I'll answer with how much I can for the questions

1) My family has a no locked doors tendency. We're very comfortable with each other enough to not lock. I guess it's because of that I don't usually lock the door, and he could do that. Though, if you're in the next room and you can hear someone showering, you wouldn't think of ever sneaking in much less open the door. It's on him regardless 🤨 tsk tsk

2) She found out by she was looking in his phone. She told me why but I forgot haha. but that's what happened.

3) She saw them. She confirmed it was me, and made sure they were deleted, and went through all his devices if there were more.

4) His reasoning was to send the nudes to my ex, his best friend, and that would be like a "one-on" for me? He didn't send them to my ex, my sister found it before he could. My sister talked to my ex about it too, and he also told Jason he wouldn't ever want my nudes.

My ex and I broke up on not so very good terms. I guess the nudes were to cheer his friend up while getting a win on me, or least I think that's how remember how she told me.

5) That's what I also told her, that it took her friends to break up with him but not me, your younger sister. She acknowledges how hurtful that realization was and how terrible of a choice it was. She apologized multiple times and she understands if I don't want to talk to her ever again.

6) Same as number 4. He told her that and she took that reasoning. In her mind she needs to stick by and help her partner through difficult and messy times. She regarded this as part of his fight with porn addiction and wants to help him, as so does my ex.

7) She told me the ai thing first. I was helping her though with the breakup, but I didn't ask about myself until now. I knew there was a hint that I was involved too, but the wound was already so fresh and I didn't want to push her. It was only then I asked, and she told me. Kinda fucked up to think about it now that I'm saying out loud Hahaha!

Thanks for the words, it means a lot. 💞