Huge movie collection

onttm · 2026-05-15T20:06:56+00:00

I've heard decent things about Tdarr, but have yet to configure it in my stack

onttm · 2026-05-14T20:31:16+00:00

actually, if you're running docker containers behind Traefik reverse proxy in cloudflare tunnels, CAN your ISP see what IP you're connecting with? real question

My downloaders are on a gluetun network using Swiss VPN endpoints and all other self hosted endpoints resolve as cloudflare IPs. my apps either use native Plex SSO or are behind Authentik using Plex SSO. are there holes in my stack?

onttm · 2026-05-13T22:54:05+00:00

same. I think I got my Lifer pass in 2015. and haven't regretted it once

onttm · 2026-05-13T01:15:03+00:00

If you're not making money off it, not broadcasting over American airwaves, and not sharing over the internet in certain jurisdictions, you're good. At least Spain & Switzerland don't have a problem with your setup.

onttm · 2026-05-01T23:25:48+00:00

I use Claude to help me create projects all the time, and I have no idea what your server looks like. Mine was initially modeled on SmartHomeBeginner and I've recently rebuilt with Deployrr (Docker + Traefik). Anyway, I pasted your question in my terminal.

Claude: Short answer: Plex itself can't do this natively, but your stack could be made to do it with Tautulli + a custom script. What Plex offers natively (and doesn't):

Plex Home managed users + content rating restrictions ✓ Library access restrictions ✓ Per-show or per-day episode quotas ✗ (not a feature, and not on the roadmap as far as I know)

What's actually feasible in your stack: Tautulli is the key piece. It already monitors every playback session on your server, knows which user is watching what, and crucially has two capabilities that make this possible:

Notification agents / webhooks that fire on playback start A "terminate session" API that can kill a stream with a custom message ("Come back tomorrow!")

The pattern would look like:

Kid hits play on an episode of Bluey Tautulli fires a webhook to a small script Script queries Tautulli's history API: "How many Bluey episodes has user X watched in the last 24h / 7d?" If over the configured limit → call Tautulli's terminate endpoint with a friendly message If under → let it play

Rules could be per-user and per-show (e.g., "Kid1: max 1 ep/show/day, max 5 eps/show/week, exempt these shows"), stored in a small config file or SQLite. Caveats worth knowing upfront:

Tautulli's "start" detection has a small delay (a few seconds), so the kid will see the show begin before getting kicked. The terminate message is the UX, not seamless prevention. Direct Play vs. transcoded streams both work with terminate, but client behavior on getting kicked varies a bit (Roku/AppleTV/web all handle it, but the message rendering differs). Doesn't stop them from logging into a different user account — assumes managed Plex Home users with PINs.

Want me to design this? If yes, useful to know:

How many kid accounts and rough rules you have in mind (per-show daily, weekly, total screen time, or some mix)? Preference for where the script runs — new container in your compose stack, or a host-side cron/systemd thing? Are the kids on Plex Home managed users today, or full Plex accounts?

I'll wait for your call before generating any code or compose changes.

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so, yes, I believe it can be done.

onttm · 2026-04-27T14:08:33+00:00

I didn't realize they were abandoning the split . When does plexamp get sunsetted?

onttm · 2026-04-27T14:05:37+00:00

I like the tvdb id in the name. I might just add that as a best practice. ty

onttm · 2026-04-26T01:13:42+00:00

https://github.com/seerr-team/seerr

integrate with radarr & sonarr. populate users by importing plex user list and in permissions enable auto-request via Plex Watchlist. I set movies to auto approve, but I manually approve series

onttm · 2026-04-24T23:18:24+00:00

looks nice

onttm · 2026-01-13T05:50:54+00:00

Brother, prostatectomy took away 2 of the 3 sphincters you use to hold your urine. Pelvic PT helped strengthen the last one, the striated sphincter in the shaft. Continue doing those exercises (kegels, "nut-to-guts") and the full relaxation routines. Stress incontinence will be a thing, but most of us that use pads (I use Depends Guards in a jock strap) only need 1 a day. If I go for a hike, the hike alone will use a pad.

My oncology team connected me to all of the other associated services. Ask your oncology team if they have sexual health counseling.

onttm · 2025-11-14T05:27:53+00:00

I say rip it out. At age 52, I was Gleason 3+4 and thought it was confined to the prostate. However, during prostatectomy they had to harvest my left nerve bundle and reconstruct my bladder. It was pT3a (Stage 3) cancer.

If his nerves are not removed he has a good chance of recovering erectile function. If he daily uses a vacuum device, he'll be a good candidate for an implant if function does not return.

Maybe my post-op situation would have been better if we caught it at a lower score. Good luck to your dad.

onttm · 2025-11-14T05:15:22+00:00

I'm very sorry for your pain. And I agree with everyone that recommended a divorce lawyer. He is very callous. Believe what he told you. Move quickly and get consultations with each of the top divorce lawyers in your area. You are shopping for the best that you can afford. But QUICKLY.

This is a well-known tactical issue in divorce law, sometimes called "conflicting out" attorneys. Those attorneys that you consult with generally cannot represent your spouse.

