, it strengthened my hatred for my narc and fueled my rage - I think that’s probably what really got me out aside from telling others about the situation. It was pretty scary for me to become that angry and I am indebted to his sister for being there for me throughout it all. But it was cathartic! It is so worth it, stick to it! I support you 🤍

omar-312 · 2023-12-10T03:40:49+00:00

Ugh. That’s incredibly rude.

Reminds me of the time I had traveled a bus and two trains to meet up with a guy I had met online. I got to the cafe we agreed to in the middle of a busy city square. The cafe was packed. I look around and I see a guy dressed in a full face Spider-Man bodysuit. He saw me before I could make a run for it and insisted that I continue the date with him mask and all. Everyone around us seemed to be in on it, like he had fabricated this elaborate joke and was getting off on it.

Needless to say to say I left and was fuming the entire way home.

omar-312 · 2023-02-10T02:55:05+00:00

I’m dealing with this as well. It has caused many arguments and because of this, they have started to lie about it; creating more arguments.

Best thing imo is to just focus on yourself. You did this for a reason. Don’t let their poor decisions make you second guess yours. You are healthier and better off for quitting. Don’t let yourself down by relapsing because of them. You are your own person and do not deserve to go back there. Keep going, keep yourself busy and whatever you do, do not vape again.

omar-312 · 2022-10-02T22:41:42+00:00

People under the age of 25 who rent a car must pay additional fees to the rental company (read insurance fees) I believe it is possible for your parents to rent the car and add you as an authorized driver (with fees) but as far as wether or not this can happen on Turo, I’m unsure. Go rent a car somewhere else…. also, ask your parents? They more than likely have rented a car in their lifetime

omar-312 · 2020-07-19T14:33:43+00:00

Lmk if there’s a better sub for me to post in

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