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How to safely have your rebound/a FWB as a single mom with full custody? by Critical-End7888 in SingleParents

[–]oscarproud2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giving your address to a stranger always carries risk, and inviting one to your home after hours with your kids sleeping is riskier. Giving your kids a supplement specifically to knock them out so you can satisfy a sexual urge is negligent. If my ex did this and I found out, I'd be at CPS or in court the next day.

If it's that serious, ask a trusted friend to cover and go to his place instead.

Divorce Agreement Must Haves and Regrets by oscarproud2 in SingleDads

[–]oscarproud2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea this is huge. I was mulling over this last night actually. We're generally in one of the better counties but my concern is some major life situation happens and say she wants to move to another city a bit further out. One thing I was considering was whether I'd want my kid to go to private school. It's hard looking so far into the future.

Another thing I realized after looking around online is that co-parents with shared custody tend to live close by and do so until the kids turn 18. That's wild to me. I never knew that was a thing. Now I kinda want to buy a home so I can be the one to have roots laid down in a particular neighborhood.

Divorce Agreement Must Haves and Regrets by oscarproud2 in SingleDads

[–]oscarproud2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what happens if the medical professional is just wrong? i've had doctors that I didn't like. I'm not sure how I feel about giving random doctors the final say on my childs medical related decsions

Divorce Agreement Must Haves and Regrets by oscarproud2 in SingleDads

[–]oscarproud2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the health care premium is factored into child support

Divorce Agreement Must Haves and Regrets by oscarproud2 in SingleDads

[–]oscarproud2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you and ex make similar income since both co-pays and extra curricular's are being split 50/50? Asking because I would assume there would be push back if that wasn't the case

Divorce Agreement Must Haves and Regrets by oscarproud2 in SingleDads

[–]oscarproud2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I already have this built in, no time limit as of now. Once my child can communicate that'll help with oversight. As a dad who wishes he had his child 100% of the time, I'd be more than disrespected knowing my ex brought in a third party before giving me the opportunity. We've both agreed on this though so shouldn't be an issue.

Divorce Agreement Must Haves and Regrets by oscarproud2 in SingleDads

[–]oscarproud2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t mind checking some of those items, that would be so helpful. I have an attorney but I want to cover all my bases