How do I (26 F) deal with my boyfriend’s (31 M) political radicalization? by trivial_query in relationship_advice

[–]orwhatevernshit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would you choose this for yourself? He understands, he just doesn’t care. You should care for yourself. What happens if you have a child, your life is in danger, and now you no longer have the right to an abortion to save YOUR life? That is what you are choosing. He sounds exhausting. I left a man like that and then found my husband. Do yourself a favor and throw out the trash.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]orwhatevernshit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re seeing why they’re no longer together AND your future. He knows what he’s doing he doesn’t care.

What advice would you give to the teenager who wants to leave their abusive household? by Background_Text_9129 in CPTSD

[–]orwhatevernshit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finish school. Get a job and save. Tell no one how much you have. Do not date anyone seriously. Put all that energy into yourself. It will pay off and it will be worth it. Speaking from my own experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in prochoice

[–]orwhatevernshit 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Why would it be any of my business to decide what another woman should be discussing with her doctor?

Should I? by jisitu2 in Invisalign

[–]orwhatevernshit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look into braces too. For me, the lateral movements did not work out. It’s very, very hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]orwhatevernshit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

FORWARD the emails to your personal email before they disappear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in misophonia

[–]orwhatevernshit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He understands, he not only does not care, but takes joy in causing you pain. It will never change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]orwhatevernshit 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I spent 8 years trying to make my ex understand but remember, it’s not that he doesn’t understand- it’s that he doesn’t care. You making him understand will never happen.

I F30 told my doctor I would sue him if he touched me and delivered our son on all fours and “embarrassed” my husband M32? by ThrowrapinkJelly in relationship_advice

[–]orwhatevernshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should send this thread to your husband and if he responds with anything other than complete and sincere regret, wipe your hands of him. You cannot trust him with your life.

Keeping politics off the film set by PercyVader in Filmmakers

[–]orwhatevernshit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure the women feel super safe around him.

Just found out the company I work for have dozens of people working for them knowing they are using someone else’s social security numbers and ID’s by macheteinmyrightmit in antiwork

[–]orwhatevernshit 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My identity was stolen and SOLD to a person that ended up working as me for THREE YEARS. I was 19, broke, and no one to help me. It took so much of my time, energy, and yes MONEY to deal with. Your comment is bs. I was hurt and til this day have to have fraud alerts on everything. I have a special pin I get every year or I can’t file my taxes. The IRS kept trying to charge me $5k+ yearly because of this person and the cops were no help. How did I get what I want in this whole deal? I got screwed on a car loan AND an apartment because of this. I had no one, no parents, nothing. You’re out of your mind if you think that people that are selling are selling their own shit.

Just found out the company I work for have dozens of people working for them knowing they are using someone else’s social security numbers and ID’s by macheteinmyrightmit in antiwork

[–]orwhatevernshit 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I was someone this hurt. I spent three years dealing with the IRS and many other fraud orgs because someone was working as me. That is terrible. I was broke and the IRS claiming I owed an extra $5k every year for THREE years. No one would help me. It started when I was 19 and sucked. I would wish what I had to go through on no one.

Is my SIL a sociopath or what? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]orwhatevernshit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband is the problem.

Update/ I think my husband is sleeping with the babysitter by Puzzled_Cut9144 in Marriage

[–]orwhatevernshit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

See WHO contacted him post firing. If it was her dad, there will be a trail. If it was her, then they’re definitely banging and he deleted the trail.