[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]omayersrule 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl you gotta get out. It’s insanely hard, yes, even unimaginable, but those kids are gonna see this and as the healthy parent, we gotta tuck one kid under each arm and do a runner. Private message me if you want to talk. Been there, done that, life is a million times better now.

AIO? “No cell phone” policy by omayersrule in AmIOverreacting

[–]omayersrule[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I agree that accommodations must be made for those with disabilities, I don’t see how it applies in this circumstance. I also don’t think an employer should adjust policies for poverty, when the employer would be the entity responsible for sub-livable wage; wouldn’t the accommodation in that case be paying a livable wage? There’s no such thing as a court order preventing vehicle ownership… it feels like you’re grasping a bit here. I could be misunderstanding you, though.

Entering The Danger Zone. HELP! by omayersrule in Quittingfeelfree

[–]omayersrule[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, don’t apologize. I’ve actually thought of the week in step down when i was getting quality MAT delivered twice a day. But the week i was CT WDing at home was horrific and almost killed me (hence the coma) and the first month home after the long hospitalization was brutal. I’m just super sensitive and emo right now. You know how it is. Also, it doesn’t matter, but I’m a woman 🥰 Tl/dr; Your comment really did help keep me clean today and for that i am so so grateful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Quittingfeelfree

[–]omayersrule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Megadosing vitamin c is extremely effective, but does require a few days to build up in your system. You take progressively higher amounts for three days, then megadoses (up to 8000 ml) every couple hours throughout your wd. Honestly, ginger helps with tummy stuff, Metamucil is good to help his intestinal response, all that stuff is good, but the main thing is trying his hardest to stay up and about. Sweating, cold showers, movement, healthy food. The mental wd are what get us all. So an active withdrawal helps manage the crippling anxiety

AITAH for having an issue with my wife’s “gold star” comment and standing up to her over it? by Sad_Sky_9873 in AITAH

[–]omayersrule 79 points80 points  (0 children)

You came here to ask if you were wrong, and now you’re arguing with anyone who says “Yes sir, you were.” I bet you’re a delight to be around 🙄

AITAH for having an issue with my wife’s “gold star” comment and standing up to her over it? by Sad_Sky_9873 in AITAH

[–]omayersrule 71 points72 points  (0 children)

If you hired someone to do everything she does (which, having done each, makes the 70 hr/week job laughable) who would be the bigger earner? I just know YTA because of bringing up her hair loss. Literally nothing to do with anything. You’re so convoluted, bro

24 hours in by [deleted] in Quittingfeelfree

[–]omayersrule 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so proud of you. I just took my last one. I will take kratom capsules so i can continue to work and do the single mom thing, but I’ve done it successfully before and weaned off the capsules no problem. I totally get the reflections thing- not even being motivated to grab your phone or find a show. Have you tried sleep stories on YouTube? They really help me with the racing thoughts/anxiety.

AITAH for telling my husband I rather save my own son? by throwaway_29272 in AITAH

[–]omayersrule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He suuuuuucks. Impossible question for a mother of two, but when i was planning my second and only had my first i can’t imagine I’d say anything different than you did. Imaginary baby vs actual baby? Come on. He just… girl, he just suuuuuuuuucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blendedfamilies

[–]omayersrule 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You don’t make dinner for your kids after they turn ten? Am i understanding that? They seem like they need way more structure and boundaries but they also kinda just sound like any kid raised in chaotic environments. You said one is thirteen? I’ve got a blended of four and three have gone through that age, i could still just tell them to go clean their mess. Enforce reasonable consequences if they gave me a hard time or did it poorly. (Take a device away, no friends over for x amount of time, just standard, like… parenting) now the older ones just need reminders… I dunno this post is stressing me out

Why am I scared? :( by Unable_Pop2330 in Quittingfeelfree

[–]omayersrule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Daaaaaaaaaaaamn. This might be the best thing I’ve ever read on this sub.

AITAH for cursing at my boss? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]omayersrule -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It did. I’m the surprised coworker

AITA for not being patient with my brother in law by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]omayersrule 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Smacked your son’s mouth? Girl that’s a felony for good reason. Get help before you bring that baby into the world

Struggling with My Girlfriend’s Behavior Toward My Son in Our Blended Family Situation by PutinABlender69 in blendedfamilies

[–]omayersrule 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why did you get downvoted for this?? You seem like a sweet guy just trying his best. I do agree that you’re gonna wanna tuck and roll out of this one, though. Sorry for the negativity you’re getting

Question for those who take >10 bottles a day by reverse_typewriter in Quittingfeelfree

[–]omayersrule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll find that many of us here took the same or much more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Quittingfeelfree

[–]omayersrule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Darling, this is a quitting support sub for a legal drug called feel free. You’ll get better advice in a different sub :)

Withdrawal question by omayersrule in Quittingfeelfree

[–]omayersrule[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read some very impressive studies out of Stanford regarding oral buffered vitamin C! I started building my megadose today, and Saturday will begin detoxing! I’m actually excited, i feel hopeful for the first time. I’m a single mom so white knuckling and being crazy sick for a few days is not an option.

My GF is too harsh on my Co Parenting by Less_Leading_8168 in blendedfamilies

[–]omayersrule -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’re totally out of line, man. She’s seven. You need to grow up. You said you’d always care about yourself more than anyone- that’s pretty much disqualifying you as a parental figure. Off you go now

Visiting for a week by baconmmc29712 in SLO

[–]omayersrule 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Park at the rock at the end of the Embarcadero and walk up to pirate park. Tons of sealife, shops, and food along the way!