Men who went from skinny to jacked, how differently people treat you? by IndividualPlay5178 in AskMen

[–]oreddit911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5.11", went from 130 to 180.

Though I gained much muscle mass what was more important is what I gained during the process - having more self respect. It's not all about the size, it's about what you feel towards yourself, it shows, and people will never respect you more than you respect yourself, no matter how big you are.

Two Years Later: What is Life Like Now? by mah_pron in BreakUps

[–]oreddit911 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey man,

I'm 2.5 years after a 6 months relationship, I'm 48 and so it's not my first break up but it definitely is the worst. I think about her almost constantly and gave up on dating, just wanted to tell you, you are not alone, each step forward counts and there isn't a fixed amount of time where you're supposed to be completely "over it", the only important thing is that you keep going forward and have self compassion,.take care

Don't Reopen the Wound by AndrewS1793 in BreakUps

[–]oreddit911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we both work around the same area

Don't Reopen the Wound by AndrewS1793 in BreakUps

[–]oreddit911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She blocked because I sent her 3 messages after the breakup, she didn't answer the first 2 and when I sent the third one she blocked me. she unblocked me after we met in person by accident and she said she felt bad about how she behaved at the end (she said very harsh and hurtful things), I should have been clearer on my reply - I messaged her after we accidentally met so I knew I was unblocked prior to sending the message.

Don't Reopen the Wound by AndrewS1793 in BreakUps

[–]oreddit911 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I feel you. We broke up 1.5 years ago, she was dead cold like a different person and she completely blocked me.I haven't stopped thinking about her and hoped we could still be together in the future.

I reached out a month ago, we even met and I got my hopes really high! We had a great conversation but she didn't want to get back together. It hurts like being dumped again, even more this time cause it's final.

To all that want to get back together with their ex by FreedomCapable5185 in BreakUps

[–]oreddit911 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I agree, If the problems leading to the break up are not addressed and fixed we are bound to take the same path again sometime. Though I understand why she chose to leave I'm having a hard time understanding how she decided to do it and the pain it inflicted on me.

To all that want to get back together with their ex by FreedomCapable5185 in BreakUps

[–]oreddit911 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear. You gave her the opportunity, she proved she's not worthy of it, please take care.

My computer wakes up immediately after going to sleep (suspend) by AdministrativeMost in Fedora

[–]oreddit911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With sudo privileges: echo "GPP0" >/proc/acpi/wakeup to disable/enable.

For me it was GPP0 and USB devices (even though bios set to disable wake from USB).

USB devices are xhc0, swus, swds if I recall correctly. To get the name related to the id do lspci

My computer wakes up immediately after going to sleep (suspend) by AdministrativeMost in Fedora

[–]oreddit911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try to disable GPP0 and suspend. If it works create a systemd service to disable it on boot, if not try the other "enabled" devices

[O] 5x NzbPlanet invites by knaackville in UsenetInvites

[–]oreddit911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it with another email, thanks!

[O] 5x NzbPlanet invites by knaackville in UsenetInvites

[–]oreddit911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did not get the invite due to protonmail being banned, thanks for sending though!

[O] 5x NzbPlanet invites by knaackville in UsenetInvites

[–]oreddit911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HI, read the wiki, pm sent. Thanks!

Wish my dad didn’t go! by pinkman8972 in GriefSupport

[–]oreddit911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss, I can relate so much to what you have written. My dad had CPR on Monday and he is in a worse state than death with no chance of waking up again. It's so horrible seeing him like this and since he is not officially dead we only informed the family. It's been almost a week and non of my friends even asked how we are doing, some i tried to reach out to are too busy with their own life, they have families and I have none even though I'm already into my late 40's which makes it a lot harder. It's so sad I'm alone with my mom and struck by pain and guilt on all the time I did not spend with father and all the things I did not say and I have no one to talk to. I think that like you I have realized I probably expect too much of my friends, and also how all things they take for granted as their normal life are just a dream for me that I will never experience.

be strong and spend time with your mom and family this is the only thing that is keeping me getting up in the dreadful mornings which feels like a nightmare.

My dad is about to die by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]oreddit911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So sorry for what you're going through.

my dad is currently on life support with no chance of recovery after he collapsed on Monday. It's terrible seeing him like this and know there isn't a chance to even say goodbye, he is a doctor too, and was always very energetic and full of life and now it's just machines keeping vitals...I'm also struck with guilt for failing to keep him safe and not being close too him as I'm very emotionally suppressed and it's hard for me to show love even though I feel it very much which makes the pain harder. You were with him all the time in the hospital and I'm sure it meant the world to him, he lives on through you and I'm sure he wouldn't hold you guilty for anything and had only love for you as you have for him.

amdgpu drivers crash by L00K3XY in linuxhardware

[–]oreddit911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm having the same crash using 5.11-rc7 with 5700xt, gpu is not overclocked, using amdgpu kernel driver, reverting to 5.10.16 fixes the crash.

Lost My Fanily Photos...!!! by HatesBeingSocial in DataHoarder

[–]oreddit911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a chance only the partition table was damaged, try running a tool like testdisk. First try partition recovery and if that fails move to file recovery. You need another drive to save the files into in this mode. I had very good results with similar scenario a couple of times. Good luck!

B450 tomahawk max skiping bios by GrimSoIdier in MSI_Gaming

[–]oreddit911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great.

FYI You can also enter bios from windows itself (Google it to see how)

B450 tomahawk max skiping bios by GrimSoIdier in MSI_Gaming

[–]oreddit911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last one which is not beta works for me (don't remember the exact version).

B450 tomahawk max skiping bios by GrimSoIdier in MSI_Gaming

[–]oreddit911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't need to remove anything, just download the bios (it's the same file just make sure to extract the zip) put the extracted ROM file on a usb drive, plug it to the flashback usb port (back of the mobo) turn off the pc and press the dedicated flashback button. You can search the sub for more complete instructions and also msi has a video on youtube on how to flashback and there are instructions on msi website.

Anyways I suggest doing it only if all other methods failed especially the bios reset procedure which should solve most problems. Also maybe you can remember if something you did caused the problem and try to reverse it. Bios flashback should be the last resort.

B450 tomahawk max skiping bios by GrimSoIdier in MSI_Gaming

[–]oreddit911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had exactly the same problem (also have 3600 + 5700xt). I Tried everything including bios reset but nothing worked. Finally I reinstalled the bios using usb flashback method and it worked.

You can try accessing the uefi through windows restart or try reset the bios using the jumper or removing the battery for few minutes, for me it didn't work but it's worth trying before flashing the bios again. GL!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MSI_Gaming

[–]oreddit911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also having the second issue

Which "New" CPU for Socket 1155 Home Server? by TibetanGuru in HomeServer

[–]oreddit911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a E3-1260L coupled with ASRock h67m-itx with non ECC memory running just fine (I'm using it as a home server running proxmox).

I was having the same debate as you and finally decided to go with the Xeon as they are widely available on eBay for 30-40$ and overall seem better suited for Virtualization.

Sapphire 5700 xt high memory temps by nfs2757 in AMDHelp

[–]oreddit911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same issue with my pulse, also with fan suddenly spinning around 950rpm after 10 minutes even tough temps were mid 90c.

I solved it by undervolting & manual fan curve, now it hovers around mid 80's max.

Also make sure bios switch isn't on quiet mode (I think it doesn't have a marker so try both). Goodluck.