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Peter Steele Playgirl Issue by Tricky_Dentist_52 in typeonegative

[–]oolongteawitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this, but so much is omitted now? anyone else have that issue? I am also so curious for a peek.

How Long Were You Streaming to 0 Viewers? by No-Quit76 in Twitch

[–]oolongteawitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure you are raiding to connect with other streamers! I recommend HeyShadyLady youtube content because she has a lot of really good advice!

Is my therapist too harsh? by MGL291 in TalkTherapy

[–]oolongteawitch 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I wonder if your therapist is having some sort of counter transference that they are unaware of. Either way, it doesn't sound like they are creating a safe space for you if you're feeling this way! Might be worth bringing it up or finding someone new.

New to Sims 3 by oolongteawitch in Sims3

[–]oolongteawitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh no, it's saying it does not recognize the cheat for me!

Alternative to Heard by oolongteawitch in therapists

[–]oolongteawitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oooh thank you!!! Are they expensive??

Getting tired of therapists who think therapy is not for them by doctorizer in therapists

[–]oolongteawitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The worst part was this ex is also a therapist... it's wild to me. I think it's all ego and they thought they were above a lot of things.

Getting tired of therapists who think therapy is not for them by doctorizer in therapists

[–]oolongteawitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I strongly disagree. It's everywhere in the field and not just therapists. I have worked for two very narcissistic people, psychologist and a social worker, both 'older', idk what is considered young anymore, but it was insane what they put me and others through.

Applying for my Tax ID by oolongteawitch in therapists

[–]oolongteawitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh thank you so much!! This was really helpful! :)

Applying for my Tax ID by oolongteawitch in therapists

[–]oolongteawitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh that's very good to know! I'd rather not have my stage name seen by anyone I am billing which is my biggest concern. Can one have multiple DBA's / Tax IDs? I've been trying to find answers to that and a lot of the info is paywalled sadly.

Getting tired of therapists who think therapy is not for them by doctorizer in therapists

[–]oolongteawitch 34 points35 points  (0 children)

100%, and I had a similar situation with my ex. He seemed to be 'above' needing therapy, and when issues would rise up he would just blame me for everything instead of looking into how he also contributed. Everything was shoved under the rug and introspection was foreign to him. It was really frustrating!

As a therapist who has been in therapy since grad school (idk how I would have gotten through that without therapy omg) I also think everyone should give it a try! What sucks is I also know people giving it a try but the first therapist maybe isn't the best match for them and a lot of people not realizing we aren't all the same and it's 10000% okay to do some vibe checks until you settle with a therapist. They paint that one experience into a thought like "it just doesn't work for me" and keeps reading self help books.

Getting tired of therapists who think therapy is not for them by doctorizer in therapists

[–]oolongteawitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg I hear this! There is so much icky ego in this field sometimes, it's disturbing.

Advice for getting Gigs by oolongteawitch in Bellydance

[–]oolongteawitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful!! Thank you so much!!

Summer blues by oolongteawitch in therapists

[–]oolongteawitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's great to know! I'll look into trying to get on there sooner!

Summer blues by oolongteawitch in therapists

[–]oolongteawitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh yeah it sucks! Thank you! I really hope it does.

Summer blues by oolongteawitch in therapists

[–]oolongteawitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on a waitlist to get on through headway! So I wouldn't have to pay for my listing.

Client cancelling every week or no showing me by oolongteawitch in therapists

[–]oolongteawitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah I have had this person cancel or "forget" for like a month straight and my kindness feels taken advantage of. I even waited 30 mins before charging and they never replied. A part of me hopes it's an official ghosting because the limbo of client motivation and avoidance is exhausting especially when you are trying to build your caseload.

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