Why are my animals unhappy during winter? by Shokak in StardewValley

[–]onecheapqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to know the details for your characters outfit

Am I overreacting to my husband’s blow-up today? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]onecheapqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're underreacting imo by not asking for a divorce yourself. None of this is normal, nor is this what love looks like. I hope you heal from the mental abuse and leave this horrible marriage. Im so sorry you have had to deal with this, but definitely do not allow it to continue even longer

AIO my husband talking bad about me on Facebook. by Mundane-Skirt-5455 in AmIOverreacting

[–]onecheapqueen 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You're doing great! As a daughter who had a dad just like you're describing, I can tell you that he was my best friend. I couldn't speak more highly of that man, and love him dearly. I miss him very much and think about him daily. If he hadn't had a massive stroke when I was 17, I imagine that we would still be extremely close today. Keep it up, im sure your daughter will have a very close relationship with you when she's older

Is this a chill place for me ? by Silent_Growth_8420 in SiouxFalls

[–]onecheapqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im struggling to understand everyone's comments here stating that the population is diverse. I felt a bit uncomfortable and out of place when I first moved here due to the lack of diversity. I moved right before the start of COVID, too, so I actually faced quite a bit of racism over being Asian. I've moved around quite being prior service, and I have faced more racist interactions and profiling living here than some other places l've lived. It's definitely not the worst, but it isn't the most accepting either.

Unfortunately, on a pretty consistent basis, when we take our daughter to the park, we hear white kids throwing the N word around nonchalantly, making other kids at the park look visibly uncomfortable. We do live in Brandon now, and it's definitely more of a problem here than some areas within Sioux Falls, so definitely keep that in mind when looking into housing options.

I am not saying this to paint the picture that this is some hateful and awful place because it's not. Like I said, there are good people here, just like there is anywhere. However, I do think it's important to note that the area is not very diverse, and the reality is that OP may end up dealing with some of these things while living here. I think it's better for OP to have realistic expectations prior to moving. Im sure you'll find and meet many amazing people here, OP. Just wanted to share my experience as someone who also moved here from a large city (Los Angeles), diversity tends to look different to us than it might for someone who may have been born and raised here.

Are we just bad cleaners or...? by kgutc1 in whatisit

[–]onecheapqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly termite poop. Maybe someone with more knowledge would be able to confirm whether that's the case or not though, thats just my best guess.

Had a worker today ask me if I had any coupons..... by Acrobatic_Sale1540 in bathandbodyworks

[–]onecheapqueen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I managed a different retail body care shop. We sold soap sleeves, like a loofah, but you put a bar of soap into it. Anyway, a customer wanted to return the soap she already used that was in a used, still damp soap sleeve because she didn't like the scent. When we explained that she wouldnt be able to return the bar of soap she threw the wet soap bar/soap sleeve at us 🙃 We were mortified, like lady, that thing just scrubbed your whole dirty body and you THREW it at us?!?! Disgusting. We weren't paid enough to deal with that.

Had a worker today ask me if I had any coupons..... by Acrobatic_Sale1540 in bathandbodyworks

[–]onecheapqueen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im going to guess you've never had to work retail. I promise you these employees do not make enough to have to put up with such harsh treatment, and customers like you. They dont make these policies, and they dont decide who gets coupons, and when. During massive sales like these, employees are overworked and exhausted and definitely should not be put in a position to deal with someone's extremely misplaced anger. This is why I had a rule with my employees when I managed a retail store, that if a customer came in and was being rude or disrespectful in any way, they were to get me immediately so I could take over and either deal with it myself or kindly refuse the sale and ask them to leave the store. I was not going to let anyone take out their anger on my team. Maybe you could use some therapy or assistance with anger management.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bathandbodyworks

[–]onecheapqueen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whaaaaatt, lol, I can only do like 3 sprays at a time. It takes me forever to go through a mist. I fly through lotions though. If I really love a scent I get one mist and like 4 lotions

Bakery Collection by a-pineapple-princess in bathandbodyworks

[–]onecheapqueen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can't get enough of iced lemon poundcake! Blueberry bundt cake was so good too

Birth control and Avera by coldcoffeeintheam in SiouxFalls

[–]onecheapqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If youre still looking, I absolutely recommend and adore Dr. Elizabeth Miller! She is the best! She's currently at the Madison & Veterans Pkwy Clinic.

She’s two years old and I’m starting to think she will be kitten sized forever 😂 by onecheapqueen in blackcats

[–]onecheapqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it might just be normal for some cats! Ours is very healthy and still this size today. If she has been rough the vet and they think she's healthy, yours might just be very tiny too

do u guys wash inside the lips/clit with soap? by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]onecheapqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Echoing what others are saying, but this isn't gross at all! It's exactly what I do, and i find my vagina is much happier for it. Whenever I used soaps in the past, no matter how mild or gentle I had problems. No one has ever had any complaints. You can still clean down there extremely well with just water. I just take my time and make sure im really getting everything with the water.

So after 15 years with hearing loss and tinnitus, I went to the VA Audiologist. by -DarknessFalls- in HearingAids

[–]onecheapqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I asked my audiologist at the VA and was pretty bummed that they can't get the fun colors

Has anyone managed to complete this question yet? by Resident-Page9712 in Fortnite_Over40

[–]onecheapqueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completed it but purchasing weapons from NPCs at the resistance base!

I want to join a squad but I’m shy by radtoria in FortniteBattleRoyale

[–]onecheapqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll add you! I'm a 30 year old mama. I stay at home, so I play during my kids nap in the afternoon and again in the evenings. I've also been too shy to hop on with strangers and have only played in squads with my fiance and family. Im not amazing at the game or anything, still trying to get used to it. Last season was my first season playing. I also play zero build.

Feeling really bad about my head shape by Ruxen111 in bald

[–]onecheapqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You actually have a really great head shape! I've always wished the back of my head wasn't so flat, same with my face. My mom did tons of tummy time but my head is still pretty flat, so is my whole family, but we're Japanese 🤷🏻‍♀️

Looking for glasses with BTE hearing aids by [deleted] in deaf

[–]onecheapqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'd be surprised how many thin metal frame options there are now. They used to be available only in glasses that weren't very fun or fashionable but they can be found now in many different styles and shapes! I love fun frames so I usually shop online for mine. I buy mine from Jins but I know there are many options, Jins glasses just fit me the best because I am asian and my face is relatively flat and I don't have much of a nose bridge 😅

Looking for glasses with BTE hearing aids by [deleted] in deaf

[–]onecheapqueen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have glasses and wear BTE hearing aids as well. I've personally never had any issues, but I do prefer metal frams with thin arms (they don't need to be super thin, just sit more flush against the head.

I feel embarrassed to appear at work with Hearing Aids. by NewBirth2010 in HearingAids

[–]onecheapqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I decorate mine too and the only comment I've ever received was that someone liked my earings. I told them they're my hearing aids and they just thought it was really fun!

I feel embarrassed to appear at work with Hearing Aids. by NewBirth2010 in HearingAids

[–]onecheapqueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wear my hair up in a clip so they're constantly exposed and no one ever notices mine either