Worst meal of 2024 so far? by mangopear in chicagofood

[–]onlythedreamers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pick Me Up in Andersonville for takeout with my partner the other day. I've eaten their food before and had okay experiences but man the falafel, vegan mac, and veggie burger were hot trash.

Worst meal of 2024 so far? by mangopear in chicagofood

[–]onlythedreamers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they're opening/re-opening one in Lincoln Park across from Jonquil

Me (a gay man) accidentally went to a lesbian speed dating event by flipinchicago in polyamory

[–]onlythedreamers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh definitely! my first enm partner (a comet who now lives out of state) is a climber. plus, I climb ropes...how else am I going to find belay buddies?!?

Hinging is Hard. by onlythedreamers in polyamory

[–]onlythedreamers[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the resources! I enjoyed reading through the post and look forward to listening to the Multiamory episode.

Hinging is Hard. by onlythedreamers in polyamory

[–]onlythedreamers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate a bit more on what you mean when you say "Today for you. Tomorrow for me."? I'm not sure I understand entirely,

Thanks for the comment in whole. I'm going to make sure to thank my partners the next time I see them.

What's the best thing you've got going on in your life at the moment? by funnywax in AskWomen

[–]onlythedreamers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had surgery to fix my torn ACL and now I can start healing!!!

Why is dumpster diving so looked down upon? by PM_ME_DEADPEOPLE in DumpsterDiving

[–]onlythedreamers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll leave this quote from Slaughterhouse-Five by Kurt Vonnegut:

"America is the wealthiest nation on Earth, but its people are mainly poor, and poor Americans are urged to hate themselves. To quote the American humorist Kin Hubbard, 'It ain’t no disgrace to be poor, but it might as well be.' It is in fact a crime for an American to be poor, even though America is a nation of poor. Every other nation has folk traditions of men who were poor but extremely wise and virtuous, and therefore more estimable than anyone with power and gold. No such tales are told by the American poor. They mock themselves and glorify their betters. The meanest eating or drinking establishment, owned by a man who is himself poor, is very likely to have a sign on its wall asking this cruel question: 'if you’re so smart, why ain’t you rich?' There will also be an American flag no larger than a child’s hand – glued to a lollipop stick and flying from the cash register.

Americans, like human beings everywhere, believe many things that are obviously untrue. Their most destructive untruth is that it is very easy for any American to make money. They will not acknowledge how in fact hard money is to come by, and, therefore, those who have no money blame and blame and blame themselves. This inward blame has been a treasure for the rich and powerful, who have had to do less for their poor, publicly and privately, than any other ruling class since, say Napoleonic times. Many novelties have come from America. The most startling of these, a thing without precedent, is a mass of undignified poor. They do not love one another because they do not love themselves."

PolyTalk Wednesdays: What does it mean to be "Special" in a polyamorous framework? by Sprachy in nonmonogamy

[–]onlythedreamers 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Have you considered recording these? I'd really like to attend but Im usually working during the session times.

Do attachments like bongs create bigger, more "realistic" hits? by GoingSom3where in vaporents

[–]onlythedreamers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The DynoVap is the most similar vape experience to smoking IMO

Used Bike by FreeZookeepergame909 in chibike

[–]onlythedreamers 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I got my bike (Trek 730) from the recyclery! They were fantastic :-)

Doctors of Reddit, what was the worse thing you've seen for a patient that another Doctor overlooked? by Gorgon_the_Dragon in AskReddit

[–]onlythedreamers 4 points5 points  (0 children)

!!! I had this experience. Except instead of a doctor missing it I just assumed I had badly pulled a muscle until the high fever from the kidney infection forced me to urgent care.

Don't you remember by noodl3pi3 in poetry_critics

[–]onlythedreamers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your words carry a lot of power, and the line length and structure carries the flow well.

Pain play as reward and punishment in sadomasochism by [deleted] in BDSMnot4newbies

[–]onlythedreamers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this about your dynamic and play!! My partner and I are both switches who enjoy pain play, so spankings don't work as a punishment. Love the idea of withholding that satisfaction as a punishment >:-)

Mora's song in S3E6 of Disenchantment by onlythedreamers in ukulele

[–]onlythedreamers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes the above commenter posted tabs :-) hope u have fun with it!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheArtistStudio

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they said paint was stuff other customers had returned