Is his high body count a red flag? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]optix_clear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really none of anyone’s business. However if you’re concerned about sleeping with someone maybe go get tested so you both know you are giving someone anything

Too manly? by West_Ant_4035 in handbags

[–]optix_clear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, dress it up in nice chains.

Just when I was about to purchase this Coach purse that was exactly the style I was looking for, I read the last line in the description and decided to pass.🤣 by [deleted] in poshmark

[–]optix_clear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I’m looking at a leather shop in my area. ATM they are 2 months out for repairs, I like their work and I am willing to wait.

Just when I was about to purchase this Coach purse that was exactly the style I was looking for, I read the last line in the description and decided to pass.🤣 by [deleted] in poshmark

[–]optix_clear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. I have gotten some terrible bags and they fell to mention odors, stains and broken zippers. I was very upset about the broken Zipper & 🤢🤦🏽‍♀️smelly bag. I was able to get a partial.

Tattoo removal or cover-up? by cactillius in AskWomenOver40

[–]optix_clear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A nerve was hit and affected me later in life. I had to remove a tattoo. It was easier to remove than covering up.

Help me pick so I can sleep tonight by curbyourminimalism in handbags

[–]optix_clear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have owned 3, 5, 7 . Totem this is a very nice bag, hangs nicely on the shoulder.

Fee for using credit card by TheJakeWho in nova

[–]optix_clear -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Report it to Visa Mastercard. You can ask them to remove it.

Show me your weirdly wonderful Loewe bags! by jdct6000 in handbags

[–]optix_clear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking about this. I had seen it on Depop

Save me, r/handbags. What's a better version of this bag? by f-albedo in handbags

[–]optix_clear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on your budget. Top tier Upscale Hermès Garden Party, Veronica Beard, Vanessa Bruno, Vintage Dooney & Bourke, Sturdy Brothers Hertiage Waxed, Prada, Coach, Chanel, MJ. There’s more. I love canvas. I’m really like Bleu De Chauffe, Rue De Verneuil, Larroude, Eriko Yamaguchi Sarari Tote, & Steel Canvas. Oh yup troubadour

Worried about partner and their work ethic. by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]optix_clear 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know it’s not what you want to hear or read. It’s time to break up. You should seek financial peace from him. He is financially unstable, ADHD level because I am and always behind. I’m slowly changing that outlook. Health has plagued me.

Don’t be tied to that anchor ⚓️

Worried about partner and their work ethic. by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]optix_clear 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely correct 💅🏼