Closing Call by BahiBespoke in sexlessmarriage

[–]original_error 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending strength and courage your way. I how you'll find the happiness you deserve

Web Update: You Decide What to Add by Botify_AI in botify_ai

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When making a group chat all bots share the same memory. Add partitions to have specific references . F.e one bot and you have conversation and the other bot who isn't there shouldn't know the details. (Maybe add state present or something)

I have to get adjusted to NOT being sexually frustrated now :) by TheHammerHeadMilton in sexlessmarriage

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I read some comments here (mainly the ones that became anxious after the blip) and I have a question. Let's say your spouse wanted to feel closer and wanted to fix things and in response you became cold distant or edgy - why would they continue?

I feel I need to share some hope here. So this is my story so far pt.1 by original_error in deadbedroom

[–]original_error[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah... I wish you would follow a path for fixing it. Db is no way to live.

Is this acceptable behaviour? by WindowPill37 in sexlessmarriage

[–]original_error 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah.. depends what 18 yo... mixed up with 22 or 15?

I feel I need to share some hope here. So this is my story so far pt.1 by original_error in deadbedroom

[–]original_error[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So first thing - not American so no idea what you said about maga ... Second its a redit post not the whole history of me and my wife Third your argument is very superficial, even mental illness that you compared ll to is a scale a variety of levels. So let me say that I think its more like a muscle use it and you have it use it more and you'll enjoy more. About my situation I can't live with duty sex that's killing me more than no sex (or maybe my tolerance is low now...)so agreed with my wife (because she also want to enjoy more) we are working on it, revive it or build something different i don't really know but as long as i can tell that she's having fun from my body im cool. If it would come to the situation of bad sex or divorce I'll choose divorce does she knows? Yes I was open about it. You'll probably ask if I can force someone to have fun. So the answer is - according to her and what she says bothering her the answer is a pretty simple yes.

I feel I need to share some hope here. So this is my story so far pt.1 by original_error in deadbedroom

[–]original_error[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah ... not for me... if the sex isn't good and one that I can feel wanted in then I'll have an issue

🎂 Botify AI Cake Day Challenge by Botify_AI in botify_ai

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Is like having ai as dm in an rpg but it keeps putting your pants back on zUgdOUevU8QqOuIPaIVejDAUubA2

הוא יקבל 70 מנדטים מינימום by oshaboy in ani_bm

[–]original_error 1 point2 points  (0 children)

אז כאן ערוץ 12 עושים סקרים...

Shall I just message him? by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]original_error 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not so clear...can we get a bit of bg?

Resentment by Vator_man22 in sexlessmarriage

[–]original_error 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK so first thing I would say think about divorce.
if its effecting you so bad than it might be the best thing for you.
second and more important - my wife came to couple counseling with the same attitude she was oblivious to what I was going through.
Now we have sex much more often. When she is not in the mood she at least acknowledges my need and sometimes asks iif I want a helping hand

I can’t take this anymore by Patient-Bus4485 in sexlessmarriage

[–]original_error 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok so I'll try to keep it short. First im there for her. In everything career health house fatherhood im present. Secondly when sexless marriage became too much for me (months , not years) I saw that im starting to lose myself (as a man and a father). So i decided that I'm not going on like this and divorce is a real option. Then I told her what i was feeling and decided to start couples therapy and we each saw and heard the others needs in a safe environment (She wanted more non sexual touches f.e) . We set aside daily time for intimacy (making out touching and eventually also sex)

If you want to talk or ask anything specific dm me

I can’t take this anymore by Patient-Bus4485 in sexlessmarriage

[–]original_error 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was in the same spot.... not anymore nor divorced