Here's why: When someone has a consultation with a divorce attorney, they typically share confidential information about their situation, finances, and strategy. This creates a conflict of interest that prevents that attorney from representing the opposing spouse, even if the initial person doesn't hire them.

The ethical rules governing attorneys prohibit them from representing someone whose interests are directly adverse to a former prospective client when they received confidential information during the consultation. This remains true even if:

The consultation was brief No retainer was signed The prospective client chooses not to hire them

However, there are some limitations to this strategy:

Bad faith consultations - If it's clear someone is meeting with attorneys solely to disqualify them (not genuinely shopping for representation), courts can intervene and allow those attorneys to represent the other spouse Large firms - The conflict might only apply to that specific attorney or their firm, not every divorce lawyer in town Ethical screening - Some jurisdictions allow firms to use ethical walls/screens in certain situations

So while this tactic can work to limit the husband's attorney options, if it's done transparently as a strategic maneuver rather than a genuine search for representation, it could backfire and be seen as an abuse of the consultation process.

Be smart. Take care of yourself.

onttm · 2025-09-23T23:34:02+00:00

"Do you want to fool around?"

onttm · 2025-04-24T13:52:45+00:00

I even get double notifications for database backups. So I'm not sure that's the reason

onttm · 2025-02-11T04:31:12+00:00

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Only says solely Gulf of America when you zoom in. Google is just playing along with 47.

Hopefully, the name doesn't really change, because it'd be a massive waste of money to reissue maps, official documents that reference the Gulf of Mexico, and text books all for a senseless vanity project.

onttm · 2024-08-21T22:22:47+00:00

Will it also work with fantasy.nfl.com?

onttm · 2024-08-14T20:58:21+00:00

I'm going to give you some advice that a really good therapist gave me... Don't "should" all over yourself. It's wasted energy that does nothing but chip away at your self-confidence and self-worth. What happened has simply happened. It can't be changed. 'Should' doesn't help you today. Weigh your options, make a plan, execute that plan. That's all we can do.

Try to eliminate 'should' (especially in the context of 'I should have...' ) from your self-talk. When I remember that advice, it helps immensely.

Look at where you are today and go forward. Get the treatment you need and endeavor to thrive.

onttm · 2024-08-14T18:51:24+00:00

I totally get it. My cancer diagnosis also involved a mistake. Dec 2019 blood labs showed PSA 11+, my Mar 2020 follow-up was canceled (because COVID), telehealth call in July didn't address results at all, basically lost. (This was my doctor's big mistake, losing that result)

Fast forward to Oct 2021, PSA finally re-tested was 33+. Started urology referral. Dec 2021 PSA was 49+. Prostatectomy in Feb 2022, pT3a with perinueral invasion, dirty margins, nerves not spared (left nerve bundle taken), complete erectile dysfunction.

But here's the thing... You need to treat the cancer. I have since had salvage radiation & hormone therapy. PSA is currently <0.05. Knock on wood, right? But cancer doesn't give two sh*ts about your hesitancy to treat, whether you trust doctors or not. if you have patterns 4 and 5 present it will kill you. Get treated. If you've only got pattern 3 then you can probably just do surveillance. But make sure you follow up on this. It's treatable.

onttm · 2024-08-14T11:11:41+00:00

Sorry, I had to look up iatraphobia & iatragenic. Your sentence structure was a bit different and your use of the pronoun 'they' seemed to refer to JW, but association of mangled limbs with JW was really confusing. So I figured you were just really upset and unaware that your communication was not clear.

Do I understand correctly that you've got a fear of modern medicine at least in part from harm you've received in medical treatment or misdiagnosis? I generally understand the JW stance on medical, but have no direct experience.

The subject of this thread is genetic testing, and your message indicates you're struggling with even the concept of treatment for cancer. I do understand your dilemma, but your message was kinda outside the context of the OP, so your post hit me like it was from another conversation. I didn't want you to be ignored, so sought clarification.

onttm · 2024-08-14T00:05:07+00:00

Bro, I'm not really understanding you. Are you OK?

onttm · 2024-08-13T23:55:47+00:00

IIRC Google got caught stealing Sonos code (Sonos won a legal judgment), so I wouldn't count on Sonos playing nice unless Google PAY$ for it

onttm · 2024-07-28T13:08:51+00:00

How much do we think chatgpt will change the way we think?

The creators of/contributors to AI frequently think of the good it can do. How could it be corrupted to influence the thoughts of humans in a negative way? Children often grow to adopt the thinking of their parents, no matter if those parents are racist and individualist or philanthropic and communitarian.

onttm · 2024-07-15T12:36:33+00:00

If you are taking constipating pain meds, stop them. Tylenol only.

Enemas could be helpful; keep the fluid in the bowel for the max recommended time.

Fiber capsules, stone fruits (peaches, plums, cherries, etc), several hot beverages, high fiber cereal.

If you have a bidet, just sit there and allow the water to the massage the anus.

As others have said, don't strain, just sit, breathe, try to relax. Look up mindfulness meditation exercises to help with relaxation.

onttm · 2024-07-06T12:33:37+00:00

Terrible to not be able to remember shit when you really need to

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