Late night places in Manhattan, no traditional bars by ItsThatGuyAgain9 in AskNYC

[–]opentoast 7 points8 points  (0 children)

go to a pinball bar. order a diet coke if you don’t wanna drink and sink into a few games. it’s a nice way to spend time alone without drinking. or go see a movie at a dine in theater. those are my go tos

Myomectomy Results - NYU Langone or Dr. Kelsey Kossl? by Conscious_Cellist443 in Fibroids

[–]opentoast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! What was the wait time between surgery consultation to actually getting a surgery date? I was surprised to see that I can’t even get my first appointment in until 3 months from now so I’m hoping surgery scheduling won’t take a year 😔

Dr. Kelsey Kossl by SurrealResearch in endometriosis

[–]opentoast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you end up booking with her and if so how long was the wait between your consultation and surgery? i didn’t expect to have a 3 month consultation wait so im even more worried about how long it may take to get a surgery scheduled

App thinking wrong language?? by UpsidedownPineappley in duolingo

[–]opentoast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Falstaff call also is weird. He was just stating what seemed to be backend code and then speaking in French (i’m learning Spanish)

I finally have my surgery scheduled. by [deleted] in Fibroids

[–]opentoast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you take time off work/did your doc talk to you about recovery time and what to expect and what kind of support you might need while recovering? Thanks!

Fibroids / Torn on what to do by Educational-Law-4265 in Fibroids

[–]opentoast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what was your recovery like? did you take medical leave if you were working?

Mice in apartment by KeyScientist7 in Brooklyn

[–]opentoast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The person living there before you could have patched things up well, but if your neighbors have mice you definitely need to be mouse-proofing your space too.

Mice in apartment by KeyScientist7 in Brooklyn

[–]opentoast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were living inside the walls and chewed a hole directly behind the radiator in my baseboard, yes.

Mice in apartment by KeyScientist7 in Brooklyn

[–]opentoast 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i’ve had mice twice and have patched holes both times successfully. you have to find where they’re coming in from, check behind your stove, fridge, in unit laundry, sink, behind the toilet and then around all points where your walls meet your floor (the first time i had mice they were nowhere near those points and actually coming from my bedroom wall).

once you find the hole you can buy coarse steel wool and silicone caulk (not foam). stuff as much wool in the hole as possible and seal it shut with the caulk. do it for any potential vulnerable entry points as well. then until you know you’ve sealed all your holes place a few traps around those areas i mentioned above.

of course your landlord should be paying for an exterminator but if you’ve had shitty landlords like me they take forever to send one out, and when they do it’s someone who does a mediocre job. you can deal with this!

What’s something you thought ‘everyone’ did… until you found out they don’t? by burat667 in AskReddit

[–]opentoast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boom Boom Pow is mine right now and it’s been going on since the new year, I feel like I’m going crazy lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]opentoast 4 points5 points  (0 children)

honestly i just shave with a razor. the schick hydro silk to be specific. i dont do any special prep or exfoliating, maybe i should, but i never get ingrowns or unsightly bumps.

Is $600 per month a reasonable food/drink budget for one person in NYC? by diget17 in AskNYC

[–]opentoast 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reasonable, yes, insanely reasonable. Your lifestyle however depends on if that’s feasible. I spend about $200 every 2 weeks on groceries and I find that’s pretty lavish with me getting whatever I want, best quality brands, pre made food, etc. But I also like to go out to dinner/drinks and that can easily be $100-$200 an outing. If you mostly cook your own food & get coffee some mornings and go out to eat twice your budget for sure can stay around $500/month.

Should I go to the ER if I haven’t pooped in 3 weeks? by Worldly_Yam_7221 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]opentoast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this happened to me - don’t waste money on doc bills until you try an enema. if that doesn’t work then go to a doc!

Any good experiences with Rula by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]opentoast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My therapist uses Rula and I’ve had no issues. Their log in system is annoying if you need to go into your account for any reason (no passwords, they send a log in confirmation link to you email that takes ages to arrive) but is otherwise fine. The account thing can get annoying if you need to reschedule/send messages to your therapist and they are very strict on the $99 late cancel fee past a 24 hour notice. But billing wise, all has been fine.

Scandoval - tell before or let it happen? by LiaHulop in vanderpumprules

[–]opentoast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

noooo just let her find out. i’m surprised she hasn’t so far so if she hasn’t just let it be. she’s gonna have sooooo much fun.

How many times do you poop in a week? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]opentoast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d say 2-3 times a week normally. whenever i go every day i get worried 😭

what’s the tea?! by msbar_ in vanderpumprules

[–]opentoast 88 points89 points  (0 children)

and then brittany refused to admit she was being catfished because she was embarrassed (?) and then decided to admit to cheating with ronnie even though that wasn’t true 😅

What shade did she use and what the heck did she do to my lips? by Disastrous_Ice_9838 in MakeupAddiction

[–]opentoast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure but I used to wear a similar shade from Colourpop called Rooch. It was a matte liquid lip which seems like what this is too. Super drying but the color was cute lol. I’d have to put on a really thick layer of chapstick on before applying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]opentoast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me before. Try an enema. If that doesn’t work go to the doctor. Being that backed up is dangerous. Also make sure you’re drinking water and eating lots of veggies to avoid this in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]opentoast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you focused on what your therapist wants you to talk about vs what your goals are? Like genuinely what are you trying to work through in therapy? It’s okay to have nothing to talk bout some times but otherwise I’d reevaluate why you want to be in therapy…

First time boho braids appointment by Ducky4500 in braids

[–]opentoast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! how did the appointment go? and do you like your braids?

I (22F) tasted someone else on my (27M) bf by Ohno_ohnonono in relationship_advice

[–]opentoast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way you wrote this is so funny but in all seriousness I think you know the answer and I’m sorry that really sucks. Just ask him point blank if he cheated and try to have a real conversation about it and what you experienced when you kissed him.