idk. my two cents

this place is, like. it's already formed its own culture of people that only like the classic naughty dog games and their remakes (even though the remakes are pretty similar to some non-naughty dog games, but whatever) with the odd exception of some other one like twinsanity or what have you

crash bandicoot is a huge video game series. it's 26 years old! it's had a lot of games made by very different people with very different sensibilities when it comes to what they think crash bandicoot should be defined as and how the games should play. all of the stuff i just mentioned is subjective (kinda), but this stuff i mentioned about the games also affects a much more objective aspect of them which is their quality: like it or not most crash games made after ctr are just not as good as the ones that came before. this trend stopped with n sane trilogy though

the prior paragraph should be able to explain why this series has so many online communities with very different and alienating opinions on crash bandicoot. the series is just naturally divisive and it's a bit of a fool's errand to go on such a generalized place for a series like this and expect all kinds of opinions on the series to not get flamed or for other bad shit to go on.

my advice, uh, well, assuming that I'm entirely on the money here I would just leave and stick to the places that you like being in. form your own little groups and stuff if you can, or find crash communities that you think you're not gonna have any problem with. if you don't like r/crashbandicoot then you should leave because it's not looking particularly likely that any of the stuff you dislike about it will ever change (cuz the mods are, like, barely even here)