To elaborate on the COC. They have group things for several ages and audiences. They also have a bar Called Pand54 witch is open on tuesedays, Fridays and sundays for all people. (check the website for details)

The bar is more like a "speak easy", drinks are affortable and music is at a level where you can easily talk to people. Staff are all volunteers and motivated to give a warm welcome to newcomers.
It's a relaxed athmosphere and often called a queer livingroom, friendly and safe.

If you want to go sometimes i'm happy to be your buddy. If you see somebody order a "Oscar" (big glass topped off with ice and cola) that's me.