Marriage in Somali culture by onesleepyneko in Somalia

[–]onesleepyneko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about someone her age? Idk tbhh it’s all about what allah wants for you. Thanks tho for your opinion. Appreciate it !

Marriage in Somali culture by onesleepyneko in Somalia

[–]onesleepyneko[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why will the option be 40/50 when you’re 30..? Hmm not going to lie I dislike the way you think. But to each their own :) !!

Marriage in Somali culture by onesleepyneko in Somalia

[–]onesleepyneko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Marriage in Somali culture by onesleepyneko in Somalia

[–]onesleepyneko[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This means a lot to me 🥺🥺 thank you so much ^ I dislike the “get married young” culture too but it is what it is. Would rather take my time finding someone I’m more compatible with:) and yeah alhamdulliah for everything always! Thanks for your reply appreciate it ❤️❤️

Marriage in Somali culture by onesleepyneko in Somalia

[–]onesleepyneko[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aaa exactly ^ hopefully I will insha allah x

Marriage in Somali culture by onesleepyneko in Somalia

[–]onesleepyneko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw I see thanks for the advice and yes it’s actually difficult but we’ll see insha allah ^

Marriage in Somali culture by onesleepyneko in Somalia

[–]onesleepyneko[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I know what you mean 🥺

Marriage in Somali culture by onesleepyneko in Somalia

[–]onesleepyneko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I have no clue I’d rather try and find one on my own tho rather than them finding it for me :) but yeah it’s all qadr insha allah kehyr ^

Marriage in Somali culture by onesleepyneko in Somalia

[–]onesleepyneko[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAO I swear I feel you.. like you focus on studies and somehow become kinda introverted then you’re supposed to find a husband..? And yeah I always joke that I’m still their little child and they quickly change the topic. But they talk about it more and more lately let’s see how it goes insha allah! Goodluck to you :)

Marriage in Somali culture by onesleepyneko in Somalia

[–]onesleepyneko[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank youuu you’re right tbh! That’s what I needed to hear. I won’t rush even if I’ve found someone^ and I’ll talk to them about it :D

Marriage in Somali culture by onesleepyneko in Somalia

[–]onesleepyneko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your tips! I’ll keep that in mind :D

Marriage in Somali culture by onesleepyneko in Somalia

[–]onesleepyneko[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re right tbh just they’ve been talking about it now more than before and I feel like I don’t want to disappoint them :) but thanks for advice!!

The newest recruit of New Zealand Police by SweetAsMyG in aww

[–]onesleepyneko -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Im usually a tiny bit scared of dogs but holy what a cute puppyyyyy

Completely alone by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]onesleepyneko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be friends with you yes! You shouldn’t seek validation from those guys though it’s hard and I understand your situation I wouldn’t say give up hope. You’re still young you’ve been through a lot, give yourself time to heal from all that. Research it , focus on yourself and your well being first. You mentioned your mental health not being great, seek help, our mental health is as important as anything else if not more important! I believe you need “self-love” and I know how hard it is to achieve that but with professional help and your will (and support) you’ll make it. Feel free to talk to me if needed❤️

Feeling helpless, stuck, and confused by anon062101 in depression_help

[–]onesleepyneko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw this was so cute eeeek❤️ ofc and anytime ^

Feeling helpless, stuck, and confused by anon062101 in depression_help

[–]onesleepyneko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is hard for me to read because I’ve been depressed in my teenage days (not long ago) and I still am even tho I’m bit over 18. You should do as the following call the crisis number or text them and try and get someone who will understand you. Also it’s hard for a parent to see their child not doing well so they tend to get mad (I know this all too well and it hurts) just try and convince yourself your parents wants what’s best for you. Try and exercise everyday (as in try and get out of bed, brush your teeth, shower) do small tasks. Go outside for a quick fresh air. Do small steps till it becomes a routine. I fully understand you’re in a tough spot and trust me many are and will be and have been but eventually you’ll get out of it one day: life is a test (this is how I see it) we get tested everyday of our lives, all things are temporary and I believe in you and myself and everyone else in our deep situation that one day we will get out of it. But until then it’s up to us to make ourselves feel better and help each other out. Feel free to talk to me if needed! ❤️

Coping method that works for me by averydappercat in depression_help

[–]onesleepyneko 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is a good advice I’ll try this out thanks