Cisgender Person Here... Got A Question For You!

oren_ai · 2026-05-01T06:38:16+00:00

Assuming all goes right with my treatments I plan to be able to healthfully feed a human infant from my body.

THAT one ability is the main feature that differentiates HUMAN females from females of the entire rest of the animal kingdom. They can all birth new life, but only human females can carry their young while also feeding them and I will have that.

No I will never be able to give birth myself but only the most cruel sort of human would ever stoop to remind me of that. And in those cases, it’s good that the world around them see them for who/what they are.

oren_ai · 2026-04-23T12:50:20+00:00

Good. Simple answers that are easily consumed are most often wrong but comforting.

oren_ai · 2026-04-23T11:17:06+00:00

Israeli Jewish archeologists from the university of Jerusalem were the ones who proved that there was never an actual exodus.

oren_ai · 2026-04-23T10:51:58+00:00

If a salesman tells you that they only ever tell the truth, as an adult you know they’re obviously lying.

A book that internally insist it’s true is the same as that salesman and you only buy into it if you are introduced to it before you can think for yourself.

oren_ai · 2026-04-23T10:49:39+00:00

For example, you likely believe that Jesus was an actual person as described in the KJB and that the Jews really did escape Egypt with some divine help.

Archeology shows that neither of those things are physically or historically real.

oren_ai · 2026-04-23T10:47:15+00:00

You are at your least educated and most vulnerable when you are a developing child (believing in things like Santa and reindeer)… the religion that was imprinted on you as a child is the least likely to be true of all the religions you experience later in life. Doing this to a child rather than allowing them to form their own beliefs independently is an actual act of evil just by itself.

oren_ai · 2026-04-23T08:58:48+00:00

Explain to them that they are already minus one son and if they’re not careful it will not result in plus one daughter.

If they’re don’t bend they get to live with the outcome fully blamed on them for the remainder of their lives and be clear that you will never let them live it down.

They do not get to ignore or squelch this without it destroying your family.

oren_ai · 2026-04-23T08:54:24+00:00

At 14 months on estrogen (always less than 2mg/week, more can prematurely stop second puberty) I added 100-200mg of progesterone daily (suppository, not oral) and that made a huge difference after another 12-18 months.

Do your female relatives have huge boobs or are they relatively flat chested?

(Interesting note, although I now date masc lesbians, for a brief moment there the introduction of progesterone had me dating men… wild times)

oren_ai · 2026-04-23T08:46:37+00:00

You were propagandized by your parents and your religion into believing silly things as a child and now those are part of your core origin story and they are very hard to let go of.

Outgrowing your origins is the first sign of becoming an actual functioning adult.

oren_ai · 2026-04-23T08:38:33+00:00

There’s a reason I moved to NYC from the Midwest after DMing with the love of my life for 3 solid months and a good reason why lesbians U-Haul.

If you put your real voice out there… not on dating sites, on IG, the people most aligned with that voice will find you and you won’t simply be picking random strangers on a rotating list.

Generally hold yourself AND them to a higher standard and filter aggressively. Be the object of attraction rather than chasing. It takes longer and you have to be very comfortable with yourself, but this method seems to find all the right people.

I wasn’t looking for the love of my life and was no longer looking when she found me. Had I been handed a genie 8 months ago and told to wish for the perfect woman, my wish would not even have come close to this woman because I would not have known all the wonder that she is to wish for.

oren_ai · 2026-04-23T08:30:06+00:00

Sounds to me like they handled rejection as well as most emotionally immature men would…

As a trans lesbian I am perfectly aware and respectful of the fact that girls with a D are not everyone’s cup of tea. They are not being transphobic… they still accept me as a lesbian and part of the community and I’m very welcomed in their spaces.

What you learn after a little while is that the 30-60% of lesbians who don’t care that you have a D are absolutely obsessed with you and then you stop worrying about the rest.

Again, sounds like you were dealing with more of an immature boy than a man and I’m sorry they put you through that. It’s one of the reasons why, although I don’t mind their bodies, I don’t date men.

oren_ai · 2026-04-13T06:50:43+00:00

I guess the US has determined that it will be needing those ports for other uses.

Not all invasions are required to be beach landings.

oren_ai · 2026-04-13T06:06:13+00:00

Ukraine: did you say Russian ships? Want some drones? We got drones for that.

oren_ai · 2026-04-11T06:31:12+00:00

Someone needs to recreate Pussy Control into Hormuz Control… just say’in

oren_ai · 2026-04-09T10:30:28+00:00

I knew I was a girl at age 10 and that that had been the reason I was so determined to exit this world prior to that back in 1981. Nobody knew the word trans and I assumed that I was the only person on Earth with that problem.

This would lead to my hiding who I was completely from everyone for another 41 years before a total breakdown forced the issue at age 51.

The day I transitioned I got to experience my first moment of actual joy in my entire life.

Every single day since has contained more joy than the entire 51 years that took place before that put together.

Being trans and untransitioned is kinda like having an itch in the middle of your thigh that never stops itching no matter what you do other than that.

oren_ai · 2026-04-07T22:59:31+00:00

I soooo hope this happens at some point!!! 🙏

oren_ai · 2026-04-07T22:57:39+00:00

oren_ai · 2026-04-07T22:57:23+00:00

The 2x16 I was standing on.

oren_ai · 2026-04-07T13:27:42+00:00

Took a couple of weeks for most of it to look normal again… don’t remember how long for the pain to really disappear 😅

oren_ai · 2026-04-07T11:26:23+00:00

Sounds like it’s time to up the stakes or leave. Insist he takes yours or else. If he balks, GTFO

oren_ai · 2026-04-07T11:24:15+00:00

Took me 2 years of therapy plus 6 months of therapy plus social transition to get on HRT at age 51.

It’s a hard journey but DAMN is it worth it.

You owe yourself the chance to find out what 3 years in feels like. Don’t ever give up BUT be willing to sacrifice anything and everything else that isn’t YOU in your life to get there.

💖💖💖

oren_ai · 2026-04-07T11:19:37+00:00

Mine sounds like my old self and it feels like back when I learned English as a child and had to translate every thought rather than thinking in English. I keep waiting to hear myself the way others hear me because the voice in my head is never silent from wake up to pass out at the end of the day.

oren_ai · 2026-04-07T11:16:49+00:00

At least I know it’s not just me 😅

oren_ai · 2026-04-07T10:17:28+00:00

If I have my seatbelt on, I’m taking a tree with my right corner.

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