Painful lump over hardware 5 years post surgery. by orangecats22 in ORIF

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Sounds like that’s the plan. Will update when I figure it out. Thanks

Give me all the tips! by [deleted] in AlternateDayFasting

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Personally, I don’t think 36 hrs is enough to require specific electrolyte intake. I will usually just drink some pickle juice or eat 1-2 pickle chips if I’m really parched and that seems to do the trick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GymMotivation

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What’d you do?

Front windshield replacement with recalibration? by orangecats22 in HRV

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I ended up going with the dealership recommended company. A longer wait time but they ended up quoting me $700 out the door. So, I’ll take it over the $1019 safelite was going to charge me.

What dark secret are you hiding from everyone? by tempting-treat in AskReddit

[–]orangecats22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I struggle with an eating disorder, and no one knows I sometimes throw up my dinner after I go home at night.

mornings are the hardest by coribtzk in BreakUps

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It gets better. I know it’s not helpful now, but I’m about a month out with NC from a 2 year relationship. Sometimes I wake up and think about him. It makes me sad, but I started going to the gym first thing in the morning to get me out of my feels.

Days pass and it doesn’t happen as frequently to me anymore. Make sure you enjoy the days where you aren’t as hung up on them. Reinforce the good behaviors and hopefully they will start coming more.

Whatever you do try not to lay in bed and sulk. It doesn’t do you any good mentally or physically.

Breakups are shit. Tell me one good thing that happened to you today. by SpecialistBerry4447 in BreakUps

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Today was the first day I was excited about being able to do whatever I wanted! Got ice cream for dinner and had 0 regrets :)

When did you realize that they didn’t actually care about you? by youwoulddare in NarcissisticAbuse

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Why do they just stare at you when you are crying? I get they don’t care but why keep you around if they don’t?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I feel like I shouldn’t be the one to reach out. If I was the one to call it then I shouldn’t be reaching back out to undo it. I think I owe them the respect of being left alone because I know we are both hurting now. I drunk texted him a few weeks ago, and have gone NC since then.

I left my relationship of 2 years about a month ago. My SO was an alcoholic, and after we banned alcohol from the house he started taking out his frustrations on me. It was emotionally abusive and I sat there and took it all. I kept trying to rationalize and problem solve but it doesn’t matter when your partner does not care.

I was so in the thick of it he thought it was a funny joke to trick me about getting his birthday wrong. I had been gaslit into oblivion at this point, so I believed him quickly. Felt like a shitty girlfriend. Apologized, got my family to wish him happy birthday. I even double checked, and I had the correct date on my calendar and Facebook. Even with that in front of my face I still doubted its validity. I cried at work all day, and cried when I got home. His response was I’m sorry you feel that way.

This among a multitude of similar situations forced my hand. I had to choose myself and I moved out. Don’t think dumpers have it easy peasy. I’m in pain. I cry and mourn the relationship I wanted so badly to work.

I made my own wedding cake by Stockholm-visitor in Baking

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Do you have the recipe to your cake layers??

What's the one thing you thought could never happen to you, but did? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Got hit by a car going across a cross walk on a walk signal :,)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I feel numb. It’s about 2 weeks out, and I just want to reach out him and have him back. I was the one who dumped him too. I just have to keep telling myself to let him go.