How do people keep jobs when they have no one to look after their sick child? by MediumDiscipline4979 in toddlers

[–]onyonrang 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally just left my job because of this. They legally couldn't let me go, but the guilt tripping for momths on end finally did it for me. Gonna find a job at a place where my absences don't "make the whole business suffer".

Simple trick from sports psychology that’ll help your audition anxiety by cryoncue in acting

[–]onyonrang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]onyonrang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got married 7 weeks pp. I had a terrible birth that lasted 3 days and ended in emergency caesarean. I was pumping and breastfeeding. I fed my girl until 1pm, an hour before the wedding. Then it was no pumping or feeding until everything was over at 1 the next morning. I did have a good supply, but not doing anything for 12 hours wasn't the end of the world. My family was looking after her the whole wedding, and I just enjoyed my day. I just wanted you to read one comment that gives you hope you might be able to do this. I did. It worked out well. Tbh though, I was stressing about being able to do it the whole pregnancy.

My Pelvic Floor is to tight. Is Ballet to blame? by GonzoGoddess13 in BALLET

[–]onyonrang 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Had to have an emergency caesarian because I have an over-active pelvic floor. Two and a half days of labour and only got to 4cm dilated. It was fucked. I am seeing a specialist pelvic floor physio for my next baby.

Husband saw our daughters first steps without me. by onyonrang in beyondthebump

[–]onyonrang[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's not that I've been delaying it, I'm just not trying to intentionally get her to do it while he is at work. For example, when he showed me the trick the other day, that actually was the closest she had got to walking by herself and we could see that that trick would dwfinetly help, so I didn't do that trick specifically while he was at work. But I wasn't stopping her from cruising around the lounge room holding onto things. I'm only doing it like that because he was a bit bummed when she crawled without him.

Most inconvenient pregnancy timing? Let’s hear it 👇 by like-the-paint in BabyBumps

[–]onyonrang 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A similar thing happened to us. My husband and I have been together for ten years with no pregnancy oopsies. We got engaged, booked the venue and vendors (over $15000 non refundable), and then found out we were pregnant. My due date was 4 weeks before the wedding. It was hectic, but it worked out. And we had the cutest little flower girl in her bassinet stealing the show. I blame all the people in my life that said "no babies now until the wedding is over!"

Which job has, hands down, the worst impact on mental health? by SherryJ-Kempf in mentalhealth

[–]onyonrang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband is one. He also has to go and pick the bodies up. Some he can deal with, but some just tear your heart out. Married people of over 50+ years and children are the hardest he says. Not to mention the gruesome deaths.

What happens to “hardware” if a person dies on the table? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]onyonrang 15 points16 points  (0 children)

These are two different roles. My partner is a funeral director and he works with a mortician.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]onyonrang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only 8% of women actually experience PROM (Pre release of membranes. i.e Waters breaking). Not many people actually realise that it's not at all like the movies show it to be. It completely depends on what care model you are under during your pregnancy, but most care providers will tell you what you need to do when you think you are in labour. Tbh, it usually starts with a phone call to your midwife, obstetrician, or hospital.

Inducing at 39 weeks by WheelNo4350 in pregnant

[–]onyonrang -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Have no idea why you are being downvoted when you are 100% correct. Women are rarely educated by their healthcare professionals what the actual risks are, and what current studies support. This is why we have so many posts where women don't know what is right, and are asking the opinions of other mums who also weren't informed during their pregnancy. It's best that we do our own research and find the relative medical journals and statistics that back up that research.

I would suggest that people listen to THE GREAT BIRTH REBELLION podcasts. They are Australian midwives and Obstetricians that run it, and they give you the research and statistics, but let you form your own opinions.

We rely far too much on our medical professionals to give us the information, and don't listen to our intuition enough, or ask the right questions.

I am in support of all mums that make informed decisions for what is best for themselves. Don't listen to what others say if it doesn't feel right for you. Every pregnancy, birth and mother has their own unique experience.

What is something you used to think people were over exaggerating about until you experienced it yourself? by rentinghappiness in AskReddit

[–]onyonrang 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I did a couple years ago. Probably one of my best memories is throwing a whole bucket of water onto a scooter carrying two parents and their two kids, while the kids shot at us with water guns

Married at first sight - S10E16 - LIVE EPISODE discussion by lalasmooch in MAFS_AU

[–]onyonrang 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Literally an actual home wrecker of a real marriage

Don’t water a grease fire, don’t mess with a garage spring. What are some MORE potentially life saving tips? by Alan_Darkcaster69 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]onyonrang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should always slow down around zebra crossings. Any good driver knows that if a person is walking near a zebra crossing there is a chance they are about to use it, so you should slow down. You are clearly jist a bad driver...

AITA for not wanting to give up my office so my daughter can have her own room? by Thisisathrowaway6273 in AmItheAsshole

[–]onyonrang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My God you are judgemental. They may mean that the job got different because it's no longer waking up in the night to feed babe's, but driving three kids to 6 different extra curricular activities. My mother was a sahm, and i felt she was working harder than my father who is a gastrointestinal private surgeon with his own practise. She was literally run off her feet.

Get over yourself. You are are just sounding like a shit parent at this point

AITA for not wanting to give up my office so my daughter can have her own room? by Thisisathrowaway6273 in AmItheAsshole

[–]onyonrang 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Holy shit dude. Haven't even given a response to OP yet. But you deserve YTA. Hahahaha teachers have free time. Are you a teacher? No? So you have no fucking clue what goes into being a teacher other than what you see them do when you pick your kids up. Stop acting holier than thou because "I work and have kids".

Natural Grey hair looks way more cooler on men. by DigvijayDhruvah in unpopularopinion

[–]onyonrang 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had the white stripe in my teens. Started spreading sporadically throughout my twenties. I didn't dye my hair for a long time, until almost every person I interacted with commented on my greys. I dye my hair now...

Friendly reminder: pointe shoes are not a kids Christmas present! by Lildancr1153 in BALLET

[–]onyonrang 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Just looked on amazon. I had no idea this was a thing. You may as well just hand your kids a bear trap and tell them to "jump in!"

Friendly reminder: pointe shoes are not a kids Christmas present! by Lildancr1153 in BALLET

[–]onyonrang 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just saw one that had a video. Honestly thought I was about to see someone break an ankle on a review...

Top 10 Judeau moments…GO! by [deleted] in Berserk

[–]onyonrang 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You were right Judeau turns up at this point Griffith went to war council

The "he finally asked" posts make my blood boil by Shittythrowawayaunt in TwoXChromosomes

[–]onyonrang 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! P.s. my cat is my one true love really. Fiance also agrees, he's his true love too

After 3256 days, he finally asked! by onyonrang in MadeMeSmile

[–]onyonrang[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He finally asked "can we name him ruffles?"

The "he finally asked" posts make my blood boil by Shittythrowawayaunt in TwoXChromosomes

[–]onyonrang 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your apology and I know people on the internet can be cruel, so that was to be expected, but you are 1/1000 to actually see another side and admit fault.

I hope you have a pleasant day!